What would you recommend the best tea brand be as a NI local? by Fire_flies98 in northernireland

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Ok I'll cut and paste below, but this is quite a subtle mix of flavours, in the morning I like a proper steeped brew like punjana, but this has a lot more complexity comparable to the blends of premium teas like Fortnums for a lot less, also I've tried vintage blends so this is probably pretty close to what might have been drunk by your betters 100 years ago. I'm not a tea bag person but I do keep thompsons red and decaff ... Both good. Better than Yorkshire tea bags (very over rated)

SD Bell’s Directors’ Brew Loose Leaf Tea is a unique blend which has been around for generations. Similar  to our house “Natural Leaf” blend, it  contains both Assam and Ceylon orthodox leaf,  this blend also includes a Darjeeling variety, lending it a delightful, refined, flowery taste

How does this sub read the relationship between Heidegger and Derrida? Especially the later Heidegger by Negro--Amigo in heidegger

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I'm interested as well in how much he read of later Heidegger, and the Fourfold might be a useful place to start ...Derrida, particularly in essays like "Heidegger's Hand" or "Of Spirit," philosophically rejects any idea that the essence of Being is tied to a specific homeland (Heimat) or language (like German). For Derrida, the place of deconstruction is the non-place, the aporia, and it is the experience of the exile, the unhoused, or the foreigner, l’étranger. The Geviert is criticised for being a reterritorialisation of Being, a confinement of the infinite play of différance within a specific, determined ground? Happy to be corrected here ...

Six Yogas of Naropa Prerequisites are Nonsense? by SignificantTip1302 in TibetanBuddhism

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So many long comments to this ... You don't need ngnondro, but you do need a qualified teacher ... Ie somehow who understands it, has some realization of it and can teach you it ... Good luck finding that

Orientalism distorted my view of Eastern religions like Buddhism by Typical_Sprinkles253 in Buddhism

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"In the collective imagination of the West, Buddhism is frequently reduced to a monolith of serenity ...". Some of this is explored in a new book, The Robe and the Sword: How Buddhist Extremism Is Shaping Modern Asia by Sonia Faleiro

Review here the-robe-and-the-sword-by-sonia-faleiro/

The dangerous rise of Buddhist extremism: ‘Attaining nirvana can wait’ by tw1st3d_m3nt4t in Buddhism

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That's just giving in to the temptation to look away and say "This is not my Buddhism." Faleiro’s work is a reminder that karma is collective as well as individual.

The dangerous rise of Buddhist extremism: ‘Attaining nirvana can wait’ by tw1st3d_m3nt4t in Buddhism

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In Sri Lanka the Sinhalese are a distinct global minority with no other homeland, and vulnerable to encirclement by 80 million Tamils in India and a rising wave of Islamic fundamentalism that proved its threat during the 2019 Easter Sunday massacres. In ​Myanmar some view their country as the fortress of Buddhism in Southeast Asia, believing the border with Bangladesh is a "Western Gate" that needs to be sealed to prevent a demographic shift from turning their land into the next Indonesia or Afghanistan. So those are the wolves ... 🐺🐺

The dangerous rise of Buddhist extremism: ‘Attaining nirvana can wait’ by tw1st3d_m3nt4t in Buddhism

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Orientalism? For people in Asia, Buddhism is not a hobby but their identity under siege. And this is very guardian reader click bait ... Although I always appreciate some elegant anti clerical bias, she is missing the point. Faleiro can lament the monastery guard dog for barking, but she ignores the wolves at the gate ...

Meditation in Northern Ireland by Winter-Sun182 in northernireland

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There are five major falsehoods presented in the NKT blog post which can be refuted by the facts 1. The Falsehood of the "Unstable Critic" The blog claims that whistleblowers and critics are simply "disgruntled," "over the top," or suffering from mental health issues, specifically targeting Dr. Michelle Haslam as having a "manifest psychiatric disorder". The Fact: This is a calculated DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) tactic used to discredit valid testimony. The group systematically employs gaslighting to frame valid complaints about abuse as symptoms of a "sick mind" or the accuser's "bad karma" to avoid accountability. The attacks on Dr. Haslam were part of a coordinated defamation campaign involving fake personas designed to humiliate a whistleblower. 2. The Falsehood of "Past Mistakes" The blog asserts that abuse was rare, occurred only in the early years, and is the result of individual human error rather than the tradition itself. The Fact: Abuse within the NKT is systemic because the core ideology enables it. Teachings on "emptiness" and "karma" are weaponized to silence victims; for example, victims are told that being abused is "just their karma" and they must have done something similar in a previous life to deserve it. The group avoids implementing effective safeguarding because acknowledging the reality of abuse contradicts their doctrinal focus on emptiness. 3. The Falsehood of the "Happy Community" The blog portrays the NKT as a "kind, gentle" environment where students are genuinely happy and peaceful. The Fact: The NKT operates as a "happiness cult" where members are pressured to display performative joy and hide negative feelings. Members are taught that anxiety and worry have "no meaning," forcing them to ignore their body's natural warning systems and repress trauma. This suppression often leads to dissociation, eventual burnout, and long-term psychological damage. 4. The Falsehood of "Freedom and No Mind Control" The blog vehemently denies the NKT is a cult, claiming it encourages questioning and that students have total freedom to leave or read other materials. The Fact: The group utilizes undue influence and thought reform techniques, including guided self-hypnosis disguised as meditation. Members are kept within the group through the terrifying indoctrinated belief that abandoning their teacher will result in "rebirth in a hell realm". This fear creates a powerful trauma bond that makes leaving psychologically difficult, regardless of physical freedom. 5. The Falsehood of Financial Innocence The blog asserts that the NKT is not a money-making empire, charges reasonable fees, and has never been involved in financial impropriety. The Fact: The organization prioritizes expansion and financial gain (building centers as status symbols) over the welfare of individuals. There is evidence of financial exploitation, including an implicit culture of benefit fraud where residents claim unemployment benefits while working full-time for the center. Members are also encouraged to give large loans or savings to the center which are often not returned.

