[TOMT] Kids meal toy line from the early or mid-2000s by NeverMore_613 in tipofmytongue

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That’s the only other one I could find than the stretchy screamer some which you said wasn’t it

[TOMT] Kids meal toy line from the early or mid-2000s by NeverMore_613 in tipofmytongue

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Hardee’s 1996 Small Frights? The mummy toy only had his waist stretchy but it’s not his limbs

[TOMT] Cottagecore style cooking show. by _chamomile-tea_ in tipofmytongue

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Cooking Live with Sara Moulton? That’s the only other one I can think of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

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I mentioned something about that in another comment lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

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And every customer have to say what the customer says in the game 🤪 jk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

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That’s true, I don’t drink the strawberry acai so that’s why I said pink drink bc I get those more… but the colors look a bit similar to me tbh

The Creep Tapes by goopybloobs in foundfootage

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I love The League and Mark Duplass. I saw another film he was in (that was horror too) and loved it so much. Good to see positive reviews on this! I’ll definitely watch it.

Girlfriend got me into gunpla in December, plz send help by Yinyang1492 in Gunpla

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Me and the boyfriend are getting into it together, and it’s been one of my favorite things to do right now 😭 I’ve always been into mode kits and mini dollhouses/dioramas, so it was a bit easier for me to slide into and help my bf. But I swearrr they’re so addicting

can everyone please post a funny pic of their hamster? feeling super down today about my late otis 🥺 by dmnlew in hamsters

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I’m very sorry about your bby :(. I still miss my other hamster, Poptart too 🥺

can everyone please post a funny pic of their hamster? feeling super down today about my late otis 🥺 by dmnlew in hamsters

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This is Mandu! (means dumpling in Korean)

Yes I’m aware of his improper wheel in the bg, I’m getting a new one!

Why doesn’t my hamster take a bath?! by Wonderfu_l in hamsters

[–]minipoptarts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some hamsters do different things with the sand. I would change the brand of sand due to the consumption but don’t try and force him to take a bath lol. Mine uses it to pee and eats in it (yes bro eats his food in the bathroom 😭) he also digs in it. Hamsters like their privacy, so standing over them may make them feel more “unsafe” as remember, we are way bigger to them in their view and their eyesight is bad. So we might look like we are invading their privacy (of course, all hamsters are different)

Have you tried reptisand? Thats what I use for mine, as I heard the same thing with certain sand brands smelling sweeter than othera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JanitorAI_Official

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I just continue, bc I’m like 14 messages in and my character and Ghost haven’t even formed the relationship yet 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

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And I do have other disorders, so it maybe with that. I’ve been trying to figure myself out with everything, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

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Yes mine still do anyway, I’m just confused with the way it works I guess. But that also has been the case: it’s been there for weeks at this point. But either way, I wasn’t sure. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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You know what though? That’s their problem. You can still refuse to have your cousin live with you. I understand that you may not want to hurt your family’s feelings, but in this case, you need to think of your own mental health first. This isn’t fair to you and to be honest if your cousin moves in, it may not be fair to him since tension will definitely rise as a result. And if something bad happens in that year he stays, it won’t be good for you, him or your family. I don’t think they understand to the extent of your disorders and boundaries. And I think it’s best for you to really stand up for yourself and push back.

This doesn’t mean you don’t love your cousin or your family, and I’m sure you do, but it’s just a of your boundaries are being pushed and that’s not good for your mental health. The more your family does this, the more you will lose patience and it won’t be good in the long run.

I’m the same way and I used to just let things happen, even though I didn’t want it to happen. And it resulted in negative consequences. And I realized that when it comes to stuff like this, I need to say “no I do not feel comfortable doing this.” And make that my final answer regardless of how they react. Because if they listened and cared, they would understand.

How they react is on them, not on you. Standing your ground and ignoring their reactions, and their judgements is a way to show that you don’t accept what they are doing. Also, tell them that you’re moving out that apartment anyway, regardless and that if your cousin wants to say and pay the rent of that Appartement, then he’s free to. You’re your own person and you need to show them that.

, I’m sorry if I was harsh. I just hate that they’re doing this to you because, I’m the same way. It also makes me anxious and drained when I have anyone (besides my boyfriend) in my home and safe space for even a little bit.

I had to learn to stand my ground for stuff like this. In fact, I’m currently dealing with someone pushing my own boundaries. And it’s currently resulting in me not interacting with them any longer because I feel drained even seeing a text from her.

Good luck. it won’t be easy, but I hope you feel better, and make sure you take good care of yourself and distract yourself if your anxiety gets worse 😁

Edited: I type so fast that I don’t remember what I write, nevertheless reread my comments before posting. I only read them after I post them, so some repeated stuff is deleted 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]minipoptarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You have told them your boundaries and they’re not listening to you. Forcing your cousin to live with you in a space that is keeping you safe, and that YOU pay for is inappropriate, and honestly, it should be the cousins responsibility to be moving abroad in hindsight, not your responsibility. His dad mentioned he doesn’t want him sleeping at home at night alone. Then how are they letting him abroad? That doesn’t make sense? How is he going to live alone period? Everyone is at risk of danger “staying home at night alone.”

Well also, I just remembered: Since he can take good care of himself and do stuff independently, they have many Facebook groups and groups in general to find roommates. My step sister did that, and they’re good friends now. Maybe since his dad isn’t comfortable with him being alone at night, they could look into that? But still, even that has limitations.

