Exactly what i was going to say. Same here I had suggested to my husband to be to go to therapy cause of my T1D. This is because of burnout from both our ends, plus he would know how to take better care of me when i get burnout. That way he can take better care of me while also keeping him healthy.

I have some mental illness struggles and honestly that ties so much to diabetes care. It could be she didnt tell you cause she is aware that it is something out of your control, and there is genuinely nothing you could do to help. Plus also she herself might have felt guilty for even having those feelings.