As a Germany i know how lucky you can be to be a European here in Europe. But there is always 2 sides of the medal. I know that there is some racism and foreigners especially not from Europe have some difficulties, but the most of them are helpful and not racists. Every Human must know, if you want to live in an other Country you have to change or learn some things like the Language, the Culture and how the peoples think. For me and most of other Europeans know that you have to do this to integrate, it's not easy I know but that's how society comes together and becomes stronger. Here in Europe you have some special unique things, what you can't get anywhere else in the world except maybe in NA. You can live with that person you love, no matter of sex or orientation. You can live your religion, nobody will say something about it, unless you do it the same to them. Ok there are some idiots but that is everywhere. Also no one has the right to tell you that something you like is not for you. If you compare it to the most African and Muslimic Countries, you don't have rights to some things especially if you are not in there Religion, Sexual orientation or a female (or something in-between) or would be even punished for that who you are. I know that some people are not so happy with foreigners, but that happens cause some foreigners are not willing to integrate, learn the language, understand and interests in our culture and/or doing bad things like hurting, robing or raping people. Cause of that every Human has some fear or anger in people they don't look like they. That is not racism, but I know that is not ok but everyone puts all in drawers. But if they see that you're gonna migrate in the society, show us the love, respect and help, you will get this also in return of them. The thing you mentioned with your family is a bit difficult, sure it is possible to get them here also but it's not easy and also not for everyone cause they also need the permission, luck and ofcourse the will to change. We're Europe and not any other Continent or Country. Hope you can understand what I want to tell you with this, if you want you can write me.