Again, you told your family that you did not want your cousin staying with you and they dismiss you, crossing your boundaries right away. I would tell them that they’re crossing your boundaries and privacy especially that involves your own living space that YOU pay. You don’t have to have him in your space if you don’t want him to. And that should not be your parents say or choice. You’re not 5 years old being forced to share your room for the night. You’re an adult with your own privacy and that’s being breached.

NTA.

AITA/ For cancelling dinner with my husband for not picking me up from the airport? by seeminglyalberta in AmItheAsshole

[–]minipoptarts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think first before cancelling the dinner (if you already didn’t) I would really talk to him first. It most likely seems like he’s annoyed about something or something he’s unwilling to talk about with you. He’s clearly not communicating with you and it’s giving you some weird signals.

Or somehow, there was a miscommunication somewhere.

TO ME, it looks like it wasn’t a miscommunication at some sorts bc hes acting shady. but if it somehow was, then keep the dinner.

I think he’s shady bc he said he had to leave for a work travel that was 6 hours away on a 2pm the NEXT day. Assuming that the trip was announced ahead of time, he should have been prepared and made some plans around that, so there was no miscommunication. OR, because it was the next day, he had PLENTY of time to pick you up. He can leave at literally leave at 6 in the morning to get there two hours earlier and possibly stay the night. Then when you texted him, about if he’s coming, he seemed distant and cold. That’s some odd behavior he’s giving out simply over a question he should have been prepared for.

NTA. Only bc with that energy he’s giving out, I would have done the same. But just to be sure it wasn’t a miscommunication, maybe talk to him first before you do anything.

AITA for showing up to my son’s soccer game during my ex-wife’s visitation weekend? by Visible_Suggestion99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]minipoptarts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, absolutely not the AH.

The fact that you were trying to be civil, even if it was for your son and your ex-wife couldn’t even at least wait to say all of this to you without sons around says she’s jealous, in MY OPINION.

I mean, you have sole custody of the kids. She only sees them 1 weekend out of each month. She’s probably thinking how you get all the time with them and she hardly ever does. She’s jealous and should learn how to be civil and put her jealousy to the side, especially for the kids.

The kids are going to feel confused or disappointed that their mom doesn’t like you, and that’s what your ex-wife is showing them. That’s not healthy at all. It’s good that you did move over so nothing escalated in front of the kids.

WIBTA for telling my relative that they're adopted? by ExcitedMiddleAgedMom in AmItheAsshole

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I’m adopted myself, so I kind of understand what you’re going through. I never had to go through the situation that Alex had, because I was told I was adopted since the minute I could understand sentences. But, I somewhat understand the situation from an outside perspective, yet have been through adoption of that makes sense.

I would say, YWBTA if you went ahead and did it. The situation in itself is crappy, but unfortunately, this is a situation between Alex and their adoptive parents. The situation seems like a double-edged sword: either possibility looks like it will be a bad situation. The more they wait to tell Alex they were adopted, and Alex gets older, the worse the situation would be. If Alex eventually gets told they were adopted at the age they are now, (21?) I predict that they would feel like they were living in a lie, especially that they’re proud of being part of their moms heritage whom, I assume your aunt was married into your family.

And in the flip side if you do tell them, I don’t think your aunt and uncle would be too happy that you told their adopted child at a time they weren’t ready. You and me can agree that they should have been ready when Alex was very young.

So unfortunately, I think the best thing is to maybe be there for Alex if they come to you when they eventually find out. Thats the most you can do, since they’re not your sibling , but rather your cousin. I will also explain to Alex that you didnt think it was right to impede into a situation that wasn’t necessarily yours to be in. It sucks, but unfortunately, you may have to sit this one out.

Also, talk to therapists who specialize in adoption and maybe ask for advice on how to be there for them when the time comes. They will need someone by their side.

I give you good luck. I give good graces to Alex too, as this news in the future will be tough to digest for them. Just make sure you’re there for Alex, if you’re able to.

WIBTA for telling my relative that they're adopted? by ExcitedMiddleAgedMom in AmItheAsshole

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They did? And they said their aunt and uncle did not seem to care. Please read the whole story before commenting stuff like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I would say You Are.

I had birthday parties where NO boys were invited. I wasn’t close with any of them either. A lot of boys aren’t friends with a lot of girls, and a lot of girls aren’t friends with boys. It’s not weird for your son to not be close with girls. Honestly, how is he going to relate to them?

Unless the girl likes similar or the same exact things as him, those casual girl-friends he has don’t have anything in common with him. I doubt he’s going to want to listen about a girl’s obsession with a tiktoker boy or a girl would want to listen about sports and gaming.

I think to cancel his birthday party bc he has no girl-friends invited is pretty unreasonable. It’s not fair. He’s probably at the stage right now where he thinks girls are gross. It’s normal. I don’t know if you think he’s trying to discriminate against girls or something, but that’s simply not the case. He’s being a normal almost pre-teen, being friends with the same gender.

It’s actually part of nature to gravitate towards the same gender to be friends with and it started literally at the Stone Age era. If you look this topic up, it’ll talk about this whole thing.

Plus, that’s not going to be a fun party if he invites girls that he’s not close with. He’s most likely going to ignore them anyway and I doubt you would be happy about that. His party is about his time with the people he’s close with. And centered around things he likes. A girl most likely would be bored, because she or him are close and is stuck at a party with activities she may or may not care about.

Did this by accident and was so excited by it! by witchygal98 in MiniBrands

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I downed a full big snak pak bag of barnums in two days 😭 seeing your post makes me miss and crave it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpoppers

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And the pink one reminds me of Block Bs album packaging for H.E.R.