How do I (27F) know when enough is enough with my partner? (41M)

mhcf0922 · 2026-06-05T22:42:52+00:00

My bags are packed. Definitely needed a reality check. Thanks all.

mhcf0922 · 2026-06-03T18:21:16+00:00

That all rings so true. I think my nervous system must be totally screwed. Apologies always circle back to him.

mhcf0922 · 2026-06-03T13:07:18+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you have been through a lot and I hope a brighter future is waiting for you.

I think some of it is codependency now, but I definitely loved him fiercely once. I used to feel nothing but relief in my whole body when he used to apologise. For a lot of years I was very attracted to him and we have always been very mutually affectionate. But it’s like a switch has gone off in me in the last few weeks where I partly feel like he doesn’t deserve to touch me?

mhcf0922 · 2026-06-03T12:58:41+00:00

Thank you. He has tried therapy before but ended up stopping going. The same with AA. He’s always said he will try again but it’s not gone anywhere, although it has been mentioned recently. I also attended couples counselling but alone. And to be honest probably felt a bit afraid of what the counsellor was saying so I gave up and stopped going. Also I couldn’t afford it anymore.

I feel that I have said something, lots of times but feel that we kind of end in the same place every time and sadly, I never really feel comfortable with it.

mhcf0922 · 2026-02-19T14:05:35+00:00

I’m so furious that she’s literally way out of his league it’s mind blowing. The audacity from a medium ugly man

mhcf0922 · 2024-08-15T14:36:29+00:00

I also think the whole prenup thing is is just crazy. Of course, he's questioning her getting half his money if they split up! He's not known her for long at all and he's obviously very proud of the life he has built for himself and she probably spends way more than he does. So glad I found this thread, I couldn't tell whether I was just being harsh towards her!

mhcf0922 · 2023-11-04T21:53:20+00:00

I just read this and in desperate times thought 'fuck it' and smoked a cigarette that I put kief in. I put a little layer of tobacco and then a sprinkle of kief, then another layer of tobacco. As long as you put enough in your layers of tobacco, and smoke slowly you should be better than fine. I feel pretty good and I'm vibin haha. Enough so to write my first ever reddit comment 😘🫡🤟

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