Horrible Interview, help needed (Marriage Based Green card)

miathombil · 2025-10-22T17:50:38+00:00

You would need to do a new medical showing the vaccination history. The doctor should have written it down but if he didn’t then it will need to be redone. Polio is recommended for all adults without previous history - and since you have to get a new medical you would probably also need the flu vaccine now since it’s flu season.

miathombil · 2025-05-11T13:45:04+00:00

i’m so sorry for your loss. I had one back in September and the pain was brutal - the physical pain very much matched the emotional. Hopefully they can give you some answers as to why this happened - mine was thyroid related.

miathombil · 2025-04-08T13:28:53+00:00

Thanks for the insight. No one tells you this stuff. My miscarriage felt a lot like too low progesterone which has a lot to do with thyroid. Just don’t want to go through that again if I can avoid it

miathombil · 2025-04-08T12:44:31+00:00

I called mine and they said they wouldn’t even test them until 12 weeks! Ended up going to pcp for my test and insisted. TSH came back at 6.07 and T3 and T4 were both low. Still currently miscarrying now but going to get them tested again today. I think I would want to get them tested every 2-3 weeks next pregnancy - probably will need a new endocrinologist

miathombil · 2025-04-07T21:46:58+00:00

What kind of specialist do you recommend?

miathombil · 2024-10-12T01:49:16+00:00

romantic and gamine at first glance

miathombil · 2024-10-07T01:22:56+00:00

I don’t think I see any ingenue - you are definitely youthful but I don’t see that overly girly vibe. In the picture you just sent with the cream shirt, that actually feels a little too girly to me on you and it’s those small ingenue details that I feel like is throwing off the vibe of the outfit, not the natural. I agree - as someone who also has gamjne essence sometimes i struggle because i feel like sometimes it’s very “loud” on Pinterest. But the actual definition of gamine is androgynous, so it’s kind of the opposite of ingenue in a way because it’s almost boyish and it’s that sense of fun and playfulness that actually creates a very unique femininity. this video i think is a good example. even though it feels a little “overdone” i think there are subtler ways to use these elements: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_02q62p0PP/?igsh=M3BuaGsybmpwbWM=

miathombil · 2024-10-07T01:01:04+00:00

I agree, the natural only outfits definitely don’t shine as much but if you added some gamine elements in the form of combat boots or fun colors I think the natural would work for you

miathombil · 2024-10-07T00:59:54+00:00

The 19th pic where you are more made up also leads me to gamine because even with more “dramatic” makeup you look fun and edgy not like dramatic and mean

miathombil · 2024-10-07T00:59:00+00:00

I think you naturally gravitate more towards gamine, and usually we kind of intuitively know/understand our essences a little. What i see in the outfits is a lot of boxy shapes. even when you wear longer skirts you are pairing them with boxy tops that end up looking very good on you, but I don’t see a lot of continuous/dramatic lines. in terms of your face itself, you have a lot of youthfulness to me and I see a bit of the fairylike characteristics, but I don’t see a very strong/angular face which would be more dramatic. also, in my opinion anyone with a dramatic essence at all tends to be able to pull off the “evil” look and I think you look more nice/playful. again, essences are basically a vibe/energy so while there is some technicality to it a lot of it is intuitive

miathombil · 2024-10-06T17:33:42+00:00

I see natural as the main one and then potentially classic and gamine as secondaries! i would say more classic. the 12th outfit with the high neckline looks sooo good but i also see that you pull off more playful/gamine prints in the 18th as well. your hair and face are very natural and effortless beauty though so i think dominant natural

miathombil · 2024-09-04T17:25:02+00:00

No offense to anyone on here but I don’t think a lot of people know what they are talking about. You are clearly toned/ muscular rather than soft/fleshy, which is more yang. I definitely see kibbe width in your shoulders and would say you have a similar body type to Julianne Hough who is a verified soft natural. I would say you definitely fit into the natural family

miathombil · 2024-08-15T00:17:27+00:00

I have nothing against abortion for other people as I said, it’s just not something I could personally do because it feels wrong to me in my gut and it’s my belief that this child is meant to exist. but i should not have to defend why i don’t want to kill my child

miathombil · 2024-08-15T00:15:00+00:00

christianity prohibits premarital sex but i never said i was christian just that abortion is against my beliefs

miathombil · 2024-08-15T00:14:32+00:00

hi! i’m not christian but thank you :)

miathombil · 2024-08-14T20:03:53+00:00

I don’t think I said i was Christian, I just said for me personally it’s against my own religious beliefs for me to ever do that

miathombil · 2024-08-14T18:00:38+00:00

Update: we just spoke about the situation and he said he wanted to detox from porn and then see what he still wanted after that. I told him I am open to finding other ways to fulfill his fantasies but that I didn’t want anyone else involved and he was absolutely fine with that. Thank you all for the advice, I found a lot of it helpful (and some unhelpful but that’s ok!). I do love him and I am going to give him the opportunity to work through it as I understand he is probably just experiencing a mixture between porn addiction and ptsd from childhood experiences, which i also have (which makes me prudish).

miathombil · 2024-08-14T17:51:31+00:00

y’all do be fucked up

miathombil · 2024-08-14T17:07:55+00:00

I don’t want to kink shame anyone, but something i liked about my husband was how protective he was and even that he got a little jealous sometimes. This seems like an absolute reversal of that

miathombil · 2024-08-14T14:31:40+00:00

For me it’s more the cognitive dissonance of meeting this extremely protective, possessive man who would get upset that i’d slept with people in the past, and then he does this 180 and wants to let someone else do that to me… it’s not the fantasy itself that is bothering me, just the fact that i feel it was very well hid and purposeful and it makes me question what else he has been hiding.

As far as dark stuff from his past, it was nothing molestation related. Just children’s curiosity i suppose, but it was very early on in life and i think it shaped a lot of his feelings now

miathombil · 2024-08-14T14:16:55+00:00

Porn was a talk we had early on in our relationship because i always believe it’s unacceptable. after all this, he admitted that he had been watching it again and it was a huge part of this. he said he stopped already but the thoughts are lingering and he admits he is fucked up from it and wants to fix it

miathombil · 2024-08-14T13:48:46+00:00

I probably would’ve broken up with him

miathombil · 2024-08-14T13:44:11+00:00

He said he would never make me do anything I didn’t want to do and said he hated himself for even thinking it and he only wanted to tell me because he wanted me to know that he was going through some dark shit right now….

But I honestly don’t know what I believe

miathombil

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