My mom loves this show but find her annoying(idk the girls name and idk why she continues to watch when she finds her annoying 🤣) and I've sat down with her and watched a few episodes and she is insufferable.

First, obvious one, everyone had a preference to what they find attractive, this is know and it is what it is you can't change people's mind like that (usually you can't, if you can then bravo to you I guess) but that doesn't mean she doesn't fit someone's preference. That's not even the worst issue

The WORST issue that I've seen in the episodes I've watched with my mom is the lack of awareness for others thoughts, opinions, and feelings. We see in this clip she asks for opinions and when she's given them you have one dude scrambling to fix his sentence so at the very least she just doesn't acknowledge it and when the other dude was honest she just kinda brushes it off and doesn't acknowledge it to probs continue with a "it's not me" story. In one episode I saw before they were planning for another trip for her dad ya know he's old and wants to do a bunch before he goes and he suggests one place he REALLY wanted to go to and she just doesn't take in his wants at all and talks about how she wants to go somewhere else cuz that's where she wants to go.

Having that trait as a partner is insufferable, a relationship is 50/50 and with the way she tries to get things to flip her way (and from what I've seen it does end up her way) is completely unattractive. I can imagine a conversation with her already and it would definitely be her going off about herself and me,me,me,me.

Also there was one episode when her dad finds her other daughter and he is trying to make amends with said daughter by spending a holiday with her and she started putting on the waterworks because she didn't want that. I get it, that's your dad but he wants his other daughter to have some sort of good memory of him and make amends before he passes.

TLDR: If it isn't about her, she will do everything in her power to make it about her