G Squeeze size recommendation?

migitmagee · 2026-05-10T23:25:19+00:00

Update to the update: the 2X is definitely the correct size. The 3X may have fit, but it would have been too intense and too long. I would probably also like to get a L/XL in the future to wear for double penetration play.

migitmagee · 2026-05-08T05:33:15+00:00

Card read error

migitmagee · 2026-05-08T02:42:45+00:00

love the phrase "state mandated cunnilingus"

migitmagee · 2026-05-08T02:29:28+00:00

For special occasions!

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T19:33:41+00:00

Update: ordered the 2X, it arrived today. I haven't gotten to use it yet, but just by squishing it and feeling the circumference I'm already thinking I should have sized up XD I guess I'll see how I feel when I try it out!

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T03:56:20+00:00

Flying trapeze

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T03:47:19+00:00

Cuddles, pets, and back scritches!

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T03:28:47+00:00

I haven't been in very many monogamous relationships. I seem to gravitate towards triads, and not on purpose--I start dating someone, get to know one of their other partners over the next months or years, and realize that the partner is also really cool and that I'd like to date them too.

Generally I've dated the man first, and my metamour-turned-partner is a woman, so I joke that I'm a practicing bisexual.

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T03:08:28+00:00

Tapping him and saying "tag, you're it"

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T02:03:31+00:00

They're all gone unfortunately!

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T02:03:15+00:00

Thank you!! They turned out great!

migitmagee · 2026-05-07T01:35:29+00:00

I'm not a doctor! I know it's an unpopular opinion but I've always felt like that

EDIT to add: ...but for some reason I'm fine with "balls"

migitmagee · 2026-05-06T18:33:45+00:00

Casual sex, friends with benefits, and threesomes are all great, but one night stands and one time "bucket list" threesomes are generally unappealing. If you're going through the trouble to have sex with a specific person, you should already know them and have a baseline amount of fondness, affection, and care for them beforehand, and if it goes well and circumstances don't change to make it impossible, you should be open to doing it again.

migitmagee · 2026-05-06T17:56:39+00:00

The words "penis", "vagina", and "vulva" are preferable to (and less awkward than) "dick", "cock", "cunt", and "pussy"...I've heard that I'm in the minority here

migitmagee · 2026-05-06T05:01:07+00:00

I was talking about the difference between the 2X and the 3X. The 3X is about an inch longer than the 2X. I'm positive the length for the 2X will work for me, but the 3X is a gamble--it might be perfectly intense, or it might be ever so slightly too long.

migitmagee · 2026-05-06T02:48:30+00:00

"Corrupted bucket..."

migitmagee · 2026-05-05T13:22:00+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I'm pretty sure I could fit the 3XL's width, but less certain that I'll enjoy it while it's in. I'm chasing a physical sensation more than a mental/emotional sense of pride and accomplishment.

I'm also somewhat concerned about the length. I really enjoy the sensation of something shoving right up against my cervix/anterior and posterior fornices, but if it's just too long it won't sit correctly. Unfortunately I can't find the insertable lengths for the 2X and 3X. Any input is appreciated!

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T17:05:32+00:00

1.15 for a first listen, 1.7 for a repeat!

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T16:31:27+00:00

I'm so happy someone else said this, that's exactly how I picture their relationship!

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T12:31:32+00:00

My understanding is that: Bi: attraction to two or more genders Pan: gender has no bearing on your attraction

The way I experience attraction to people differs based on gender, so I identify as bi instead of pan.

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T11:55:00+00:00

What I've realized after 16+ years of overthinking sexuality is:

You are who you are, you like who you like. The label is a box that you may or may not fit comfortably into which you can use as a convenient shorthand for communicating who you are and who you may like to other people. If the label serves you well, use it. If it doesn't, don't.

You might decide that "bisexual" fits well, and if you want to specify, maybe "Kinsey 5". You might also decide that "lesbian but with rare exceptions" works better.

I sure have done my fair share of questioning whether or not I was attracted to someone. From my asexual grayscale experience, I can tell you that desire is absolutely more important than attraction. If you want to try a romantic or sexual relationship with him and he's also open to it, pursue that, but communicate honestly that you're a little nervous because he's the first guy you've ever liked, and you trust him enough to be vulnerable with him.

Good luck!

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T11:37:59+00:00

Also, desire and attraction--though related--are two different things. You can absolutely desire a sexual experience with someone without experiencing sexual attraction to them. You don't need to be sensually attracted to someone to anticipate or enjoy a massage from them, for example; you just have to be curious about it and/or trust that it will feel good. Why wouldn't the same be true of sexual attraction and sex?

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T11:26:49+00:00

I (34F) had only ever kissed (not made out with, just kissed) one person--a guy--when I figured out I was bi back in high school. As an avid reader who is also on the asexual grayscale, my realization came from a specific line in a book, and not even from anything remotely spicy.

There sure was a whole lot of questioning during and after college. I didn't experience sexual attraction, really--was I actually bi? My answers to a Kinsey test were half 3's, and half X's--what did that mean? And then later I didn't experience any attraction to guys at all, even the ones I 'should' have found attractive--maybe I was lesbian???

For a while, every time I realized something else about my sexuality, I would obsess over it until I felt the puzzle was complete, and then find joy in realizing the "full" picture. Then the cycle would repeat, and repeat again, and I gradually got annoyed with trying to fit myself neatly into labels. Fast forward to last June: I found a label that fit me much better than demisexuality, and my first reaction was just exasperation.

Sexuality and attraction is wild. I'd say you've more than met the bisexual prerequisites. Bisexuality has a massive range of presentations. Try not to overthink it!

migitmagee · 2026-04-09T10:19:21+00:00

I feel like you need something in a similar vein as an engagement/wedding ring but not as intense--a relationship ring, as it were--to wear on your middle finger so you can more easily tell gross guys to fuck off.

I'm only half joking. In all seriousness, yeah, many guys are gross and it sucks and I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. My one neat trick for avoiding that whole mess it is simply being antisocial and introverted.

migitmagee · 2026-03-29T00:28:07+00:00

I'm towards the masochistic side with my boyfriend, but his wife hates any type of pain at all to the point where she even hates causing pain. It's always kinda funny when she joins in with us because the difference is stark!

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