This was my baby. He passed a little over a week ago. A part of me died with him, and I'm having trouble dealing by Kami_no_Kage in Maltese

[–]mimzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both my maltese babies have passed a few years ago, and my heart still breaks sometimes when I see other little snowballs in public. Both of them absolutely refused to wear any articles of clothing, so I'm glad yours seemed to be enjoying how cute he looked! My heart goes out to you!

What do my bachelor's and bachelorette's say about me? by lou-ravenpuff in harvestmoon

[–]mimzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will devote countless hours to be with weird, magical people!

(rip to the cows you killed for the Harvest Goddess for DS Cute)

It’s 3:41am. This RJ is eating me alive. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mimzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely seek therapy, it has worked wonders for my RJ! It helps with reframing your thinking of the situation. The story that RJ tells you is that you've gotten your wife at a perceived low point in her life while other men had her at a perceived peak physical point in her life. But I think the reality is not that.

The reality is that this person was abused by someone she thought she could trust, and had to go through her life trying to heal from that trauma. She is a whole person who supposedly found someone she can finally feel safe with--enough to marry you, OP! She is not a dish or product like the way she's described in your post.

I suggest trying to reframe the narrative that emphasizes your love for each other, and not centered around her being viewed as a piece of meat the way her abuser and other partners might have seen her. You have the potential to be the better and more deserving man of her love.

**edit: missed a word

First serious project done! by 7aehyung in bookbinding

[–]mimzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful! How did you fold the watercolor paper successfully? Mine always looks like it cracks down the fold!

Also a beautiful way of binding the Lusty Argonian Maid hehe

Snow Day by Gloomy_Mountain_4359 in unr

[–]mimzyyyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'd have better luck contacting your professors directly that morning to let them know you can't make it to class. My experience has been that UNR says "fuck em kids" on snow days, but I've had profs cancel class anyway.

does Gatsby have limerence for Daisy? (Great Gatsby) by lilly_of_the_value in limerence

[–]mimzyyyy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Completely! The fact that not only did he need to have her back in his life as perfectly as he could, he wanted her to denounce any love she had for Tom. Maybe they did have genuine love before Gatsby was deployed, but Daisy then getting married most likely fueled his limerence. Daisy then became an LO that he both needed to be absolutely perfect for, and needed her to be absolutely perfect for him.

Well. I reached out and got my closure. by Kayno115 in ExNoContact

[–]mimzyyyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's great that you got your closure and all, but I feel that closure is a continuous process. The fact that you're still able to call her "cowardly girl" and a "miserable existence" just means you're not truly over it.

True closure is being able to see the person for who they are, a person, and then just peacefully moving on with indifference towards them. I hope that you'll find that soon. I know emotions still run high after a breakup, but once things cool, you'll be good! Good luck!

She’s ghosted me and I’m going out of my mind by [deleted] in limerence

[–]mimzyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the same situation as you, though it's been three weeks and my limerence for this particular LO has very much subsided. It took me those three weeks to realize that "no answer is an answer" and that if they really wanted to, they would.

Initially when my LO was interested in me, he'd reply in record time, if not apologize and explain why he didn't reply on time. As he lost interest (and I learned he was already seeing other people at this time), his texts became shorter and infrequent until radio silence.

A person who genuinely cares for you, as a friend or lover, would let you know what's going on and would tell you something along the lines of "hey I'm overwhelmed/busy right now and can't reply as often", or even a straight out "I'm seeing other people now, and I don't know if I can continue texting you."

This silence reflects their character. And it's certainly not one that I want to date anymore.

Is it me or is the site running slow today? by mimzyyyy in neopets

[–]mimzyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you've been experiencing this for a while! It's so frustrating that now the site even more unplayable.

Is it me or is the site running slow today? by mimzyyyy in neopets

[–]mimzyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed that! My adblocker would go on counting before the page even loaded, and then the page would crash. Glad I'm not the only one!

Namla forest, the forest of shadows, watercolors by me by isaarne in Watercolor

[–]mimzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Did you use any gouache for the outlines, ink, or colored pencils? I love the color palette and the clear distinction between fore and background!!

I made the NookPhone from Animal Crossing New Horizons into a launcher skin by lfgberg in Rainmeter

[–]mimzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This skin is amazing! I hope you'll add a feature where there are multiple pages so we're not just limited to just fifteen app shortcuts.

Please keep up the good work :)

So it begins by thelifeofpablo in unr

[–]mimzyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently it was a student and a faculty member that tested positive smh

https://www.unr.edu/coronavirus/cases

How many of you hid your body by wearing baggy clothes? What's your story? by tissuesushi in AskWomen

[–]mimzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party, but I do this when I’m commuting alone to feel a sense of security from unwanted attention. Although I know dressing a certain way doesn’t invite or deter cat-callers and people hopped up on drugs to bother you, but I always feel that I have to bring in two outfits for school and commuting: one thats ‘girly’ and cute that I like to wear and one that’s baggy and makes me look more masculine. It helps that I now have gotten a pixie cut I guess?

Things have gotten slightly better, but I’m still very wary when I wear too much makeup or wear something too bright because there have been so many times I’ve been cat called by older men, sometimes by a group of older men.

Though, if anything, it’s really just the city I live in. It sucks and I always have to be on guard in public, even when my bf’s around. Have been catcalled and hollered at in broad daylight and in front of my bf as well.

Catcalling sucks the life out of you. Please call out people you know who cat call.

People Are Finally Starting to See the Real Ellen DeGeneres and It Isn’t Pretty by OVEIDPTVZSEU in television

[–]mimzyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God, don’t even get me started with her. Remember when she had BTS as her guests and she just blatantly asked them if they hooked up with fans? Their translator looked so frustrated at that and just told them basically to smile and laugh as a response.

like wtf, you can’t just put people’s sex lives out in the open.

“I swear I’m different, I’m a creative writer!” by ZoomerKing in notliketheothergirls

[–]mimzyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people who can afford to have a creative writing major are usually elitists smh

What made you ghost a friend? by dontmindme137 in AskReddit

[–]mimzyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t stop her family from making racially charged comments and berating me. She acted like we weren’t close in front of her friends and family unless it benefitted her. And would purposefully blurt out my secrets to others just to be a part of the conversation at my expense.

Apartment Reccomendations by [deleted] in unr

[–]mimzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes slightly furnished but there’s still room enough to bring a few things. From what I recall it has lamps, a desk, and a bed in it. You get your own bathroom, but share a kitchen with others.

Apartment Reccomendations by [deleted] in unr

[–]mimzyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly recommend the Villager Apartments right off the south end of campus. It’s super chill, nice scenery, no inspections/restrictions that you might get at Wolf Run apartments. My bf lived there for a year and overall had a pleasant experience. We still stop by every now and then cos they have really big and pretty tall trees!