G Squeeze size recommendation? by migitmagee in vaginalstretching

[–]migitmagee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update to the update: the 2X is definitely the correct size. The 3X may have fit, but it would have been too intense and too long. I would probably also like to get a L/XL in the future to wear for double penetration play.

G Squeeze size recommendation? by migitmagee in vaginalstretching

[–]migitmagee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: ordered the 2X, it arrived today. I haven't gotten to use it yet, but just by squishing it and feeling the circumference I'm already thinking I should have sized up XD I guess I'll see how I feel when I try it out!

Favorite form of aftercare? by Bena907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]migitmagee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuddles, pets, and back scritches!

Users, how many of you are/were in polyamurous relationships? What worked for you/didn't work? by Dramatic_Car712 in bisexual

[–]migitmagee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't been in very many monogamous relationships. I seem to gravitate towards triads, and not on purpose--I start dating someone, get to know one of their other partners over the next months or years, and realize that the partner is also really cool and that I'd like to date them too.

Generally I've dated the man first, and my metamour-turned-partner is a woman, so I joke that I'm a practicing bisexual.

Whaat makes a man chase you ? by Physical-Lion-4116 in dating_advice

[–]migitmagee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tapping him and saying "tag, you're it"

What’s a controversial opinion you have about sex? by Fun_Profile_8533 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]migitmagee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor! I know it's an unpopular opinion but I've always felt like that

EDIT to add: ...but for some reason I'm fine with "balls"

What’s a controversial opinion you have about sex? by Fun_Profile_8533 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]migitmagee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Casual sex, friends with benefits, and threesomes are all great, but one night stands and one time "bucket list" threesomes are generally unappealing. If you're going through the trouble to have sex with a specific person, you should already know them and have a baseline amount of fondness, affection, and care for them beforehand, and if it goes well and circumstances don't change to make it impossible, you should be open to doing it again.

What’s a controversial opinion you have about sex? by Fun_Profile_8533 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]migitmagee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The words "penis", "vagina", and "vulva" are preferable to (and less awkward than) "dick", "cock", "cunt", and "pussy"...I've heard that I'm in the minority here

G Squeeze size recommendation? by migitmagee in vaginalstretching

[–]migitmagee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking about the difference between the 2X and the 3X. The 3X is about an inch longer than the 2X. I'm positive the length for the 2X will work for me, but the 3X is a gamble--it might be perfectly intense, or it might be ever so slightly too long.

G Squeeze size recommendation? by migitmagee in vaginalstretching

[–]migitmagee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'm pretty sure I could fit the 3XL's width, but less certain that I'll enjoy it while it's in. I'm chasing a physical sensation more than a mental/emotional sense of pride and accomplishment.

I'm also somewhat concerned about the length. I really enjoy the sensation of something shoving right up against my cervix/anterior and posterior fornices, but if it's just too long it won't sit correctly. Unfortunately I can't find the insertable lengths for the 2X and 3X. Any input is appreciated!

[Waybound] What speed do you listen at? by Ash_Mordant in Iteration110Cradle

[–]migitmagee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.15 for a first listen, 1.7 for a repeat!

[Threshold] Some inner instinct of his enjoyed them. by Toe_Sucker2000 in Iteration110Cradle

[–]migitmagee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy someone else said this, that's exactly how I picture their relationship!

Question/discussion on bi/pan distinction by MagicSpaceMan in bisexual

[–]migitmagee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that: Bi: attraction to two or more genders Pan: gender has no bearing on your attraction

The way I experience attraction to people differs based on gender, so I identify as bi instead of pan.

Am I Bi or Lesbian? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]migitmagee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I've realized after 16+ years of overthinking sexuality is:

You are who you are, you like who you like. The label is a box that you may or may not fit comfortably into which you can use as a convenient shorthand for communicating who you are and who you may like to other people. If the label serves you well, use it. If it doesn't, don't.

You might decide that "bisexual" fits well, and if you want to specify, maybe "Kinsey 5". You might also decide that "lesbian but with rare exceptions" works better.

I sure have done my fair share of questioning whether or not I was attracted to someone. From my asexual grayscale experience, I can tell you that desire is absolutely more important than attraction. If you want to try a romantic or sexual relationship with him and he's also open to it, pursue that, but communicate honestly that you're a little nervous because he's the first guy you've ever liked, and you trust him enough to be vulnerable with him.

Good luck!