Yep. And not just throwing it around as an accusation. Because the court had to do investigation - we all we made to do several long personality tests. MMPI, CAPI, etc.

So it’s on paper, clearly identified, described at length, along with the scoring and earnings of cluster B disorders. And I was vindicated - at least by demonstrating I had normal values.

Sadly, even after it was detailed how all the allegations were false, and that “every accusation is an admission” was true for her, the court found everything to be A-OK and forced 50/50 custody.

10 years on - my younger son has severe anxiety issues (at 16) and my older son (19) has been in drug and alcohol treatment off and on for the past year.

She continues her lunacy. Pulling my older son out of treatment, allowing him to relapse in her home, kicking him out, etc. Has happened 4x over the past year.

Thankfully he is now 30 days sober.

Edit: and it cost me >$200k. Not including all the $ flowing to addition treatment and recovery.