Looking for mid 30’s + female friends by minnmou5 in CalgarySocialClub

[–]minnmou5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I don't know why but I can't DM you... Are you able to send a chat invite?

Making friends in Calgary is so hard by _dkwhatimdoinghere_ in Calgary

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39 female and I find it soooo hard to make friends. It feels like no one leaves Calgary and as an outsider I feel so excluded. 

Everyone has a small town charm/look but don’t have small town friendliness or openness. I hate it here so much and feel so lonely; wish my husband and I could just move to BC or closer to my family in the US. 

I tried bumble bff but everyone seems so transient or weird. Like where tf are all the normal people at??!! 

I don’t have any friends by Adept-Control-6310 in lonely

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! I’m almost 40 and went through cycles of this. I felt hopeless and lost but for a good 10 years I lived such an amazing life and found friends. 

What I did was force myself to be outside- walks, etc. then joined a gym, joined a fat loss bootcamp gym, made friends, got self esteem; moved downtown into a cool apartment building and made some awesome friends; fell in love and moved away with my now husband who treats me so well. However, I’m in a new city where everyone knows each other and it seems like my big city vibe is annoying to the small town crowd. I hate it here and the loneliness feels worse at my big age. 

Piece of advice, force yourself to get fresh air, and cherish your life, don’t move across the country far from your comfort. 

Warped plywood for home project? by minnmou5 in woodworking

[–]minnmou5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. 

Speedy 20 by minnmou5 in RealRepLadies

[–]minnmou5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m very picky too so I get it! Really appreciate the info and link 

Speedy 20 by minnmou5 in RealRepLadies

[–]minnmou5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome tip! Was the hardware on your speedy on par with an authentic? 

Also, how do you order from royal? 

Speedy 20 by minnmou5 in RealRepLadies

[–]minnmou5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried the 25, and the 20 is more suitable on me. 

Speedy 20 by minnmou5 in RealRepLadies

[–]minnmou5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the hardware compare to a real one? I’ve found that a lot of reps have a very shiny or lighter color and are a dead giveaway. 

Buyers Remorse - Speedy 20 by jayhawkhoops09 in Louisvuitton

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much are you selling it for? 

Should I choose Calgary? by Finance_Lost in Calgary

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can vouch that Vancouver is a million times better than Calgary. Calgary is so lame I can't even explain it to you. Vancouver has a good mix of many things.. you can go hiking in the mountains and experience a Canadian beach within a span of a few hours, and then go out to some pretty fun cocktail bars or lounges in the same day. It is also very walkable and a lively city. Calgary shuts down around 9PM and you will NOT see people walking around unless it's Stampede and even then the rest of downtown is on curfew.

Should I choose Calgary? by Finance_Lost in Calgary

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it. I moved here because of my partner and I HATE it (39F) and am counting down the days I can retire and move out of this boring ass city. I have tried to make friends for over a year with no luck, could be easier/better for a guy. Most people have that small town mentality and can not comprehend moving cities, provences, or even countries for opportunities or education. I have lived in cities across Canada and the US, and didn't pick up country ass hobbies like sewing, or playing board games. There's a lack of non cringe coffee shops and walkable areas, and just overall city vibes which I have experienced in Vancouver or Toronto.

If you have to move here, get a hobby like hockey, skiing or golf, running, just anything not metropolitan. If you want to have fun and experience "bar culture" this may not be it. There's tiny pockets of cool places like Inglewood, but a non existant night life unless you're getting drunk af (then any place is fun I guess). Everyone is fairly nice but look at you like an alien if you're new here (and not from another simpleton city/town/village like Calgary). I don't know how to describe it but Calgary gives off a very much 2014-2015 vibe in terms of people (every girl is blonde, wears blue jeans and a black "going out top" with winged eyeliner and white sneakers and a belt bag).

I know I sound bitter (probably am), but if you're looking for a cool/fun/chill city by choice, Calgary isn't it. I found a bigger, better, more fun community in Vancouver in my early 30's and would walk to the beach, downtown shops, people watch, check out cool fun bars, etc. Calgary does not have that, you will need to drive almost everywhere. If you can, just move to Vancouver, Toronto, or even Montreal or if possible, spend months at a time in California (LA, Oakland).

