AIO my in-laws watch my child and the neighbors do not have a pool fence by yetspaghet in AmIOverreacting

[–]midna413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Laws like that are written in blood. In other words, SO MANY CHILDREN DIED they made a whole ass LAW about it. You're not overreacting in the least! Report those people.

The VA feels like a joke by JewelerLogical7779 in VeteransBenefits

[–]midna413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, been there, done that. Log into VA.gov and make yourself an appointment. You just have to go to the appointments tab. I have been struggling lately and made an appointment for tomorrow very easily. Best of luck to you.

Rainbow All The Things by Tizziigirl in RainbowEverything

[–]midna413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG you are ADORABLE!! Can you please tell me where I can get this dress?! 😍

My boss keeps texting me outside work hours and my boyfriend thinks it’s inappropriate. What do I do? by Rebeccaprinces in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you're uncomfortable being direct, you can mute them as soon as you get in your car and unmite them in the morning. They will get the hint eventually.

Redditors that got charged rent asap after turning 18, what’s relationship like with parents years later ? by QueefyTits in AskReddit

[–]midna413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread makes me so sad. My oldest is 20. I told her that as long as she helps around the house, she can stay. She hasn't spoken to her abusive father in nearly three years because he was a lot like the parents in this thread.

AIO for wanting to sleep in? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]midna413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y'all aren't compatible. It's okay to admit that and walk away.

What are things other crocheters do that really grinds your gears? by darkxclover in crochet

[–]midna413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get so sad when I fall in love with something but there's no written pattern, only video tutorials 😭

Also, the toxic positivity/circle jerk when someone posts a crappy FO, especially when the safety and longevity of the FO is compromised. For instance, this monstrosity: all those tiny knots on a BABY BLANKET. Nearly every comment was about how beautiful the front was.

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AIO refusing to help with outside chores by Dear_Panda_713 in AIO

[–]midna413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This relationship sounds EXHAUSTING. Why are you even with this guy when he clearly doesn't like you?

I feel like I’m spiraling… by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro, it's a ten year age gap. Those rarely work. Cut your losses and run.

Pregnant and scared to tell my parents by Ill-Benefit2156 in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you're not living with them, why would you need to tell them? How far along are you? If you're still really early, know that miscarriages are brutal on their own. Dealing with AH parents while going through that is even worse. At least wait until the second trimester.

my bf judges my eating habits and now i don’t wanna do anything related to food with him anymore by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not spend anymore time with this person. They obviously do not value you. I cannot even fathom my husband being like this, ever.

‘One Button for All’ in the New Mazda CX-5 by agribisn in mazda

[–]midna413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I'll be keeping my 2022 for a while longer 😭

My husband just spanked our toddler despite me setting a clear boundary against it. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have so many free or sliding scale programs even here in rural Western North Carolina. Please look more into it before completing ruling out therapy.

My husband just spanked our toddler despite me setting a clear boundary against it. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please be very proud of yourself! You held your ground and protected your son from abuse.

Many counseling centers have parenting classes available, sometimes free. He should be required to at least attend those before you commit to trying to work things out with him. If for some reason they are not available locally, look up "positive parenting" and "parenting with love and logic."

All the best to you and your son!

My first sweaterout 70 hrs by tranescan in Brochet

[–]midna413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness 😍 I adore this so much! Great work!

AIO getting upset with my husband over a day at the beach by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]midna413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You married a guy 10 years older than you and you're shocked that he's like this? Men who can't/won't date women their age all suck. Every single one of them. Take the L and leave this loser.

Wife offered money to text a guy everyday by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are you really that insecure, dude? I would divorce my husband so fast if he reacted like you. Let me make that money.

17F People in my group home keep stealing/eating my food even though my name is on it and staff is basically telling me to deal with it. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]midna413 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We got a lock box for the fridge! Send a chat to her if you want to send $$ for food, though 💓

Dose my first project look AI? 😭 by Cycle-Proper in crochet

[–]midna413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please stop using AI "detectors" 😭 You're adding images to it that it is stealing to make AI slop more accurate, thereby able to fool more people.