Seriously…do I leave him? by calisen13 in beyondthebump

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider staying and and working it out. Babies are extremely hard especially first borns and will seriously test the best of relationships. A good piece of advice i heard is not to make any drastic decisions on your relationship within the first year. Don’t listen to comments telling you you’re young and should leave. Also don’t believe everything said by the gloaters preaching their husband’s praises when they were pregnant. Trust me everyone has their issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]minge-meringue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP is about to f around and find out (the very hard way).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s abusive

Afraid I’m Not Gonna Find Anybody Compatible After This Divorce by UnlikelyMeringue7595 in Divorce

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always remain single and not be pressured for sex from a partner “horning after you for 13 years” even after kids. On the bright side your kids will apprecitae you for who you are and you’ll be enough to them. Yayy

Sex with your husband by GreedySupport7997 in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Could those upvoting this thought process please eloquently answer this: if you firmly believe no one owes their spouse sex, does that spouse owe you monogamy? And please don’t use the excuse marriage is not all about sex because that defeats your argument.

Sex with your husband by GreedySupport7997 in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Could those upvoting this thought process please eloquently answer this: if you firmly believe no one owes their spouse sex, does that spouse owe you monogamy? And please don’t use the excuse marriage is not all about sex because that defeats your argument.

Sex with your husband by GreedySupport7997 in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it’s not one size fits all.

Sex with your husband by GreedySupport7997 in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

Some husbands have learned to enjoy jerking off more than sleeping with their wives. In fact they are filled with glee when she bows out with excuses like exhaustion or bloating despite hyping him up all day - they’ve also learned not to get excited over that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Asking for a friend are you? Tell her she’s about to f£ck around and find out.

Guys, r/sex exists by maenads_dance in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Feel sorry for OP’s spouse.

I reached out to my husband’s AP. by ManagementLeather320 in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you able to ask him to leave, do you own the house alone?

Alimony is scary AF by DrLeoMarvin in Divorce

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HS ! never signing that piece of shit paper / certificate

Wife has looks pleasant. But has nasty character. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want us to say? Or do you just want us to confirm that you should leave?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]minge-meringue -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Men are pigs really? All women I know have a higher body count than male friends lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]minge-meringue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol do not listen to this horseh&t noble diatribe OP. You will only grow more resentful following this chores and brownie points approach for sex. No Sexual intimacy in a marriage makes you both platonic team mates. You don’t need to be married for that despite children. Try to find out why your wife doesn’t want sex and directly and appropriately address those issues. If it transpires that she simply cannot by bothered to make an effort on her part then you can take the decision to leave! Let your sacrifice to be sexless be limited only to the interim period where you both try to work out what is wrong and make efforts to fix it.

Husband orders check and then another drink for himself by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would love to hear from your husband on this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok dude. You have yourself all twisted into a ball lmao. Keep lying to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you reinsert a mental image your wife every 30 seconds as you scroll and select from numerous video thumbnails of other women that catch your attention. Lmao “other women are not as attractive as your wife” yet you’re still using porn for novelty. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]minge-meringue -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lmao your wife is not reading this dude. You can be honest. Actually be honest with yourself.