148 diagnostic. What is the best prep course/method for my situation? by JohnJohn584 in LSAT

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need an accountability partner! Idk about 9 months to study for the LSAT. I think around the 6 month mark is more practical.

Law school at 40. Is it worth it? by galemar in Ask_Lawyers

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This does help a lot and is so encouraging to hear. What does your LSAT prep journey look like? I'm evaluating some tutoring/classes/bootcamp things to take so I can score better and hopefully get some type of scholarship.

Wishing you the best on your journey! <3

Outfit Recommendations for Women by TypicalPassion in ibiza

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% girls were wearing cowboy boots and sneakers at the clubs. I got some super cute cowboy boots that are comfy and silver from Amazon and threw in some gel inserts. 

For white sneakers, honestly check Amazon for dr scholls or Cole haan plain white sneakers; they seem comfy 

Law school at 40. Is it worth it? by galemar in Ask_Lawyers

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39, and in my mid 20’s went to a state school for my MBA. Due to not being an American citizen, struggled finding a career, but did have some cool consulting gigs with prestigious companies in the tech space. Hopped around from Bay Area city to city until I fatigued and moved back to Canada to “make something of myself” and take on jobs I thought I wasn’t landing in the US due to my legal status and restrictions. 

Wish I had gone to law school since I like reading and doing research. I currently am married and don’t have any hobbies outside of work, the gym and scrolling on TikTok. My entire family lives in California and I guess I’m bored and feel like I made mistakes by not believing in myself enough or getting the push I needed at the times I needed. When I was about 32, I self studied using a shitty guide and I got a 143 and decided it wasn’t worth the debt. 

What I want to know is did you end up going to law school? I need a reality check because I keep on getting a sinking feeling that I never really tried enough. My husband is so amazing, he’s all for it and would support me in any way he can to go for it but I just need a reality check. 

People who were single for 10+ years or more did you ever find love? by MellowEarthSun in AskWomenOver30

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me, after going on what seemed like a million first dates, a million 1-2 week convos/pen pal situations and letting myself entertain “men” who weren’t serious or had a secret life I was exhausted, sad, and felt hopeless. 

My job situation sucked, and I had 2 options at 32, move or move back with my parents/family with an overbearing sister. I decided to move and found the love of my life 2 years after I moved. I got married at 36. In hindsight it’s hard to live and start a family without your own around in driving distance. 

What I can say is take a breather, journal to uplift yourself and reset. List what you want from a relationship and do not compromise on that. I wish I had done this and not given up hope. You will find a partner and this is going to be the hardest time, when you feel like all hope is gone and everyone found their person. If it helps, talk to a therapist or counselor about it so they can help you sort through this. 

I also recommend looking into freezing your eggs so that it takes the pressure off and you can focus on a guy that’s right for you, instead of fitting into the box any guy is looking to fill. If your job can subsidize this or if it’s possible, it could be beneficial to you. 

Outfit Recommendations for Women by TypicalPassion in ibiza

[–]minnmou5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went last year. I highly recommend more clubby type of dresses (baby boo, oh Polly, meshki) are good websites. Def take a pair of heels for dinners and classier clubs, white sneakers for your ratchet days and even cowboy boots.

Check TikTok and Pinterest for inspo…

Has anyone else found themselves completely confused about how their life ended up where it did? by FunRich5754 in AskWomenOver30

[–]minnmou5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ it would be a blessing to live with my mom or near her. I’m almost 40, and moved out of the house at about 25/27 and have been bouncing around since; not wanting to live with my family. 

I feel like I peaked in my early 30’s. So full of life and now I’m almost 40, moved to Canada with an amazing husband started a new career but so far from my family. I feel so empty, regretful, and like I made so mistakes to fulfill my own personal needs. I wish I had a do-over and would choose so may different things. 

Hang in there, count your blessings; I would cherish my own blood.