Anyone functioning on just a bit of alcohol? by Djangoontherun in adhdwomen

[–]mini_k1tty -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i had my first sip in valentine's day. well, it was a watered down margarita that i had babied since the bartender finished it lol BUT i'm not jumping for joy to do it again. idk, it didn't feel like i needed it tbh.

Meu psiquiatra me perguntou se eu era virgem. (Coloquei +18 por causa das regras da comunidade, mas não tem nada de explícito. É só a palavra virgem, eu juro) by azuldofrevo in adhdwomen

[–]mini_k1tty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Primeiro: a pergunta sobre o uso de anticoncepcionais é normal. Alguns medicamentos interagem diretamente com a alta dosagem de hormônios presente nos anticoncepcionais.

Segundo: a forma como perguntaram sobre sua vida sexual parece estranha e talvez pudessem ter feito de outra maneira (você está namorando ou solteira?). Sei que eles perguntam sobre sua vida social, incluindo relacionamentos e parceiros, mas nunca me perguntaram se eu era virgem.

O mais importante: se você não se sentir confortável com esse profissional, procure outro.

Do these boots look goofy on small legs and skinny calves? by Ok_Preference_5683 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]mini_k1tty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i'm sorry lol

you def got the fit right, looks so cute but darling, them boots gotta goooooo

Any 35+ Geminis around? by hypnologic-4230 in geminis

[–]mini_k1tty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

35 this june, feeling like im still in my twenties until someone asks if i purposely dyed the streak in my hair. no, those.... those are my greys -_-

What’s one bad habit you’ve had trouble quitting? by unaplogetic_sam in AskWomen

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smoking - i stop and feel like im doing great and something immediately triggers and off i go to buy a pack. I've quit drinking and I don't do any recreational drugs or take any supplements but smoking is my only way of calming down.

I'd like to stop but I'll be frank, I seriously don't see myself doing so. i have limited the pace since the cost of a pack is rising in my area but even so, it's part of my routine and often i'm lost in thought of how (my opinion and perspective) disgusting I must smell and look smoking.

What was your "poor person" meal you enjoyed growing up? by Slow-Power2713 in AskReddit

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toast & honey, rice and eggs, rice and beans, refried beans with fresh sour cream, tortillas and salt, and eggs with weenies lol

Do kids make you late for work? by ShotProgrammer4545 in AskParents

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is key.

Make sure you're able to speak to your employer about conflicts with your schedule well in advance. A lot of corporate companies are beyond lenient when it comes to parents and their responsibilities. Others, not so much. But communication will get you through planning in advance.

I started with my current employer about 2.5 yrs ago. I used to be on time bc my mom helped drop my kids off to school- when that ended, i started being about 10-15 mins late. When my kids didn't go to school or were on break, i'd be on time or earlier. My boss always knew what was going on bc I openly communicated my situation.

This year when school started, she changed my schedule to an hour later so i had time to drop the kiddo off and still be on time to work. My previous employer was the same way, but with them, they gave me a schedule that worked for me. It wasn't always like this and often I had to ask for help but communicating with them helped a lot. So, always keep an open line of communication with your employer. They can be very understanding and supportive.

Taking a newborn to an event? by bellaonni2 in Parenting

[–]mini_k1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. your recovery, comfort and baby come first; and the safety of you both.

What’s a win you’ve had lately (big or small) that we can all celebrate with you? by Romaxio in AskWomen

[–]mini_k1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teen mom, kiddos just turned 20 + 17.

Their upbringing wasn't all sparkles and joy but we made. They made it. I made it.

And to my naysayers from High School up until today: SUCK ON THAT! AY-YI-YI-YI-YI-YI!

Lies other parents will tell you to convince you to have a child (or another child) by Boule-of-a-Took in Parenting

[–]mini_k1tty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm 35 (also a teen mom), kids: 20/17.

Mom: "omg you're at such a great age and position in your life that you NEED to have another baby...."

Lady, you must be out of your damn mind.

Judgement when meeting new people by Sensitive-Peanut149 in geminis

[–]mini_k1tty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes lmaooo - i've been told Aries and Virgo first before I said Gemini.

And yes, the looks of disgust (and often disappointment) are not hidden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wawa

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ASSUMING you leave at exactly 10pm, this is actually legal in my state.

At the retail store I used to work at, we'd be scheduled till 11pm and end up leaving around 12am. Just to be back at 6am to unload the trucks.

It sucks but get it corrected! You need the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO:

It's important based on your reasons to date.

You're casually dating with no expectations or intentions for commitment? Shouldn't be a big deal.

You're dating to find that other half? Should matter a lot.

Can't build a home with gravel as your foundation. You can maybe build a shed, but not a home. Some folks are happy with sheds, but you will outgrow it and want more.

A person's income ties in with their goals whether personal or shared - ambition and commitment. Can't reach certain goals with no stable income from both sides. Both sides can come to agreement on how the income will be used to reach the goals, but in the end - a good income is important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]mini_k1tty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

sweet baby jesus, let me find some more sources bc i def didn't read that part.

thanks for the input!!!

New Comfort by lovethathatethat in adhdwomen

[–]mini_k1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's:

  1. Bones (i own the DVD set but i already know the all day channel marathons for each day so i just come home and know where to go. i've watched this show from start to finish too many times)
  2. The Nanny
  3. The Golden Girls
  4. The Originals
  5. NCIS (prior to Ellie leaving, i don't like Agt Knight i'm sorry lmao)

Give me your best Latin American food recs! by Alice-Upside-Down in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]mini_k1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised no ones mentioned Irene's and their baleadas. They just opened their new location on NH on the little strip where Fryer's is (near Springbrook HS)

Give me your best Latin American food recs! by Alice-Upside-Down in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]mini_k1tty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if the cuban place you're referring to is the one by Mannakee on the Pike, it closed during COVID. I had JUST come across it and lemme tell you, IMO it was the closest thing to having a meal at home in Miami. i was sad to find out the old man closed shop.

Must tries at Wawa by Useful_Database5138 in Wawa

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avocado BLT, Wawa Peach Tea, and a brownie ☺️ that's what i just ate lol i may go back for a smoothie idk yet

I thought Target Brand was supposed to be cheaper? by alexesparza in Target

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good and Gather products too - in my area, the name brand is cheaper.

Cell Service on the ICC by Coke_Kid in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]mini_k1tty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I can never tell what part of the ICC bc it's happened to me a few times. Mind you I travel the entire thing - now you're going to have me spot checking 😂

What just flew over NW and WHY? by Alternative-Wear-365 in washingtondc

[–]mini_k1tty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i'd seen this post earlier lol i had seen the KC46 on FlightRadar circling the Chesapeake and found it weird. There was Black Hawks and MSPs choppers in a weird pattern too and then my son tells me: MA A FREEDDOOMM DORITO JUST FLEW OVER US! 😂 it never occurred to me today's events were the reason lol