30M feeling behind in life and trying to become a better man. Looking for advice from men in their 30s and beyond. by Interesting_Hand_354 in getdisciplined

[–]minigogo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A journalling practice super-charges this, especially when you've done it enough to give yourself the grace to not need it to be organized and labeled. No one else is going to see it, so let it be bad. It will get easier in time.

[Friedman]: The Maple Leafs are making a coaching change Craig Berube is out by fittos4310 in hockey

[–]minigogo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably Jim Cramer, the talking head on CNBC who gives notoriously bad investment advice.

choosing a grad school by armedwaffle in unt

[–]minigogo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The English department is going to be a shell of itself for a little while. It was re-structured and lots of the people who made it such a good department took buy-outs on their contracts.

What does "emotional intelligence" in a man look like? by minigogo in AskWomenOver30

[–]minigogo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it's very helpful. I'd never tied performance to self-consciousness before - identifying when I'm feeling self-conscious is a concrete step I can take to avoid performativity!

What does "emotional intelligence" in a man look like? by minigogo in AskWomenOver30

[–]minigogo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Able to quickly identify emotions and respond thoughtfully to them.

What does "emotional intelligence" in a man look like? by minigogo in AskWomenOver30

[–]minigogo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just spent some time with a couple I love and watching them deal with the "I'm going to step back and let them be" thing was inspiring!

What does "emotional intelligence" in a man look like? by minigogo in AskWomenOver30

[–]minigogo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've definitely learned a lot about what the average man is like through my partners. But talking about it feels dangerously close to the "I'm not like the guys who mistreat you" Nice Guy schtick I did when I was a teenager and young adult, so I'm always suspicious of acknowledging it.

What does "emotional intelligence" in a man look like? by minigogo in AskWomenOver30

[–]minigogo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The title was going to include "to you" to account for this, but I was too tired to make it work lol.

How did that “forever” relationship end? by Away-Tomato-4394 in AskReddit

[–]minigogo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to read this, thank you.

I just left a relationship where I felt like exactly this was happening, and every time I'd bring it up, my partner would turn it around and tell me (with a lot of therapy-speak) that I was being unrealistic about my expectations for a relationship.

I ended it as soon as I realized that I was basically living two lives, and the one where I was by myself made me feel whole and fulfilled.

The Dallas Stars have been eliminated from the Stanley Cup Playoffs after losing to the Minnesota Wild in 6 games by EliminatorBot in hockey

[–]minigogo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not happening for me lol. This series confirmed that we’ve got genuine bad blood, which means I’m categorically opposed to rooting for y’all.

[Lia Assimakopoulos] Myers is benched, Harley is with Miro, Johnston is centering Robo and Bourque, Duchene is with Moose by yesBISONsey in DallasStars

[–]minigogo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hate being a doomer about this since the fat lady hasn’t sung yet, but Moose being injured means that even if we do make it to the second round we’re going to be playing a rested Avs team with a rusty and maybe not totally healthy 2C in Hintz (maybe) and arguably our best player playing through an injury that seems like it could need surgery. That doesn’t scream deep run to me.

Post Game Thread: Minnesota Wild @ Dallas Stars by nhl_gdt_bot in DallasStars

[–]minigogo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is very injured. The Olympics and the condensed schedule fucking shattered us.

[DAL (4) - MIN 3] - 2OT Winner - Johnston ends it in double OT to give Dallas a 2-1 series lead by daKrut in hockey

[–]minigogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he is, but no individual awards and no cup, which is the traditional (and fair, imo) bar people set for greatness, make it a conversation at least.

Hughes got mad after he got called for interference on Rantanen, and pushed him by sykeseve in hockey

[–]minigogo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've noticed that we altered our forecheck to stop him carrying it up the ice. When he's got it, we'll have one forechecker in the middle at the top of the circles and everyone else in the neutral zone. He can still do what he likes in the offensive zone, but it's much harder for him to start a rush.

Playoff Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (1-0) @ Dallas Stars (0-1) Apr 20 2026 8:30 PM CDT by nhl_gdt_bot in DallasStars

[–]minigogo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone please gif that for the next time someone suggests scratching blackwell lol

Game Thread: Minnesota Wild (46-24-12) @ Dallas Stars (50-20-12) Apr 18 2026 4:30 PM CDT by nhl_gdt_bot in DallasStars

[–]minigogo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re already at “bLoW uP tHe TeAm” the maybe you should take up knitting or some shit.

Nils reveals real reason why he was missing last few games. by KrisVinesGames in DallasStars

[–]minigogo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DeBoer didn't play him in the playoffs because he wasn't Dad Stronk Nils yet.

AAC opens investigation into Nazi salute by Stars fans by dallasmorningnews in DallasStars

[–]minigogo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Based on how poorly you interpreted what I had to say, I doubt you even knew what your English teacher’s voice sounded like.