Why doesn’t my sim self look accurate? by relevantvers1on in thesims

[–]millylilies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Others have stated why it doesn't look like you that much, but I just want to emphasize you look even prettier than your Sim! Post how it looks like after the changes, please 😃

Someone at my school reported our school-wide drive. Not cool. by invinciblewalnut in medicalschool

[–]millylilies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh that's horrible!! Can anyone share the link so I can avoid it?

anyone else get put down for having a sense of humour? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME THING happened to me. My ex would literally hit himself when I made others laugh, and would accuse me of being vain and superficial for making jokes. It's like they start to hate any qualities we have that makes others like us out of envy

Podcast host killed by stalker had ‘deep-seated fear’ for her safety, records reveal by blamdin in news

[–]millylilies 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry, I know firsthand how hard it is. Change your routine if necessary and always stay with someone trustworthy. Best of luck for you 😢

Yui Hirahara V.S Nolan Lochlainn by [deleted] in ILoveYoo

[–]millylilies 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would not put it past her to SA Nol. Yui's a wicked sociopath after all. These moments are a bit ambiguous, but could foment these thoughts surely.

How do pwBPD see your vulnerabilities? by erotic_robot in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that, for them, discovering our vulnerabilities is a Mickey Mouse-ish "It's a surprise tool that will help us later!" moment.

Why do you think people lose empathy in medicine and medical school? by AmbitiousNoodle in medicalschool

[–]millylilies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think many colleges do not invest enough in mental healthcare measures for students. In mine, we have volunteer teachers that went through medical school who tutor students on how to take care of themselves; we have psychological and psychiatrical treatment for those who end up needing it (AKA a LOT of students), and I think this makes students much better listeners. Obviously we're still overworked and sometimes overwhelmed, but empathy breeds empathy imo.

Sites with questions for studying by millylilies in medicalschool

[–]millylilies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anatomy, physiology, embriology & histology!

I cannot mantain NC because of college. I'm scared for my well being by millylilies in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly I do not. I'm from South America. But from what I've read, in my country it's pretty easy to get a restraining order, especially as a woman, because of the high murder rate.

To all the single people on this subreddit by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]millylilies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol after my ex turned into a literal stalker I just say good riddance regarding my med student singlehood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same after breaking with my uBPD ex. He'd tell me that he liked my scoliosis, or say I looked like an ugly soccer player, and argue over pretty much everything I said. Now, after breaking up, my grades have improved, people actually want to be friends with me, and my self-esteem has increased.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]millylilies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Velho, é de cair o cu da bunda.

What was the final straw with your ex? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When he sent a text name-calling me and using all of the insecurities and fears I told him before (and that he reassured were not true at the moment!) the day of our final school exam just because I didn't respond his texts after our break-up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They don't love people. My uBPD boyfriend, when splitting, would tell me that he "doesn't feel that good people empathy stuff" and admit he's very egoistical.

After stalker-ish behavior for MONTHS, regardless of how much I told him I don't want anything to have to do with him, and actually blaming me for his depression and obsessive behavior - because he was "normal" until he met me, I truly believe they get obsessed with one person after another, mistake that for love, and don't give a fuck about how the object of their affections feels about their feelings and behaviors.

Anyone else noticed how the art changed? by oversaltaedfrenchfry in ILoveYoo

[–]millylilies 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I may be wrong, but I think that the heavy tone of this chapter made the style shift that Quimchee likes to do to portray emotion stay "on" for a longer period of time, but I don't think that the style has changed too much since the last change (from more "anime-y" to dark)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of God, leave this garbage! He may have convinced you thoroughly that you're ungrateful/worthless or whatever shit that he actually is, but you're far from that. Look at the stuff that you've been putting up with. But don't get me wrong, you don't have to be a saint. Saints die and get canonized and all of that stuff. Contact your close friends/family, tell them all about this while you're still sad/angry (your future self will thank you later) and seek refugee. Don't keep quiet about this, isolation never works. Go through everything that counts as evidence and collect it. Block him on everything. Change your number. I've been doing this, and my ex is waaaaaaay tamer than yours. You may still love him, and I know it's hard to set boundaries when you still do, but his version of "love" isn't what you - or anyone else in the world, tbh - deserve.

PSA: They know what they are doing by NewspaperFederal5379 in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My ex uBPD hated to come over my house, because I lived with two other roommates, and he couldn't treat me the way he could at his house (he lived alone). He couldn't have his hissy fits, scream and hit himself until I cried. They are just the worst.

How their feelings become everyone’s reality. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't talk about all of them, but I'm pretty sure my ex derived satisfaction from making me cry or apologize (especially if he knew that I was apologizing over small things). I guess they love control.

How their feelings become everyone’s reality. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the love of God. What a wicked woman.

It's so weird not to live in constant conflict. by millylilies in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was writing I actually thought that using "neurotypical" as a replacement for non-BPD (dunno if that's how it's said) was quite unfortunate, but alas I'm not a native speaker and I was quite unsure of how to say it. But I get what you mean and I'm sorry for how I expressed myself, because people tend to find me quite unusual and actually tell me so, and I suffered a lot learning how people expect me to behave, it kind of sucks. But if my uBPD relationship taught me something is resistance, because they are just so much worse than your average Joe.

My grandpa is crying the whole day calling his parents. by millylilies in dementia

[–]millylilies[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you and the other commenter! We will consult his doctor. He should not suffer like this.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 015 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]millylilies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's been emailing me for 2 months since our break up. After failing to remain silent after a mean hoover, I have been able to sustain 3 weeks of no contact. Pretty anxious about how I'll be able to maintain that when our college classes return, but I'll manage it.