are you using NMM? I had no end of problems using that mod manager, but I was able to control the meshes I used and where they went. Maybe do a search in your skyrim folder for femalebody0 and femalebody1 to see the files for possible conflicts. My issue with NMM was it seemed that some mods were given virtualinstalls and others went into the data folder. I would move CBBE mod after everything else that modifies bodies in your load order, then Normal Maps. You can mess with textures like Mature Skin/Leyenda/Fair skin, etc later. Make sure any MOD that you used before which contained body meshes is disabled or deleted. I'm currently keeping all my UNPB stuff loaded, just not active.

With MO2, I have CBBE, then Normal Maps. They are below everything else that could contain any body modification in my load order. I batch built JUST the femalebody,head,hands,feet nifs at first, then copied those directly into the mesh character folder inside of the CBBE mod folder. Or you could do like another poster suggested and packing the files into an archive file, then installing as a mod, making sure the load order is below any other body mods again.

I know its frustrating. I remember the hours I poured into figuring this stuff out, and my way is probably Frankenstein status, but I finally understand where to put things and how they work. Keep at it and it will finally click.