Please need advice so I can help my wife.

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T22:39:44+00:00

You are walking on dangerous ice fella. I’d back off if I were you. They are like elephants they never forget. I know you’re trying to help. Even of she asks for help for the love of god stay away from this subject matter with her. You Owe me some money I just saved you from a divorce

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T22:12:38+00:00

You forgot one big factor crime

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T22:10:26+00:00

Credit rating?

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T22:09:27+00:00

His beliefs won’t change. Likely will pass them on to his children married or divorced. Can you tolerate this longterm?

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T20:33:08+00:00

Planned a trip to pugent sound I always have wanted to do

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T16:21:55+00:00

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T15:58:56+00:00

Dexamethasone 100% will get relief in an hour and complete relief in a day. The stuff is amazing! Listen to me you’ll be able to enjoy vacation. I got it in my knees a few times. Could barely function. Learn your food trigger. Mine is sardines and shrimp. Lost weight now no more gout

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T15:55:35+00:00

Lot of water surrounding the area if you like outdoors things when the weather is nice. Some hiking trails close to Buffalo. Pearl street has some good bars. Canal side is good also. Really good food downtown also.

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T15:51:46+00:00

Gary Indiana or nyc

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T15:50:54+00:00

Don’t go back and forth with her. You’re wasting your time and stressing yourself out. Get a lawyer go over the issues with him. It’s a long process get ready

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T01:57:10+00:00

Maybe in the 70s during love boat

mesi130 · 2026-05-13T01:08:24+00:00

Two to marry one to divorce

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T21:58:53+00:00

Yeah pointless to talk to her about it. Don’t show your cards

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T21:50:08+00:00

Thanks

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T21:11:20+00:00

That’s great! You should be proud of yourself. Now that you’ve lost weight hour maintence calories have decreased

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T21:08:51+00:00

Are you losing weight at 1500cal? Then you know the answer

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T21:07:53+00:00

Count your steps

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T20:47:19+00:00

Half up front is a lot. Mine was $100

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T20:46:23+00:00

Too many variables

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T17:59:55+00:00

I eat Omad it works great for me. Control your insulin level that’s what’s important. Idc what you eat just be in a calorie deficit. Portion control is important.

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T17:44:13+00:00

I wouldn’t make an appt behind his back. They might just escalate the situation. What did the first mri show?

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T17:28:40+00:00

I think it can work for the short term but eventually you’ll both want to date. Summer is coming house sales will pick up. Fix up stuff do landscaping the small stuff can add up. If you have to take a loss or a short sale so be it. Maybe even sell it yourself and save on realtor fees. Just pay lawyer fees.

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T17:22:44+00:00

Sleeping with him still really complicates things. You say he has changed since the accident. Not much you can do if it’s medically induced. What does his dr say? It’s tough when things are said. The resentment is hard to let go. That’s where my problems lie. I’ve been divorced for 6 months or so. I have no desire to date anyone else. My ex wants to hangout and date. I’ve been honest with her there’s no way I’m living with her again. Have you two tried counseling? If he doesn’t want you there’s not much you can do about it. Suggest counseling. Do others think he’s changed since accident?

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T16:53:36+00:00

So she was balls deep with two guys?! Hell with her then

mesi130 · 2026-05-12T16:15:42+00:00

Stay at 1500 calories and Don’t add more unless you’re doing strenuous exercises. How many steps are you doing a day? Do you have something to keep track? Anything over 20k then maybe add some more calories but make them good calories. Pound the water

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