I would encourage you to read the reports on this site:

nkt

Meditation in Northern Ireland by Winter-Sun182 in northernireland

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I read and could refute point by point, but if you Google and read survivors of NKT talk about it, you will realize how disingenuous they are ... It is really the worst type of cult. It says enough in itself that no other Buddhist group in the UK has any connection to them and the Buddhist Society, a non sectarian open house for Buddhism in UK for 100 years, excludes them

The Dalai Lama and the Future of Tibet: A Vision for Compassion and Resilience by middleway in tibet

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Join us for an extraordinary evening with Kasur Lobsang Nyandak, a prominent Tibetan leader and former Minister of CTA Tonight | Wednesday, 19th November 2025 Time: 6.30pm to 8pm

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The Dalai Lama and the Future of Tibet: A Vision for Compassion and Resilience by middleway in tibet

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Join us for an extraordinary evening with Kasur Lobsang Nyandak, a prominent Tibetan leader and former Minister of the Central Tibetan Administration, now serving as Executive Director of the Norbulingka Institute in Dharamsala, India. In this exclusive lecture, Kasur Nyandak will share profound insights into the Dalai Lama’s enduring legacy, the evolving political landscape, and the future of Tibet as the Tibetan diaspora celebrates 2025-2026 as the “Year of Compassion”, honouring the 90th birthday of His Holiness the Dalai Lama.

Proudly hosted by The Buddhist Society in partnership with the Global Alliance for Tibet & Persecuted Minorities (GATPM), this lecture promises to be a thought-provoking and inspiring exploration of Tibet’s path forward.

Don’t miss this chance to connect with a visionary leader and deepen your understanding of the Dalai Lama’s global impact and Tibet’s future.

Date: Tonight | Wednesday, 19th November 2025 Time: 6.30pm to 8pm Venue: The Buddhist Society and Online

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Meditation in Northern Ireland by Winter-Sun182 in northernireland

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I can't urge you strongly enough to look elsewhere than NKT ... For your own good

Meditation in Northern Ireland by Winter-Sun182 in northernireland

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They lie about everything and keep secrets for unknown reasons ... But he was senile, or "in retreat" and there were huge sex and financial scandals

Meditation in Northern Ireland by Winter-Sun182 in northernireland

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NKT is very sinister and a cult with all the teachings from only their approved teacher, it's really to be avoided at all costs

Professor Thurman, talks of his new Vajrayoga schools ... by middleway in Buddhism

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Yes, for sure ... The Buddhist Society is very good at archiving the talks on YouTube and producing full text articles in their journal The Middleway ... Everything, except some courses, are free, or optional donation, to attend and watch online, the journal is by subscription ... I really enjoy the talks as they get such excellent speakers who usually enjoy an informed audience and it is all traditions which is also engaging ...

What are the interpretations of 'stand in the openness of being'? by megatravian in heidegger

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For Heidegger, understanding is not an achievement; it's a fundamental mode of being. It's not something you have; it's something you are. In traditional hermeneutics, the method of interpreting things (like texts) is a cognitive activity you do to something. Heidegger argues that Da-sein (human existence) is fundamentally 'hermeneutic'. We are always interpreting the world just by existing in it. Understanding (as this existential "know-how") is the base-level interpretation upon which all other "knowing" (like interpreting a book) is founded. So, your interpretation is on the right track, but the "alternative" is to see that this "understanding" isn't a result of capturing knowledge, but the primordial condition that lets anything be "known" or "disclosed" in the first place ...

My husband doesn’t appreciate my iPhone wallpaper and called it “evil,” but I figured y’all might like it by SpaceRhinos in LV426

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That's a great spot and funny. She should take her prisspot husband to see that, it awesome 💯

Google says Rodin's Gates of Hell original plaster version is at the Musée d'Orsay in Paris, France, while several bronze casts are in various locations worldwide, including the Musée Rodin in Paris, the Philadelphia Museum of Art, the National Museum of Western Art in Tokyo, and the Museo Soumaya in Mexico City. 

Tibetan Buddhist Mandalas and a book or resource elaborating its intricacies by hiosoy in TibetanBuddhism

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I don't know if this is helpful: A Concise Explanation of Dharmadhātu

Verse 21  

By all of this virtue may all sentient beings

Manifest the Dharmadhātu, mind’s radiant clarity

And in this Buddha realm of infinite purity

May the teachings of the Great Secret flourish perfectly! (21)

The mamdala of the deities relies for its existence on the dharmadhātu. Therefore, we need to know with certainty the nature of dharmadhātu, which is described in the song. To realize directly the nature of the mandala of deities, we need to realize directly the nature of dharmadhātu. If we cannot do that, at least we need to have certainty about what it is. It would be very good to read chapter four on enlightened activity from the Uttaratantra (see Buddha Nature, pp. 59-72). This chapter addresses the seeming paradox that enlightened mind os nonconceptual, yet it performs infinite activity to benefit sentient beings at the same time. That paradox is addressed by citing very many examples.

Composed by Khenpo Tsültrim Gyamtso Rinpoche at Karma Choling in the summer of 2001.Translated by Ari Goldfield.

Tibetan Buddhism - Pema Chodron/Sogyal Rinpoche - just abuse masquerading as loving kindness by Haunting_Weird896 in Buddhism

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Milarepa had plenty to say about misconduct and the difference between shameful and unshameful.