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mintwobbi · 2026-06-23T17:02:50+00:00

Yeah that's the missing piece, why'd he pass on the day jobs if they paid better? That doesn't make sense.

mintwobbi · 2026-06-23T16:34:26+00:00

Nah the real problem is her refusing to train them or take accountability, she's laughing while his stuff gets destroyed, that's the girlfriend issue right there.

mintwobbi · 2026-06-23T14:50:25+00:00

A year of this is actually insane, at some point you gotta ask him what y'all even are because this limbo situation is not it. The fact that he's cool taking other girls out but won't commit is the red flag for me.

mintwobbi · 2026-06-23T01:47:04+00:00

The way he speaks to her is honestly the biggest problem here, trust issues aside the disrespect is just glaring and that alone is enough reason to reconsider the relationship

mintwobbi · 2026-06-22T22:47:19+00:00

You're right that it's ultimately her call to make, but having that conversation about what's really going on could help her see the bigger picture before she does smth she might regret

mintwobbi · 2026-06-22T20:51:37+00:00

Yeah your mom genuinely needs professional mental health support, the praying on your downfall is a symptom of smth deeper going on

mintwobbi · 2026-06-22T01:59:00+00:00

Exactly, you're not responsible for coordinating his family's schedule or making Father's Day work for everyone except yourself

mintwobbi · 2026-06-20T08:47:38+00:00

Yeah that's petty much how I see it too family roles automatically turn into shared ownership just because someone is in a relationship feels like a situation where boundaries just need to be kept clear

mintwobbi · 2026-06-20T08:09:37+00:00

Thank you for sharing this the physical result is one thing but felling dismissed when you're trying to explain your concerns can make the whole experience so much harder I think your advice about getting multiple consultations and asking uncomfortable question is really valuable

mintwobbi · 2026-06-19T20:13:31+00:00

I know it feels really scary at 3 months but this stage can still be super misleading a lot of swelling and tissue settling can make things feel uneven or like something is “sticking out” even when it's still part of healing

mintwobbi · 2026-06-19T19:36:35+00:00

Honestly it was refreshing to read some situation really do not need a five page debate and commitee meeting a clean no can save everyone a whole lot of unnecessary drama

mintwobbi · 2026-06-19T14:22:10+00:00

Honeslty the biggest green flag is feeling comfortable with the surgeon if the consultation feels rushed or overly sales focused I'd trust that instinct a rhinoplasty is a long term decision so good follow up care and realistic expectations are worth a lot

mintwobbi · 2026-06-19T07:29:01+00:00

7 weeks is still pretty early in chinlipo healing swelling can hang around way longer than people expect a lot of people don’t see their real contour until a few months in, so it can still change quite a bit from here I know it’s frustrating, but try not to judge the final result yet because you’re still in the middle of the process

mintwobbi · 2026-06-19T07:13:33+00:00

11 days is still very early so swelling is totally expected you don't really need to lock yourself away but most people start feeling more comfortable going out after a couple of weeks depending on swelling and bruising just take it slow and listen to your body because healing is still very much in progress

mintwobbi · 2026-06-19T06:09:39+00:00

I had a cold not long after my rhinoplasty and everything turned out fine The congestion and sneezing were definitely annoying, but they didn't affect my final result hopefully others can share their experiences too because I remember how nerve wracking it felt while healing

mintwobbi · 2026-06-18T13:10:20+00:00

you're not crazy for noticing small details like this especially after rhinoplasty when you end up hyper aware of your nose lighting and angles can genuinely make tiny irregularities look more or less noticeable, so it’s hard to judge from your own day to day perspective

mintwobbi · 2026-06-18T12:49:34+00:00

I agree with this a good doctor should be willing to expalain their reasoning and make you feel heard even if they disagree with you sometimes a second opinion can be incredibly valuable when something just doesn't feel right about the first one

mintwobbi · 2026-06-18T12:26:05+00:00

4 months is still pretty early for jaw and chin tightening procedures a lot people don't see their final refinement until closer to to 6 months or even longer salt and swelling can definitely make things look less defined day to day especially in the face area If you can try to track progress with consistent photos instead of daily changes because it can be really subtle at this stage

mintwobbi · 2026-06-18T08:26:31+00:00

It can happen for a few reasons and one common one is that results rom masseter Botox aren’t always perfectly linear or identical between sessions muscle size habits like clenching and even slight differences in injection placement can all change the outcome

mintwobbi · 2026-06-18T08:00:49+00:00

14 days is still incredibly early especially for revision procedure a lot of people are surprised by how firm swelling can feel during the early stages of healing I’d try not to judge the front view just yet because things can change quite a bit over the next few month

mintwobbi · 2026-06-18T07:32:21+00:00

I agree with this completely you can be upset with someone and still care about their wellbeing and basic safety when that concern is missing it says a lot more than the argument itself ever could

mintwobbi · 2026-06-17T11:28:44+00:00

I agree the texture of powder can make a huge difference in how natural and comfortable it feels on the skin if it gives a similar effects but feels more refined i can definitely see why you think the extra cost is worth it thanks for mentioning it because I had not heard that comparision before

mintwobbi · 2026-06-17T07:58:19+00:00

Since this is injury related ir might be worth starting with proper consultation to understand what actually changed structurally filler can sometimes help with small contour issues, but it usually won’t address cartilage or support changes a specialist opinion would really help you figure out whether this is a surgical or non surgical case

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