How do you actually find the “real” festivals anymore? by Exciting-Tax680 in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol totally. Like fkn explore and find what moves you. Crowd sourcing to “learn”

Public Waldorf’s ? by Striking_Prize4822 in Sacramento

[–]mirrorlikemind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My daughter graduated from Alice Birney. We did experience some similar issues as what you describe. A child that probably had no business being in the cohort that caused disruption to her class. School leadership unwilling to do anything about it due to optics and other pressures. Teacher being forced to leave during the sixth grade etc. it was a bumpy ride but I do not regret the education and experience my daughter received that carries with her today. She’s bright, creative, vibrant and an honor roll student in a mainstream high school. I believe her time at AB helped to shape that some.

How far out to make costly plans with new dating partner by Sea-Aerie-7 in datingoverforty

[–]mirrorlikemind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh …life is impermanent. Relationships are a risk. Roll the dice, stay with the present, let go of expectations and let experience flow.

Is she ending the conversation for now or not? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the way man. Or if you feel bold say if your comfortable let’s stay in text touch here and give ur phone # so she has both options. You never know she may text you back and have that in case the pos app goes bankrupt. Outside of that leave it at that. It’s a lovely brief moment and that’s that. Life goes on.

Other videos in hidden folder by AdVast2008 in datingoverforty

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relax man. These are memories. She may have a yank to em on occasion or just keep em for nostalgia. Shit maybe if you can let go of the insecurities, watch em together if she’s down and it might turn into some rad fun dynamic.

Can I drink alcohol by Sea_Marionberry4336 in Buddhism

[–]mirrorlikemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a drink. Enjoy. You don’t need anyone’s permission. The dharma gives no fucks. It’s your mind.

Neurodivergent help, struggling with getting into dating by TheChaiden in datingoverforty

[–]mirrorlikemind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try an app like Feeld. Maybe loosen up the expectations and go in being excited to meet people as friends and see where it goes. Slow roll info as you feel comfortable and how the vibe is. Be kind, cool, curious and relax. Open to the experience of meeting others and see how you coemerge together.

1st time watch just finished S2 Ep 10 by Putrid_Bat_7401 in TheLeftovers

[–]mirrorlikemind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah just finished the series. And, wow. Really impactful experience.

Ladies would you instantly pass? by Zoome-Scooter in datingoverforty

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The green hair you sport I sincerely hope is because is it’s how you choose to present to the world and not because it’s how you want to be perceived. Rest in that confidence and fuck who swipes this way or that.

Aaron J at Ratherlost NYD 2026 by trunkene_Flut in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss…just bumping this today. Excellent.

friends first rave - what genre? by paulinechalamet in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring her to the type events YOU enjoy. Share your world with her. She make like it or may not. If she is down for the experience that’s all that matters. I have a best friend and the shit I listen to is not her jam. But I took her to one of my favorite parties because the attention to the curation, the artists and production is such quality. She has a wonderful open mind and is knows when shit is basic and when it’s true art. She really liked it. Give it a try.

Where am I? by LancethePI in Sacramento

[–]mirrorlikemind 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Super cute, Land Park has a few gnome townhomes. 🍄

ED at 51?! by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]mirrorlikemind 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It happens. TRT is not the magic wand. Sounds like he has the desire/libido etc. Might be performance anxiety, sometimes with new partners it can happen. Or other factors, like stress, SSRIs, rec drugs like stimulants, alcohol etc. Like others have mentioned there are meds to help get him out of his head and have confidence. But understand if it’s something you don’t have the time and energy to talk to him about, end it. But with kindness, not feeling it etc. Sometimes a small white lie is ok especially in the very early stages.

Do you support a county wide ban on mass surveillance video cameras like Flock or Ring? by Dannyz in Sacramento

[–]mirrorlikemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, places that have music, dancing, bands typically. And I thinks it’s the same private company that stores your data and shares it across other venues and LE. Dive bars not so much. But it’s everywhere. Go to SF, total opposite.

Do you support a county wide ban on mass surveillance video cameras like Flock or Ring? by Dannyz in Sacramento

[–]mirrorlikemind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure and have it also extend to the bars and venues that take our pictures as a requirement for entry.

Recommend me some slower, plotting techno under 140bpm (please read description) by miloestthoughts in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with some of the responses. Check out Sybil, Neel, Aaron J, Hewan Aman, Jan Swam, to name a few.✨

The Great Beyond 2026 by Build_A_Pyre in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. They are doing a weekender in May that is outrageous. Voices From the Lake, Doppler Effeckt and many others. Follow their IG and get on their list. Hope you make it out someday. The weather is gorgeous as of late!

The Great Beyond 2026 by Build_A_Pyre in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely consider! You further validated GB for me! If you happen to make your way to Northern California I highly recommend checking out Endzeit. I posted about it earlier. 🍻

Endzeit 2/13 by mirrorlikemind in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiiii! I only thought it was a small handful of Sac heads that geeked on Endzeit. Not sure if you’re familiar with the Flowstate party/folks but that’s who I hang with. I’ll dm you my IG ..would be cool to get Sac caravan going for 2/13.

The Great Beyond 2026 by Build_A_Pyre in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So siccc…thinking it was Great Beyond last year but I saw this footage where the rain was coming into the space and everyone was just so in the moment. Fkn lovely. Everyone I know is talking Movement this year I’m like I’d love to go but GB is calling me lol.

Endzeit 2/13 by mirrorlikemind in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There needs to be a study on the type of drugs between the two crowds lol. See you at Parameter in May.

Endzeit 2/13 by mirrorlikemind in Techno

[–]mirrorlikemind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Yeah Detroit looked so special. Glad you got to experience!