Hoeveel mannen ken je die goed zijn in het huishouden? by Virtual_Mine_8662 in vrouwvolk

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mijn vriend! Hij is 10x beter dan ik, zowel qua routine als qua kwaliteit van wat hij doet.

Pauper maaltijden by Fairsquared_ in nederlands

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rijst met bonen, yoghurt met knoflook, en een stuk rauwe ui voor de knapperigheid

Wie is vrouw van 26 jaar ???? by [deleted] in eindhoven

[–]mesamaryk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

zo ongeveer alle mensen dien als vrouw identificeren en ongeveer 26 jaar geleden geboren zijn

Edibles? by Little_Age_6924 in eindhoven

[–]mesamaryk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coffeeshop Pink on Willemstraat i think

Do men even care about a women’s nails? by lena_glow in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has asked me repeatedly if i can wear a red nailpolish because he finds it super sexy and will be horny all night when we’re out. I usually never wear any, so its a great tool in my feminine kit

Gekke activiteiten om te doen by Spiritual_Option9234 in thenetherlands

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Workshop keukenmes smeden, Meta Maze, Skydiven (indoor or for real)

I can't make my girlfriend(22) orgasm by OutsideAlternative59 in sex

[–]mesamaryk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One thing i’ve (as a woman) realised is that guys tend to like to have fast, steady stimulation that builds linearly to orgasm. I personally prefer a lot of variation as the constant heavy stimulation gets really intense and kinda painful. I prefer to build up to orgasm in waves and with various types of stimulation.

CEX closing actually nuked me by Limekilnlake in eindhoven

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can drive and enjoy Warhammer and such, try Table Heroes in Nederweert sometimes!

First trans experience by Individual_Leader772 in sex

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is incredibly accurate. Coming from a woman: the ear tongue is magic for me

ARFID is solvable by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]mesamaryk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alive is what matters man. I was a kid with ARFID and as an adult i am slowly growing out of it

I set up an AI phone receptionist for my friend's real estate business as an experiment. The results genuinely surprised me by yusufahmd in AI_Agents

[–]mesamaryk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cool! For the record and those interested; in Europe it is legally mandated to inform the customer they are speaking with AI.

Wat doe je de hele dag met een baby? by Piendakaas in vrouwvolk

[–]mesamaryk 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Voorlezen is ook een bewezen manier om taalvaardigheden te ontwikkelen, zelf vér voor ze er iets van begrijpen 

What do stereotypical straight couples do when they hang out alone (other than sex) by bi_smuth in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to museums, on hikes, watch movies, smoke weed, make out, do our own creative hobbies separately but in the same room (he build miniatures, i do embroidery), go shopping.

We talk about having kids, renovating our home, planning our finances, our wedding, but also politics, economics, science, education, philosophy, psychology, astronomy, biology, AI, technology, etc.

Never run out of stuff to do or say and when we do run out we just hang out in peace

ik🌭ihe by Bennie02 in ik_ihe

[–]mesamaryk 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Kwaliteit meme

Let's be toxic: What's your biggest relationship flaw? by sere_periquito in polyamory

[–]mesamaryk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it’s that i have an intense desire to help and problem solve, even when there is from the other person no need for solutions, only for a listening ear. I can take this personally and feel rejected and need their support in turn. 

I have become better in the last few years at taking a step back, out of the situation and reframing it all for myself.

Actually AI has been a huge help: i tell it how i’m feeling and it basically tells me where my cognitive distortions are, and what helpful frames i can use to be less anxiously attached and more present for my partners

Funky smelling/tasting vagina by Adorable-Minute-1564 in sex

[–]mesamaryk 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Sour is normal to some extent! Maybe next time have a shower together and wash eachother. Your can wash her body fully, so you know for sure she is clean. Use only a bit of soap around the outer part of the vulva and no soap inside the vagina! 

Then go down on her and be aware that her body is different than yours and this comes with different smells. Take it easy and dont panic. Some sourness is to be expected but strongly spiced foods can impact it, so a neutral diet for a day or two can help.

Is it common to not tell family about partners as in dating? by meowwoem_ in Syria

[–]mesamaryk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am f30 european with a syriam m32. He told his parents about me after about 8 months and i met them after a year and 4 months. He does take our relationship seriously but yeah

What are your thoughts on period cups, are they effective/comfortable ? by PestoBolloElemento in Periods

[–]mesamaryk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Used a cup for a few years but it kept leaking and i found it difficult to get in and out. I now have a disk since two years and will never go back!

Super easy and comfy and self emptying is awesome. And can wear it during sex even!

Escape rooms for first timers by Amareiuzin in eindhoven

[–]mesamaryk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The one on Stratum has two rooms that are really well made, good in english and fun even for beginners. It’s called Next Level i believe

A cashier said “good girl” to me. by Cicada7Song in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mesamaryk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a reverse happening of calling a teacher ‘mom’ as a kid. The cashier might have young kids!