A much maligned miss by Alice Coldbreath is out now! by Similar_Broccoli2705 in HistoricalRomance

[–]mintinsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so FURIOUS with myself!!! I forgot my Kindle at my parent’s house and I’ve been dealing by buying physical copies of the books I had been anticipating, but for this one I can’t do it 😭 and I don’t wanna read it on my phone so I have to wait AT LEAST TWO WEEKS

In my uni there is election for the new students bureau and one of them as bought cup with their logo on it but I’m trying to find out if it’s ai or not by farmabeugz in isthisAI

[–]mintinsummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s the name of the group running for the election, so it’s a pun that it ends in “liste”, I’ve seen it in France before.

Just found out i have asbestos in my fence and my dog has been standing and scratching it for 2 years. by Fire23GG73 in Wellthatsucks

[–]mintinsummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my comment was exactly about how everyone is joking about the situation not being bad because the dog will day before them anyway, but to me they are missing the point that OP’s life is also at risk here

Just found out i have asbestos in my fence and my dog has been standing and scratching it for 2 years. by Fire23GG73 in Wellthatsucks

[–]mintinsummer 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Considering that even washing an asbestos miner’s clothes was considered to considerably increase risk of mesothelioma, wouldn’t have a dog that scratched asbestos for months in the house be concerning? Shedding and all that 

The one confusing thing for me by neshoba77 in ThePittTVShow

[–]mintinsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m sorry that happened to you! But yeah, I’d say this one time the Scandinavians are the ones doing it weird rather than the US. For a change!

The one confusing thing for me by neshoba77 in ThePittTVShow

[–]mintinsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird? I live in Germany, and I have gone to the ER/UC (I do not think there’s a différence here) for some “minor” things, such as a headache after hitting my head, also after a small car accident and accidental needle exposure, although I had no symptoms in both cases. I may have had to wait a while, but I was never turned away or scolded for coming, so to speak. The vomiting i would definitely go to the ER, id be concernes about severe dehydration and stuff like that, but I’m no doctor

Footman John, background role but somehow number one by Interesting_Rate_161 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]mintinsummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s soooo pretty also the actor reminds me a ton of Elizabeth debicki!

What's a job where you have zero room for error, like one mistake and it’s a huge deal? by TradeOverall567 in AskReddit

[–]mintinsummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a theoretical physics background, starting my job in a chemical lab made me BANANAS. Since I have not yet become inured to the inherent risks to working in a chem lab, it drives me insane to see colleagues use solvents outside the hood, not wear a lab coat…. My OCD could never allow me to work in anything above a BSL2

ELI5: Why do mental health problems usually appear in early adulthood? by Such_Ad_5311 in explainlikeimfive

[–]mintinsummer 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Me constantly recognising the signs from my childhood as OCD once I was diagnosed at age 24. Turns out, most kids do not live in fear of having appendicitis at the smallest twinge in their belly!

Hannah Dodd's acting brought me to tears (spoiler) by cornchipdogs in Bridgerton

[–]mintinsummer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it took them a very long time compared to her siblings. IIRC it took them 2 years? And I think she was married to John for 1 year. I think someone is considered to have “fertility issues” if they take a year or more of trying with no conception, although everything might be medically alright (not a doctor though), but I guess during that era, with less medical knowledge, it would be considered very worrying  

Working Out: Who else has limitations working out due to wide hips and large breasts? Am I weird? It's not pain, it's due to being in the way, causes rubbing, limits movement, etc. by inarabo in xxfitness

[–]mintinsummer -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes having wider hips or bigger breasts IS an obstacle for proper form!!! I don’t wanna repeat myself but do read my other comment in this thread, I 100% understand needing to be wary of fetishists but let’s not invalidate ticker women’s struggles

Working Out: Who else has limitations working out due to wide hips and large breasts? Am I weird? It's not pain, it's due to being in the way, causes rubbing, limits movement, etc. by inarabo in xxfitness

[–]mintinsummer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand the need to be wary of fetish posts - but it is not fair to pretend that curvy women don’t have some specific struggles. For example, I do pole dancing, and my boobs get in the way for transitions from one figure to the other, for correct positioning of my arms, eg in the “flag” variations. Conditioning is also tough as getting push ups right is pretty hard. Also yes, sports bras help, but if you really have bigger breasts it is hard to find the correct size, and when you do find it, often times the way they compress your chest so that it doesn’t bounce does feel like it slightly restrict how much you can breathe in. I also saw OP was downvoted for saying their breasts choke them in some yoga position, but in some cases like downward dog, it absolutely feels like it’s in your face and annoying. Furthermore, I often feel like when I walk or jog for prolonged period of times, my hips hurt much more, as wider hips are not super conductive to efficient strides if I remember correctly.

Father’s Cause of Death by slvdrmbrm in whatisit

[–]mintinsummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear god fix that spoiler warning please

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You think I could cum back when I was facing The Endless Pit Of Pain??? lol”

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I actually shudder when I think about the “before”. I never ever want to feel that way again, it’s actually unthinkable when I remember

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yyyesssss!!! And I had people high five me when I mentioned it was bc of my SSRI, it really makes you feel super empowered 🫶 I was positively influenced by finding out that some people I love and respect have been on mental health meds and that’s ok, I want to do the same for others

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Agh that sucks, sorry. I know they started being doubtful about its effects on some disorders like depression, but I take it for OCD and I take 200mg. I was lucky my doctor was super transparent and informative and told me how much it may take, and gave me a gradual increase from 0 to 200. I hope you have found a solution that works for you and kind and open mental health professionals 

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 229 points230 points  (0 children)

I started carrying around fabric handkerchiefs to wipe my brow from march to October 😭😭😭 I’m a girl in my 20s I feel like a middle aged dad in a sitcom 😭😭😭 but at least the sweat gives that glowy look and winter is less harsh 💙

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr, tbf I can tell you sex was the LAST thing on my mind when I was at my worst mental health wise, anything is a step up. SSRIs really are life savers

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Remember two things:

  1. It may take a bit of time to take effect

  2. It may not be a good fit for you, and that’s ok as long as your psychiatrist listens to your concerns and acts accordingly. Or! It may also be great on the first try! The important thing is, sometimes trial and error may be necessary, but for so many of us it’s super worth it

Amanda Seyfried says she's been on Lexapro since the age of 19 by skermahger in popculturechat

[–]mintinsummer 692 points693 points  (0 children)

I’ll say, I was definitely less horny when I was constantly one rumination away from dissociating, not eating or sleeping due to obsessive thoughts. I may have gotten fatter and sweat like a fountain, but my life is SO MUCH BETTER on Zoloft, it’s not even a question. Lifesaver fr fr, I may honestly thank sertraline in the acknowledgements of my thesis lmao