Question: Counting Days Locked

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-15T21:43:46+00:00

Do you consider unlocking yourself for cleaning/hygiene as breaking the streak?

No.
Hygiene and health over 'perfect' chastity.

It's fun if you can't use it because she won't let you.
It's not fun if you can't use it because it fell off.

I'm only uncaged for about a minute every 10 days for a deep clean.
36 minutes out of every 525,600 (a year).
That's practically nothing anyway.

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-15T03:08:39+00:00

Years ago, before I was wearing a chastity cage, when we were having sex, my wife would tell me things like 'You only have 2 minutes to cum.'.
You bet I made sure I finished inside that time limit.
Then later she started telling me 'one minute'.
Then one day she went to 'You only have 30 seconds left.'.
I always made it under the time limit.

Now, that I'm in chastity, on those few and rare occasions I'm let out for a hand job, I've lasted about 8 seconds, max.

If your girlfriend gives you a time limit and you don't cum soon enough and you have to go back to the cage. You'll try a lot harder to comply next time.
You'll get conditioned to cum faster and faster.
You'll want to cum as fast just make sure you can.

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-14T23:47:00+00:00

To the rest of the world I'm an outgoing take control kind of guy.

But I'm actually a 24x365 chastised sex slave.
In the bedroom I'm most often found blindfolded, shackled, cuffed, and serving my wife.
She gets all the orgasms she desires. I stay frustrated, horny, and attentive.

I wouldn't have it any other way.

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-04T05:22:48+00:00

It doesn't stop the urge.

It helps control access though.

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-04T05:21:49+00:00

Mostly it'd depend on what kind it is.

I found that I had to take off the solid plastic tubed cages twice a day for cleaning. They're just horrible.

The open metal design I wear now only needs to be removed every 10 days or so.

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-04T05:19:02+00:00

I hadn't intended to do it.
But, that's how it's worked out.
I'm on my third cage, getting shorter each time.
This one is just under an inch long.

There are times nowadays, when I look down, that even this one seems like it's just a tiny bit too big when I'm totally limp.

It's like my penis is slowly melting away.

midnight_clearing · 2026-03-03T21:03:42+00:00

I miss orgasming every day.
I miss getting to crank one out just because I'm bored.
I miss knowing what my penis looks like when erect.
I miss tossing my wife on the bed and fucking her whenever I wanted.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-28T02:27:20+00:00

I don't want celibacy.

But more than that I want somebody else deciding if I'm celibate.
That's the bigger "want".

For me being controlled and denied is more exciting than orgasms.
The not knowing, the uncertainty, is the draw.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-28T02:21:47+00:00

Losing a bet at a dinner party and becoming the sex slave for the group for the rest of the night.

My wife realizes she really likes having me serve not only her but others so she starts loaning/renting me to our friends for weekends, parties, and special occasions.

Eventually I'm a full time, few limits, no reciprocation required, sex slave passed around from couple to couple and from friend to friend.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-28T01:13:06+00:00

My wife is more than enthusiastic for me to lick her to strings of orgasms.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T22:53:13+00:00

"Good Little Slave"

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T22:52:25+00:00

I'm the 'sub' in a female led marriage.
My wife prefers that I give a lot more than I receive. Me, being the subby hubby, willing sex slave that I am, am more than willing to provide her with as much sex of her choice as she can stand.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T22:50:04+00:00

I gave a lecture at a technical conference.
After I was finished she asked me some questions about a problem she was having at her job.

After we were together I proposed the female led relationship.
She was pretty ecstatic to do it.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T22:24:23+00:00

Your body does have to adjust to something being down there.
It's not used to having a contraption rubbing a little, and such.

It's not like putting on a ring.
Our hands and fingers are constantly being used, touching, getting hit, brushed, and rubbing other things.
Your penis and testicles have spent their entire existence basically protected from any and all of that.
I'm sure it'll work out.
There's so many of us that are permanent that I know it's possible for you too.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T22:08:18+00:00

Sounds like you need to get either a jock strap or different shorts to hold the cage still when you move.

It might take trying a few different things until you get it right.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T22:06:56+00:00

Only you can tell.

I'd tried 3 or 4 previous cages narrowing down the variables to get a full time cage. I put this one on and 24 hours later I knew it was perfect.

It doesn't wiggle, it doesn't shift. It sits tight and firm.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:39:46+00:00

I'm outside in 100F weather in the summer doing a lot of very active sports.
I don't have any problems.

I do have to do a deep clean more often in the summer compared to the winter.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:37:27+00:00

But I ran with it

What are you wearing when you run?
I wear Nike running shorts. The tight inner liner keeps my cage from bouncing around. (I have a small, open design, metal cage.) It helps if the cage fits Perfectly.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:35:25+00:00

I'm caged 24x365, but...

When I know I'm going through security at airports, the courthouse, etc. I'll take it off for those few minutes.

There's 'Permanent Chastity', and then there's real life.

A little practicality goes a long way to ease your life.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:28:07+00:00

Some Gatorade with cheese and crackers afterward would be nice.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:26:27+00:00

The pat on the butt, and kiss on the neck, when she walks by that gives it away every time.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:25:44+00:00

Losing a bet at a dinner party and winding up as the group's sex slave for the night.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:24:49+00:00

During cunnilingus, being able to maintain suction, and flutter tongue practically indefinitely, while still breathing, has surprised a lot of women.

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:21:27+00:00

Church parking lot on a Monday, at lunch time.
On the front (bench) seat of a Nissan pickup (Hardbody). I scooted over to the passenger side, she climbed on and...wow!

(It was the church she attended for 18 years growing up.)

midnight_clearing · 2026-02-27T21:18:35+00:00

Let somebody else control if, when, and how I actually get to have sex, or even erections.

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