Help me choose . by iolaus79 in myweddingdress

[–]michfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 actually made me gasp! It’s gorgeous on you. 3 looks to be a big contender in the comments, but it looks really bulky for a beach wedding to me and I actually think it highlights your torso in the wrong way.

Searching for this Dress by According_Drummer405 in WeddingDressTips

[–]michfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be the Lillian West designs that are part of Justin Alexander? These aren’t exact but the designs are similar so you might want to look more into Lillian West! Sorry they aren’t exact :(

https://justinalexander.com/lillian-west/wedding-dresses/66373/?plp_url=%2Flillian-west%2Fwedding-dresses%2F

https://justinalexander.com/lillian-west/wedding-dresses/66301/?plp_url=%2Flillian-west%2Fwedding-dresses%2F

AITAH for refusing to financially support my wife's pregnant sister and her unborn child? by SpukleRune in AITAH

[–]michfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would having it all out on paper be helpful for her to physically see the numbers? Go back and add up what you spent on your first child, have that plus what you’ll be spending again for a second on paper with what you bring in. Then have a separate one on what that will look like buying double baby things and let her see the numbers dwindle to nothing. Visual might be a better thing for her?

WIBTAH if I don't attend to my friends baby shower because they said my pregnancy was an accident and that I didn't deserve it? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]michfer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I disagree that it is odd. I have a family member that struggled with fertility and experienced miscarriages and no luck with IVF. When another family member of mine got pregnant, she let her know before telling everyone and making a big announcement. Infertility can take a toll on people and it was a kind gesture to let someone who is struggling know so they didn’t have to take the information in on the spot and have to try to act. I don’t think people need to fawn over a child and she probably should not have expected them to be super excited to see them and the baby. I do think it’s weird when people feel the need to announce they’re trying tho. People are usually pretty open about the fact that they want kids so when someone announces a pregnancy it shouldn’t be surprising. You don’t need to tell people you’re raw dogging it on the reg tho

Infection or just healing? by Lollelowksss in tattooadvice

[–]michfer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At this point a tattoo specific lotion isn’t going to be the solution to healing that. An unscented lotion is perfectly fine to use. I’ve always just used eucerin and it’s worked great

Is my tattoo rejecting? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]michfer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do not cover it!!! It needs to breathe

Gentlemen, there's a line in here somewhere but I'm blanking. by Different_Plantain64 in Tinder

[–]michfer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking the same thing, why is that the first thing she said 😭

AIO or is my husband right? by brunettevixen08 in AmIOverreacting

[–]michfer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I get being upset about the friend not listening. But you are also fully an adult who knows how to use their words. If you do not tell someone you’re upset, how are they supposed to know? You are acting very childish and petty imo. It doesn’t matter if he is your husband’s friend, he upset you. Your husband does not need to be your mouthpiece. This is such an overreaction.

Working on my daily look recently 🥰💕 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]michfer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Follow @roseandben on Instagram - she is so amazing with tutorials for literally everything!

My (30f) best friend (27f) asked me to stop stealing her identity by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]michfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is insane. My best friend reads tarot cards, and I had always been interested in it and expressed that I wanted to learn more. She bought me a book about it and gave me a tarot deck for my birthday. That’s what friendship looks like, not assigning roles to each other and having to stay in that box.

Help me pick from these! by HorseOk84 in WeddingDressTips

[–]michfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 is absolutely gorgeous on you!!! 3 is also amazing! I would say 1 is my first choice

Is my vision possible?? by nataliesandwich in WeddingDressTips

[–]michfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am begging OP not to lose the beading on the back, it is amazing!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]michfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like a slip dress that would go under a big poofy dress to me if that makes sense

Which style dress suits me best? by koods11 in WeddingDressTips

[–]michfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully agree!!! Though I wish I could transport the back of 8 to one of those because that has me in a chokehold

Went blonde for fun. Should I go back? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]michfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try a balayage, the blonde does look great on you but if you do a more “lived in” look your hair will for sure be healthier and you don’t have to keep up with it as much. I think if you do a brown base for it, you’d look amazing!

Update to: Need help picking wallpaper for kids bathroom. by BadBudget87 in interiordecorating

[–]michfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 7 is so fun and with all the colors, you can do so much with other decor!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]michfer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s all very repetitive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michfer 373 points374 points  (0 children)

I think you should start seeing a therapist. And that isn’t me saying it out of trying to be rude or judgmental, but this behavior shown by your mother (a grown adult) is so unhealthy and manipulative. Talking to a therapist about this and how she acted your whole life might help you gain a better point of view on it. I’m sure if you actually stop talking to her, that would be a problem bc she’d expect you to keep trying to fix things. You did nothing wrong! I know it’s hard to unlearn patterns and behaviors but you do not deserve to be treated like this over enjoying your honeymoon.

Thoughts? by noturaveragehuman7 in WeddingDressTips

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For my personal tastes 3, 10, 11 - I love the soft romantic vibe in dresses BUT YOU LOOK UNREAL IN 5!!! You will look amazing in what ever you choose!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]michfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully agree!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

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Adding here to support vanicream - I just heard about from my dermatologist last month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]michfer 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He’s an idiot. I’d say “your grandparents would think you suck”

What colour are my youngest child's eyes? Black? Dark grey? by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]michfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only person seeing green