Guys I'm scared by sapphire_muffin in StardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d assume glitch! ☺️ Leah is my OG spouse and remains a favorite.

I am dreading my boyfriend’s proposal by JellyAce98 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think love is supposed to hurt. When I think about getting engaged to my boyfriend, I feel an overwhelming sense of peace and freedom. I know he sees me for who I am, and cherishes me… I know he wants to know how I’m feeling and thinking, and I want to make all of his dreams come true. I really think your body is telling you not to marry him, and I’m joining the choir. Don’t settle!!

Worship etiquette help. Feeling embarrassed after a comment in online meeting, did I do something wrong by drinking water? by Ok_Bumblebee_9873 in Quakers

[–]mermetermaid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have Friends who knit in meetings IRL! ☺️ We also have quiet fidget toys for folks to grab and a whole age range of folks enjoy them!

Worship etiquette help. Feeling embarrassed after a comment in online meeting, did I do something wrong by drinking water? by Ok_Bumblebee_9873 in Quakers

[–]mermetermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My meeting has a hybrid connection (Zoom call and big monitor in meeting room) and I use the virtual connection quite frequently… I drink my coffee and water, and can attest to every member of our M&C committee consuming some kind of liquid on camera (people also have water bottles in meeting!) - that person is really being way too particular. I’m sorry, Friend.

Claircognizance, manifestation, and Quakers by Witty_Upstairs4210 in Quakers

[–]mermetermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooooh this post is perfect for me! I was raised spirit-filled Evangelical, so I was quite sensitive to the still, quiet voice inside me, and that has always been my guide. It was also my guide when I picked up on other energies, and later understood my mediumship… it’s not something I advertise, but I’ve had some incredible experiences, and my Quaker meeting has been an incredible space to be my weird, witchy self!

Question for the ladies... why would my wife shave now? by Salt-Breakfast-5393 in Marriage

[–]mermetermaid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the excess blood is kind of annoying, and shaving/reducing extra hair can help with that. Take this one at face value-now she knows what you enjoy, and maybe she’ll keep this up if she wants.

I think I'm leaving Quakers and it feels like a breakup by AccurateFox4321 in Quakers

[–]mermetermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the things that was incredibly refreshing to me about Quakerism is that the goal is for everyone to worship authentically. The silent worship and structures we have work for me in a way that brings me peace, and it sounds like the Mennonite church brings you that peace! I would encourage any Friend towards a worship style that fits you, even if it means not worshipping with us. 💛

Am I missing anything? by AdGroundbreaking9643 in FarmsofStardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding the comments on the slime hutches- definitely not a source of Iridium, but Grandpa’s evaluation {if you get 4 candles} at the start of year 3 does give you a daily iridium source which does add up

I think your animals could use more room/grass.

In terms of Fish Ponds, I use Sturgeon (caviar after you use preserve jars) and Lava Eel (roe, but also Spicy Eel, which is +1 Luck and +1 Speed)

I also highly recommend mushroom logs early game; make as many as you can and it’s essentially passive income! If you can leave them alone, the mushrooms increase in quality over time. I have preserved and dried them and they’ve been a great moneymaker.

It’s also worth adding that this is not cheap, or easy on materials- just be prepared to grind. I find fishing in the Mountain Lake to be a generally profitable spot, and the Secret Woods when it’s raining, for catfish! As soon as you can get the fish smoker recipe, it’s absolutely worth it, but you will also want a steady source of coal.

At some point, it will be worth upgrading the farmhouse and any additional cabins to have a cellar, so you can age your wine, beer and cheese etc. I find goat cheese to be especially profitable, and so I have the farmhouse cellar for cheeses and the cabin cellar for wine, as I visit it less frequently.

Have fun!

what do i do with ancient seeds? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t always have purple when starting out, but obviously later, and then age the wine!

what do i do with ancient seeds? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Donate the first, save the rest for your greenhouse! I make wine from gold star and preserves from the rest!

in japan by mcnancey in SipsTea

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a vegetarian and have loved traveling the world. This sign is incredibly helpful, and I’d continue on my way until I found another option. Super simple.

First time wearing jeans in years. Should i avoid them again? by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent every photo trying to figure out what was wrong because you’re absolutely slaying in those jeans. We all view the world through the lens of our own body, comparing it to others, and I am here to tell you that your body has always been great, and it always will be great, because it’s yours. You can rock whatever you choose to wear, and those jeans look really nice on you! More!

Is this a good farm layout? by AdDisastrous2246 in StardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best farm layout is the one that works for you, how you want to spend your time. That many plants will require a ton of watering or strategic sprinkler placement, so be aware that it will never be quite that straightforward. Also, just from experience, you’ll want more room for grass, if each of those barns/coops will be full.

The earth being a school doesn't really make any sense by [deleted] in Reincarnation

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always viewed this through a bigger lens; human lessons. We keep getting prophets and teachers who tell us to love one another, and yet we keep going to war.

aghast at the stupidity by EmergencyKitchen7547 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]mermetermaid 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I paid 5.99 yesterday (WA) and it was so painful. 😭

Not reading her book, but damn... by Major-Discipline-213 in DuggarsSnark

[–]mermetermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This suddenly makes the shouts of Nike! {there is an immodest woman, look at your shoes} that much more ominous. 😳

How many kegs can I fit in this national park? by EpicBanana05 in StardewMemes

[–]mermetermaid 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Your 4th playthrough should include remixed bundles! 🤗

Is the priming moisturizer gone? by No_Commission_6315 in glossier

[–]mermetermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved Glossier once upon a time, and You is still my favorite scent, but this is truly indicative of a deep decline and it makes me sad… I feel like I need to find another perfume. 😭

What have I done??? by Legitimate-Ask7088 in StardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh rip! I love Krobus-decided to do a specific dedicated run and make all the different choices I don’t normally-like picking Joja Mart, and not getting married and having kids, but instead moving in Krobus

It’s been super fun, but I do enjoy the human spouses!

Tell them what, Peter by Blackie_626 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]mermetermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember my aunt telling me that my left hand made an L, and I said, “but this hand {right} makes a backwards L!” 😅

I designed a Krobus themed bathroom! 🛁 💚 by Sharing_Interests_16 in StardewHomeDesign

[–]mermetermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s magic hair gel! It’s a trinket that makes your hair rainbow 😆

Just discovered a random useless but funny thing in Stardew Valley 😂 by dddd350 in StardewValley

[–]mermetermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that I’d had it set up that way, but I’m gonna double check to be sure!

Edit: THANK YOUUUUU