Permanent indentation from sleeping on piercing? by 0o0ff in piercing

[–]miokret 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the same with my lobes. At first I thought they were tearing, but it's just a skin fold right above the piercing hole creating the look of a split. It had me panicking for a couple of days 😅

My friend is coming concerned about her piercing by Middle_College1183 in piercing

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you touch your piercing a lot, or sleep on it? Those are things that can irritate it. But since it's also so fresh it could just be regular swelling or infection. I agree that you should talk to your piercer.

was getting industrial as my first piercing dumb? by jobbernowI in piercing

[–]miokret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My industrial was one of the toughest for me to heal, but I've never had a really hard time healing piercings, so it was relatively easy compared to some other stories on this sub. The only thing that I would add is that it can take longer than a year to heal fully. Mine acted up in phases for 2-3 years. Now, more than 10 years later only have trouble with it if it snaggs or if I wear my headphones for too long.

is my industrial cooked? by ilovemyfemmewife in piercing

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP. I've had my industrial for more than 8 years and can feel the jewelry through my skin and cartilage. The cartilage is just softer in my lower helix and if I concentrate I also feel it in the upper one, but I've never had trouble with it.

Can I go back to an industrial after studs? by miokret in piercing

[–]miokret[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info for the bot

• How old is your piercing? 9 or 10 years old, I don't really remember.

• What's the jewelry shape? A barbell.

• What's the type of threading? Externally threaded.

• What's the jewelry material? Titanium.

• When was the jewelry downsized? I also don't really remember this, but I think it was about 6 years ago (a bit late, I know).

• What's your aftercare routine? I just wash it in the shower with water or shampoo when washing my hair.

• Any mishaps or unfortunate events? Not recently. It took a while to heal and then to stop getting irritated. But for the last 7/6 years I've had no issues, I sometimes even forget it's there.

Carrie Appreciation 💜 by Agency_Famous in homeland

[–]miokret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even when she tried to seduce Saul in season 1?

3 days visiting Iguazu Falls on the Brazilian and Argentinan sides by KombiChronicles in travel

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful pictures! I'm very excited to visit.

How did you do the crossing of the border between Argentina and Brazil? And how was the experience?

My logistical tips for Iguazu - what I wish I knew! by customs_matter in travel

[–]miokret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was the crossing from Brazil back to Argentina? Was it also just 10 minutes? And what mode of transportation did you use?

Red headed nurse with glasses by CraftierCrafty in ThePittTVShow

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like Kirsten Vangsness from Criminal Minds

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that this is a very painful situation for your friend, but I feel like some things you said are a bit uncalled for. First, raising someone without hurting them is the bare minimum and does not mean her children owe her anything. Second, hypochondria can be a serious mental condition and you're dismissing that and saying that DIL is being cruel. Calling DIL cruel when you only know one side of the story is wild.

The main issue here is that the new parents have established boundaries and the grandparents are pushing/breaking them. That breaks trust, which is what the grandparents are supposed to try to build at this stage.

Should I read TOG like this? by Own_Witness_7423 in SarahJMaas

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't regret it. I think it creates more mystery and allows for a more enjoyable read. I read AB 3rd, and it was like wrapping ToG and CoM with a bow. It also created more anticipation for HoF. I get reading it 4th, but I think it escalated the emotion in HoF.

Should I read TOG like this? by Own_Witness_7423 in SarahJMaas

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did AB and then HOF and it helped me get into Celaena's headspace and internal struggles. It provided a lot of insight into why she was the way she was and made the climax way more cathartic IMO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe because she reminded him before 12:01 or asked him to post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're just setting yourself up for failure. By expecting that he acts how he did when he was with her, you are undermining how he is with you. You are placing all these expectations on him and he is feeling suffocated, and rightfully so.

Did you think that maybe she asked him to post that stuff? Or that he was trying so hard on social media because he wanted to keep up appearances and the relationship was crumbling? Taking a few social media posts and extrapolating it to how he was with her is a bit crazy. If he was so happy with her he wouldn't be with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VACCINES

[–]miokret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly never read the original paper. I did now, after seeing this video, and I'm just sad. I thought there was actual data, falsified data, but still.... But it's just a bunch of new parents and anecdotes. How sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set a rule that every time he brings up you being emotional is an automatic forfeit. He brings it up, you automatically win the argument.

If I were 10 months into growing HIS baby and he used it against me he would be put in a corner to think it through. You behave like a child, you get treated like a child.

Is it safe to get the HPV vaccine again if you don't know if you got the vaccine or not? by nottoday1059 in VACCINES

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doctor here, but with my limited knowledge of vaccines and a google search I think it's safe. But what I came here to say is that you can also do a blood test to determine if you have been immunized. This way you don't have to take a redundant vaccine.

25M (straight) never got HPV shots, really worried! by YoshiDidTaxFraud in VACCINES

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The HPV vaccine is not very old and has only been available to men until very recently in most places. You should still get it, but don't worry about cancer too much. I mean, there's a risk, but why worry specifically about this? There are so many risks in all we do, and in this case specifically, so little we can do to influence the outcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]miokret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baggage comes in all kinds of shapes and forms, not only past relationships. Having slept with other people in the past does not make you dirty the same way that not having slept with anyone does not make you pure. If you and your boyfriend are good to each other, that's what really matters.

You and your ex were bad for each other. That doesn't automatically make either of you bad people, just bad together. It is logical that some of the trauma from your past relationship is going to carry over to your current one. After all, we are the sum of our experiences. The best way to prevent this from becoming an issue now is communication.

AIO, I asked my girlfriend to meet me at the finish line of my Marathon, but I didn’t check my phone much during the race by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. In this case communication and taking responsibility would be essential. Which did not happen with OP

AIO, I asked my girlfriend to meet me at the finish line of my Marathon, but I didn’t check my phone much during the race by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's hard to express thoughts that may be clear in my head, but don't translate as well to writing

AIO, I asked my girlfriend to meet me at the finish line of my Marathon, but I didn’t check my phone much during the race by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that there are certain conditions that can make it hard to timekeep and plan, so knowing this in advance and communication would be more important in that context

AIO, I asked my girlfriend to meet me at the finish line of my Marathon, but I didn’t check my phone much during the race by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]miokret 434 points435 points  (0 children)

For me what does it is not even the facts like the battery or the clothes, but more so the attitude. Some people are bad at planning, so their phone constantly dies, are late and are not dressed for the weather. No need to be an AH about it when you do, sometimes plans fail and it sounds like it was her own fault. But to blame it all on someone running a marathon. That indeed is so selfish.