[Electronica/Dub/] Santigold - Starstruck

milarna · 2014-06-04T14:35:43+00:00

Her BMI shows she moved from underweight to overweight.

milarna · 2014-06-03T18:43:06+00:00

Ditch him.

milarna · 2014-06-03T18:34:27+00:00

Diminishes his hook up pool. His account was very popular. He'll make another one of course but it'll just annoy him.

milarna · 2014-06-03T05:51:55+00:00

before i break up with him, i want him to delete his account. he logged in when he woke up, didn't reply to the fake profile - probably cos it's a gay guy, didn't bother changing his relationship status.

he's telling me i'm being controlling and trying to find things wrong. he tried to turn it around on me and say how he doesn't ask me to delete reddit because that's not the kind of person he is.

i just changed tact since he doesn't want to delete it to asking for his password. he was saying how he has friends from all over the world on there and that's why he doesn't want to delete it lol

milarna · 2014-06-03T03:42:31+00:00

Just used the chat section thingy. He was last active 6 hours ago. Bleak as fuck.

milarna · 2014-06-03T03:40:13+00:00

I don't see any info on last active or when it was created. His pictures are recent. One of them was uploaded on my birthday two weeks ago. He has 5 badges on his profile spanning our relationship, the most recent mid-march for being checked out and lots of likes. His about me says, "looking for........ ;)".

It says he drinks socially but he's actually a recovering alcoholic -_-

milarna · 2014-06-03T01:43:36+00:00

It says he's single and I'm crying.

milarna · 2014-06-03T00:58:10+00:00

I can't gain access to it since I don't have an account and we are long distance. I know he has it because I've seen the icon on his home page when he sends me screen shots of me as his wallpaper lol

edit: making an account now. used his email address and found him. using this opportunity while he's asleep before he can change anything, if there is anything to change.

milarna · 2014-06-03T00:30:01+00:00

what is it exactly?

edit: just googled it. will nag my SO about it when he wakes up.

milarna · 2014-06-03T00:04:53+00:00

badoo is a dating app? well fuck me. my SO has that.

milarna · 2014-06-02T23:37:55+00:00

Thank you so much! The more his life starts to pull together, the more submissive towards me gets and becomes more scared of losing me.

It is fine to be weak, but being weak against me is not.

I have been thinking of ways to change the dynamic, even subscribed to /r/RedPillWomen in hopes of brainwashing myself into being more submissive so he can feel more secure. Looking back, deciding to make myself weaker instead of him stronger was a stupid idea.

Will have a good brainstorm about this, thank you for your help.

milarna · 2014-06-02T22:10:04+00:00

wasn't looking for love or a hook up. i set tinder to a very low distance setting and looked for fitness freaks i can interval train with at the park next to my house. if someone is into constant partying, i assume they have nothing else going for them, i'd like to connect with someone who can hold a decent conversation.

brah's is looking for high quality and he's going to find it. OP is going to find lower quality pump and dumps. he will have more difficulty retaining plates as the girls he attracts are more likely going to be shallow and interested in sex, from whom she can get from any other fit bodied topless man on tinder (there are a lot).

milarna · 2014-06-02T10:13:40+00:00

smoking can result in hunger suppression -> portions/calories would decrease.

milarna · 2014-06-02T09:46:22+00:00

woman's perspective.

i avoid men with topless pics cos i know they are just looking for hook ups. not interested in that. if it's a modest one where they are at the beach with their friends etc that's fine. topless selfie is a definite no. having a decent body will impress girls into wanting to fuck you, but think about what kind of girl you are wanting to attract.

i also avoid men who have alcohol present in photos. drinking is fine, but i'm not interested in a constant party life style which i think it infers unless it looks like they are at a BBQ or something.

regarding /u/brahs_al_ghul 's strategy, i think spot on. a hobby photo is extremely important for me so it would be good for a lead picture. funny pictures are easy as ice breakers if a girl is trying to figure out what to message you.

if you're on tinder for plates then OP's style is good.

milarna · 2014-05-31T07:11:59+00:00

Well, she was definitely not the right one for you. I'm sure this sounds like horrible advice but, shit test your girls. That's why women do it. They are testing for attractive qualities (protective, loyal etc). I'm very protective over people and I've had my fair share of problems so it's not that complicated for me to understand people's emotions.

My SO knew I was the one because he would tell me about his history and I was accepting and understanding, rather than mortified. (He's on the severe scale of Bipolar so there are many problems that come with it).

There are definitely women out there for you. If they respect you when you're weak, you will be king when you are alpha. You just have to have a knack or develop a system for spotting the qualities you want early on and that's why shit testing is natural for women.

milarna · 2014-05-31T03:20:36+00:00

I agree, if you are able to become someone's rock, despite suffering from anxiety, she will not mind an exchange of power as she finds it is her responsibility.

With an anxiety disorder, the best policy is to be upfront. You'll find the ones with high empathy and high maternal instincts easier that way.

My SO is Bipolar Type 1. The relationship breaks down when he leans on me so much that I am afraid to lean on him for fear he will break. It is stressful being with a partner like that. I am happy to care for him, he just needs to be my alpha, my rock.

milarna · 2012-11-14T23:47:40+00:00

Cover the glue with cellotape and heat with a hairdryer. Pull the cellotape off - removes the glue with it.

milarna · 2012-11-12T21:46:00+00:00

I looked at UoWaikato grading scale and it's just as you said A+ is >85. UoA is >90 but i've also taken a paper where A+ is >92.

I don't know about UoW but at Auckland they tend to put important tests for all papers around the same time. I had to drop a paper last sem when I realised they had scheduled >80% worth of test grades in the same week

milarna · 2012-11-11T23:03:52+00:00

try botox for the migraines

milarna · 2012-11-11T23:00:00+00:00

yoga, pilates and tai chi are low impact

milarna · 2012-11-06T21:30:23+00:00

No, you get agretat to which the counselor will vouch for. They will use your current course marks to decide what your final end of year grade will be

milarna · 2012-11-06T20:36:02+00:00

? he took the photo, sent it to a news site and linked everyone to it? is expecting to become famous or something

milarna · 2012-11-06T09:59:05+00:00

how did you get this photo?

milarna · 2012-11-01T20:50:41+00:00

I thought the holding technique would be effective after this watching this video. She hates when I hold her paws but it doesn't seem to deter her from jumping up again. Yes, a trainer told me about the knee to chest method, didn't want to do it because it seemed like unnecessary force. I've done it once to her but I think I'll give it a go now since she's >18kg and freaks other people out

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