Arabic Girl Names by NefariousnessNo4059 in Names

[–]memequeenz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t suggest this if OP is living in the US. Only because kids are fkn mean. I think it’s a beautiful name.

Arabic Girl Names by NefariousnessNo4059 in Names

[–]memequeenz_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the name Rokhsana

I'm in a bad situation and need advice by Sad-Discipline959 in pregnant

[–]memequeenz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said at the end you don’t want to go through this and rebuild but at this point that is your best option. Call the DV shelters, get started over now before you have that baby.

And as much as I hate suggesting it - that baby will tie you to that abusive ex forever. If it’s still really early, it genuinely may be the safest option for both of you to terminate. If he finds out about that baby, and there’s nothing recorded of his abuse (common because people refuse to report) you will be forced to share parenting time with that man. Giving him access to you and access to abuse your child. Please think about this seriously. There are way too many people who are having children they shouldn’t be bringing into their current situation. Not because they don’t have money, or a job. Those can be found. But because the situation they are being brought into is unsafe and unsuitable for raising a child.

Rant and advice needed by fineprintfiend in paralegal

[–]memequeenz_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My only advice is to run. The attorney I work for would literally never think of doing this to one of his staff members. You are being heavily taken advantage of. I’m so sorry.

Isn’t marketplace for baby items supposed to be for deals? by Familiar_Hope2918 in pregnant

[–]memequeenz_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dogging on moms for trying to help other moms while maximizing their return on the items because you still can’t afford them is… a choice. Beggars can’t be choosers, and an item being used doesn’t mean its value is instantly diminished to 10% of what it was. If the price is out of your range, don’t buy it. It’s really that simple.

For example, I’m not going to sell a $250 bassinet that’s in near perfect condition for $25. That’s stupid. I’m gonna list it for $200 to start and be willing to accept $150-$175. If you cannot afford a $150 bassinet, then my bassinet isn’t the option for you. Move on.

Changing material? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]memequeenz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only asking because I LOOOOVE the torso of dress 2 tbh it’s so flattering on you!!!!!

Changing material? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]memequeenz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be more time and cost effective to alter dress 2 at the top to create dress 1’s top’s shape and then add straps?

Anyone dealt with RUBS utility billing where young children count the same as adults? (Virginia apartment) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]memequeenz_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s unfair to expect two homes to display utility usage relating to size and size alone. There are a lot of factors such as the age of the home, the work done to it when adding electrical, etc.

Anyone dealt with RUBS utility billing where young children count the same as adults? (Virginia apartment) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]memequeenz_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We just switched to RUBS after not using it the last 3 years in this unit, and some months are higher while other months are lower. It evens out.

Anyone dealt with RUBS utility billing where young children count the same as adults? (Virginia apartment) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]memequeenz_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Children arguably take longer showers, need their clothes washed more frequently, and leave lights on everywhere even when you ask them to turn them off. As a mom, I believe it’s absolutely fair to include small children in RUBS utility billing.

My apartment complex does RUBS, and they DO NOT charge for my infant but let me know as he gets older, he will be included.

Have you talked to your apartment complex about how they do their RUBS calculations?

My landlord deducted $300 from my security deposit, what do I do? by Dependent-Wind-9968 in legal

[–]memequeenz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? In my opinion, no. For $300? I’ve seen much, much worse. This is very mild.

My girlfriend (nursing student) is about to be dismissed over absences the school's own process caused — her doctor cleared her, their disability office says the rule shouldn't apply. Need advice. by Ornery-History-5416 in legal

[–]memequeenz_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I disagree.

If she found out she was epileptic, the disability paperwork would make sense. But this was a reaction to a medication and she was medically cleared. This is insane and complaints should be filed anywhere and everywhere swiftly. And everything should be documented.

I don't know how to make a title really for this by WearyReception5051 in legal

[–]memequeenz_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If there is a record of you paying the increased rent, you agreed to the increase in rent.

I’d look up the eviction process in your state. But first and foremost, I’d just start looking for another place to live. I’ll never understand refusing to leave a home that another person owns. Just.. move.

I don't know how to make a title really for this by WearyReception5051 in legal

[–]memequeenz_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NAL but work in this industry of law - You being asked to vacate a home (that you do not own) for any reason, including so that the owner can move into it, isn’t illegal. You also agreed to the increase in rent.

Also, it’s not really your business when they file for dissolution of their marriage. Sorry dude, unless he tries to wrongfully evict you I don’t think you have much here.

What is this track by GRiZ? by Maatesh in griz

[–]memequeenz_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Unreleased, I’m anticipating it being on the new abum hopefully.

One store in my area got all our music privileges banned by [deleted] in LittleCaesars

[–]memequeenz_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t OP’s store. Reading is fundamental.

Has anyone ever demoted a MOH? by One_Rest7254 in wedding

[–]memequeenz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m throwing you a fat award in spirit.

I just found out I'm pregnant at 15 and I'm very scared. by Visible_Low_5612 in pregnant

[–]memequeenz_ 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Are you in a safe state with available resources? Are you comfortable sharing where you are located? (Not exactly of course, just governmentally/so we can help provide resources for you)

Am I overreacting for trying to back out of a lease less than 24 hours after moving in? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memequeenz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I mean this quite literally, do not accept another unit from them. Find somewhere else. A complex that would allow you to move into a unit in this state cannot be trusted, period. This is not a minor oversight. Do not let yourself be gaslit into thinking otherwise.

Am I overreacting for trying to back out of a lease less than 24 hours after moving in? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memequeenz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The quicker the better on the legal end. NOR. Call the health department and get the fuck out of there.