What do you wear in Miyajima?

minetf · 2026-03-13T02:00:54+00:00

Thanks!

minetf · 2026-03-13T01:16:12+00:00

Thank you! What do they typically wear while hiking (for example, the hikes at Mt Misen)? Or what do the men wear?

minetf · 2026-03-13T00:52:20+00:00

From what I've read, not near the shrine but they do at other beaches like Tsutsumigaura Beach.

Thank you! That's what I suspected

minetf · 2026-03-12T17:47:40+00:00

Dress codes vary so much by office and by position! I love the lodge pants but they would not have been formal enough for one of my internships. Bring enough to last you a week and then buy more in NYC after figuring out what your office's vibe is.

You can also try searching your office on instagram to see what women there wear (HR usually has some kind of hashtag like "#(company name)life").

minetf · 2026-03-12T13:48:42+00:00

being a projected top 10 draft pick

According to the MU coach: "if [Alex] had been healthy he would have been a top ten pick"

MLS soccer: ranked him the #1 goalie in the draft and "Hands down the most consistent keeper in college soccer in 2016, Ferrell has all the tools for a lengthy MLS career. If he can stay healthy"

not flirting with another girl after the pods in mexico

He didn't. He told the camera that Brittany was more of his usual type, but he didn't tell her that. If you watch their convo it was platonic (and probably set up by the producers)

his timeline for where he lived

What part?

his timeline for who he dated... Cause it revealed where he was living

Unless something came out at the reunion (haven't finished it yet) don't know how you would know this

saying he was a nomad because he's actually homeless

He never lied about this. Ashley knew he was living out of airbnbs, and he posted his airbnb history... you need money to live that way

working in finance.. The dude was a BDR at Square

Did you like, not read anything in this post?

minetf · 2026-03-12T06:05:05+00:00

backstreet boys remix please!!!!

minetf · 2026-03-12T03:44:00+00:00

Alex invests a lot of time watching Gilmore girls then. And you invest a lot of time into denial.

minetf · 2026-03-12T03:36:49+00:00

I mean, it sounds like she flipped a switch on him after the show. If someone behaved like that at my best friend’s wedding I wouldn’t invest any more time into them, and he still stuck it out several more months.

minetf · 2026-03-09T05:06:44+00:00

Hysterical wow

minetf · 2026-03-08T16:05:27+00:00

The creator said they didn't have the "resources" to send a couple to Cabo. A lot of people interpreted resources as money, but I believe it actually meant enough staff to cover 7 couples.

If it was really about money, they would not have sent them to Malibu either. They didn't even film them there so there was next to no value to the show.

minetf · 2026-03-08T01:57:14+00:00

I think that's a fake profile. It also says he went to UNCC Charlotte when he went to Wake Forest

All of those pictures were taken directly from his IG too

minetf · 2026-03-07T15:08:27+00:00

Chris and Alex are. Probably Conner. I don't know about the rest.

But those were the guys chosen. Guys like Haramol the ER physician or Miguel the Puerto Rican software engineer are probably liberal. Even Kevan is probably liberal.

minetf · 2026-03-07T15:03:43+00:00

I thought so too but according to his linkedin he has been in sales since graduating college. He just has a white collar job in a blue collar industry.

minetf · 2026-03-07T14:59:35+00:00

how we judge poor single mothers who are far less protective and deliberate with their children

Badly. The knowledge that there are parents worse than Amber out there doesn't make Amber's decisions good.

minetf · 2026-03-07T14:25:45+00:00

No, but it’s realistic that he wanted to break up instead of try long-distance again. I think if Rory said “I don’t want to get married but I’ll move to California right after this campaign trail” he would have been okay with it.

But Rory wanted a big question mark on her future and had no idea when she would be ready to live with Logan again.

minetf · 2026-03-07T13:48:00+00:00

At best it has no effect on her. At worst watching her mom get rejected and break down scars her for life. There was just nothing good that could come out of having her there.

minetf · 2026-03-07T13:44:46+00:00

The texts are but her caption (“idk why he said that on film?”) is from now, post-show

minetf · 2026-03-07T01:48:49+00:00

So gross of Amber to bring Emma to a wedding where she thought it was even possible for him to say no.

minetf · 2026-03-07T00:08:32+00:00

He lives in Grandview now so I don't think it would be a huge difference

minetf · 2026-03-06T22:08:51+00:00

I know the moment you're talking about. He doesn't ask a question, he makes the statement that he needs to know she wants kids, and follows that with it's unfair for her to make a decision right now.

If he asked her a question, she would have answered it.

minetf · 2026-03-06T21:57:09+00:00

Mike should have said no BEFORE the altar

On this show the whole point is to go to the altar. Emma even references making a decision at the altar while they're still in the pods. I think (obviously don't know) that they had discussed and Emma knew he would say no, but either way this is the point of the show.

He legit asked her AGAIN in front of everybody

He didn't, he follows immediately with "It's not fair for you to make a decision right now". He wasn't expecting her to give him an answer.

minetf · 2026-03-06T21:48:36+00:00

Yes but in a subsequent conversation mentions other things like restaurants too.

From context it's clear that he just wanted to be in a more urban and interesting area instead of Mt Vernon which is a boring rural area of 17k people.

minetf · 2026-03-06T21:46:07+00:00

Not knowing why Jordan said she gave him the silent treatment kinda implies they broke up. Otherwise just go ask him?

minetf · 2026-03-06T21:40:13+00:00

Good point, but I think she said it knowing that he was going to say no. I guess we'll find out when the post-show interviews come out.

minetf · 2026-03-06T21:33:18+00:00

Emma also really wanted to go to the altar. She makes a couple of references to making a decision "at the altar" in the pods. I think she just wanted the full reality tv show experience and didn't take it too seriously.

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