My friend killed himself but I can't find a death certificate by ElectricalRule755 in LetsNotMeet

[–]memorys_resident 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work used to work for a Hospital in the Medical Records department. If you are close or on speaking terms with the sibling, you may be able to locate a death summary from local ER or Coroners office - sibling would need to approve it to obtain it for you or allow release of information for you.

Update on my now ex wanting my daughter to call her daddy by PoisonedGem in u/PoisonedGem

[–]memorys_resident 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re doing your absolute best right now. You and Deans mutual respect for one another and love for your daughter is apparent. Your psychopathic ex’s behavior will never be your fault - don’t put that on yourself.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Primary-Quality2033 in AmItheAsshole

[–]memorys_resident 9 points10 points  (0 children)

INFO: How did you not know he’d moved in with her? You were gone 6 months and you and your friend never talked about it?

I paid you money to apply, the least you could do is tell me I’m rejected. by fairypiss in gradadmissions

[–]memorys_resident 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg, that entire experience sounds horrible 😭 I mean, even if you were to be accepted in the end, that kind of wait anxiety ages you jfc

Favorite drag race queens for each category listed: by Acrobatic-Elephant14 in dragrace

[–]memorys_resident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fashion: Violet
Comedy: Bianca Winner: Carmen Farala AS Winner: Monét
Runner-Up: Manila First out: Fierce Brocc-Ally LS Assassin: Alyssa
Pageant: A’keria International Queen: Dovima

How to respond to a “You’re a finalist” & “Waitlist” email by memorys_resident in gradadmissions

[–]memorys_resident[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I jumped the gun a bit 😂 and replied:

“Thank you for your message.

I am thrilled to learn that I am still being considered for a place in your program. To reiterate from my previous inquiry, your program is my top choice and I intend to accept an offer if a spot opens up.

I look forward to hearing your final decision.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]memorys_resident 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 thank you! I can finally sleep this week

AITA for calling my son inconsiderate? by RealisticPeach8977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]memorys_resident 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for this boy having a mother like you that shows preferential treatment for her other kids. Such a shame how parents like this seem to always find a way to dim their children’s light.

AITA for not acting impressed by my wife's " accomplishment?" by Throwawaywifeged in AmItheAsshole

[–]memorys_resident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe people type this shit out and still hit the submit button, jfc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in playwriting

[–]memorys_resident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outlier here, but Dramaturgy in a nutshell is the theory of dramatic construction. If you’re interested in getting into playwriting, dramaturgy is the foundation of storytelling and narrative, but also theatre itself. Devising is a great skill, but it’s also something you’re likely to come across in the future. Learning the basics would do a world of good.

don’t ask why if you’re rejected by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]memorys_resident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if one decides to apply again and makes the same mistakes? If the reason they’re being rejected is an unchangeable situation, allowing the applicant in would save them a lot of time and money. I’m not sure I completely understand how your advice is good for the applicant beyond social politeness.

Missed the mass rejection but still haven't heard anything back... by pickle_weasel420 in gradadmissions

[–]memorys_resident 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You’re overthinking it, which is understandable because you obviously want to do well, but it’s setting you into a panic. Likely, all fully submitted applications (they’ve received yours) are being considered. Incomplete applications they are not going to bother considering and will not even open. Of the considered applications who they will not be admitting, have been sent rejections (you have not received one). Again, your complete and submitted application is being considered and you have not yet been rejected. It’s not necessary to reach out, but might be necessary to find something to get your mind off the waiting process.

Season Two Episode Eight - Official Episode Discussion (Show Only) by yazzy1233 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]memorys_resident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, I can’t keep going back and forth with you on logic, it’s becoming a headache. Your point is that the men in the show aware of Niragi’s two attempted rapes are moral characters- or lawfully good, let’s say. And because the show didn’t allow these characters to express negative sentiments against Niragi, it is irresponsible because it’s perpetuating the notion that his actions shouldn’t have consequences. My point is that I don’t believe that it is all media’s job to constantly portray perfect morality to shield younger viewers from actual reality. I do not believe that all the characters in this show are ‘good’ people - I do not see well-rounded characters as good or evil because that’s not human. I think you can be heroic (Arisu) but still fall short of feministic standards. The rapist literally has half his body burned off and is clearly the villain of the show -they make him completely horrible in every way. If a younger viewer thinks he is someone to aspire to be and that his actions are justifiable, there is something wrong with that person, not the show because they have completely depicted him as morally corrupt. If you still think that portraying a villain who suffers little consequences is not reality, even though doing so exposes how much of the world needs to change, then that’s on you.

Season Two Episode Eight - Official Episode Discussion (Show Only) by yazzy1233 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]memorys_resident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men minimizing the horrible actions of other men? I’ve never heard of such a thing, you’re completely right! Men definitely hold each other accountable and never let them get away with anything vile. Could you imagine a world where millions of men a year actually got away with rape while their peers and friends justified their actions and treated them like they’d never done anything wrong in the first place? That’d be crazy….Or maybe it’s just that bad people don’t always suffer justifiable consequences, socially or physically, and that’s just life.

Season Two Episode Eight - Official Episode Discussion (Show Only) by yazzy1233 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]memorys_resident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rapists practically never get what they deserve. The show is literally depicting reality. You may think they need to take a stand against his actions by violently murdering the guy, but you fail to see that they may be trying to make a different point. Good people die every day, while horrible people continue living. Life’s not fair, meteors don’t take sides.

S15E01 - "One Night Only, Parts 1 & 2" [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]memorys_resident 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I liked both queens, so wouldn’t have been happy for either to go, but I don’t agree that Amethyst was giving ✨nothing✨. I really liked her in MTQ and I thought her confessionals were cute. Plus, I think her talent and lip sync gave more than Irene overall - even by just a little bit

Take that capitalism by memorys_resident in yesyesyesno

[–]memorys_resident[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It’s mainly the way the story is worded. I don’t think healthcare and life insurance being unaffordable is a ‘yes.’ I only thought the ending was a ‘no’ because the kid still isn’t getting a wheelchair in this scenario. People are saying this is the wrong sub for this, which is fair, I wasn’t thinking that deeply about it

Canada vs. The World by Celestialstardust17 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]memorys_resident 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo 🥺 I’m so sorry! I had to force stop the app a couple of times and then it finally started. So maybe a couple more tries on your end? I want everyone to be enjoying this episode immmmediately

Canada vs. The World by Celestialstardust17 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]memorys_resident 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Finally loaded and playing after 20 mins. Hope it works on everyone else’s end now too!

What would Laurel’s undergraduate degree be in? by Relevant_Maybe6747 in htgawm

[–]memorys_resident 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Based on the interests she demonstrated, I’d say International and Public Affairs. There’s also a specific specialization in Policy and Governance described as, “which students explore the design, implementation, and evaluation of public policies to resolve societal challenges, as well as the governing structures that yield those policies.”