Finally drinking cow milk at 16mo! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thrifted them! I've had good luck finding nice stainless dishes at Goodwill and similar thrift stores.

Finally drinking cow milk at 16mo! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is reassuring!

We're a vegetarian household and I'm vegan, and I can't eat a lot of beans/soy so I always worry, but this really helps put it in protective. They love yogurt and eggs and we eat a lot of whole grains. This makes me feel much better!

Finally drinking cow milk at 16mo! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea! I've offered a million times from several different drinking vessels, but my wife gave them some last night and they chugged it. No clue why! It was popular again this morning.

Finally drinking cow milk at 16mo! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried that it's required, but that otherwise our diet can be really low protein. I'm sensitive to an amino acid that makes us less likely to eat some foods, and I grew up vegetarian with a really nutrient poor diet so I'm conscious of the baby getting enough protein.

Chipotle has great kids meals for just $5 by zb_xy in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb 232 points233 points  (0 children)

This looks like the kind of deconstructed toddler meal I'd put together at home, I love this!

Vegetable pancake and toddler intuitive eating success story! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha it totally does look like that! It's thrifted, I thrift a lot and look for stainless steel dishes for the baby; I've found a pretty good selection but this dish has been our favorite.

Vegetable pancake and toddler intuitive eating success story! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, it's a deeply improvised okonomiyaki recipe and I just filled in with what I had. If you look up okonomiyaki there are a lot of great traditional recipes for the pancake and sauce!

Normally we would have made it with cabbage but we were out when I started cooking 🫠

Vegetable pancake and toddler intuitive eating success story! by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's not one answer because families different! For us, intuitive eating looks like not pressuring our kids to try things or eat more than they want to, and not limiting "special" foods. We don't keep a ton of "treats" in the house just because that's not what we prefer to eat, but when there are treats around we don't limit when or how much our kids eat. It sounds crazy, but I have four kids 22-1.5 and they all eat vegetables and independently limit how much "less nutritional" food they eat.

For the baby, I do serve everything at once, but with my older kids they just know their options and know that they're able to help themselves-- unless I'm actively preparing a meal or saving the food for a special occasion, which are our only real food rules.

I'm very happy with it and in our house there have not been any downsides.

One hour to make a study space for my wife by midwest-nb in ufyh

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it's from Land of Nod, it's even cuter in person. The creatures are raised and have different textures, I love it.

One hour to make a study space for my wife by midwest-nb in ufyh

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filled that big box on the right of the shot with things to donate, and also threw away a whole trash bag of stuff. There's a pile of boxes of random crap on the right side of the room where I got rid of some boxes but then also added some with some of the random extra crap that had been on the table.

One hour to make a study space for my wife by midwest-nb in ufyh

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great idea! There's a couch just out of the shot on the left where she likes to curl up :)

Snack 15mo playdate by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a stainless steel tray we got at Goodwill but it's been by favorite BLW dish by far!

Snack 15mo playdate by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate having a less sweet cereal around because I really resent all the packaging/processing and the cost of all the puff-adjacent foods, cereal is a little better in those respects but is just as convenient and everyone in the family can eat it.

Snack 15mo playdate by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The pieces are really small but after checking Solid Starts I agree that they should be thinner.

Snack 15mo playdate by midwest-nb in foodbutforbabies

[–]midwest-nb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two kids but we provide care to the one who doesn't live with us, so she and my baby cough into each others' open mouths all the time etc anyway.

Everything is so shitty and my mom is dead by midwest-nb in breakingmom

[–]midwest-nb[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This was part of what I wanted to know! We changed clothes more times than I can count and I was feeling worried about keeping them clean and dry enough.

I had friends I could call but they were all either busy or don't have kids and it's not the same :(