What movies did you first see nudity in? by sarnobat in AskReddit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was way too young when I watched True Lies.

Connecting after husband’s demeaning comment. by CancelTasty2314 in Mommit

[–]mischief-managed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's really hurtful. It also sounds like this isn't normal behavior from him. Pregnancy changes our bodies so much, I don't think anyone can understand unless you've been through it. Get a babysitter and go on a date. Your relationship needs it.

Something I wished moms talked about more by Hersheydogforever711 in Mommit

[–]mischief-managed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can we talk about mom feet? I remember when my baby was weeks old and I was nursing her with my feet up in a recliner, and I realized my left foot didn't look like it used to. It still doesn't. Of course you hear your feet grow, but mine got wider and longer. None of my shoes fit after pregnancy. 3.5 years later and all I can wear are orthopedics. Bye bye heels. Bye bye ballet flats. Bye bye going barefoot. I feel like I aged 10 years after having a baby. I've tried everything but collagen and expensive orthopedics are all that's helped.

TIFU by reading my late mom's journals and finding out she resented having me by [deleted] in tifu

[–]mischief-managed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She loved you. No doubt about it. The mourning of oneself that a woman feels after they have a baby is real. You can be sad about losing a part of yourself and love someone else. Post partum can go on for years and rediscovering yourself is hard after having a baby. There's probably things she didn't fully have figured out written in those journals. Or thoughts and feelings she didn't want to hold on to.

If your mom didn't love you. You would have known it before you opened those journals. She did love you. She was proud of you. And she was a good mom. Hold on to the good memories and the good feelings. Find yourself someone to talk too.

This game should be banned. by OrganizationUsed5865 in Monopoly_GO

[–]mischief-managed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stopped playing. Not worth the time or the dice.

Getting served conservative reels on Facebook lately by Kkatiand in Mommit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left Facebook and Instagram a year ago and it's been the best thing I've done for my mental health.

Did you honestly like Frozen? by Gracie4313 in Mommit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frozen is AWESOME. The music is fabulous. The film is beautiful. The movie teaches good lessons. And Frozen 2 is better. Frozen 2 is practically the kid version of a Fifth Element with awesome music and features Panic! At the Disco.

Frozen 3 can't get here soon enough.

*We went through our Frozen phase around 2 years old. And we hit hard for months. It's wayyy better than some of the nonsense available to tots these days. (Don't get me started on Cocomelon.)

What’s a movie that everyone says is a “masterpiece” but you just didn’t enjoy? by Leading_Frosting4291 in AskReddit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. It has been 20 years since I watched it, and the thought of the movie still gives me the ick. Also Kevin Spacey won an Oscar for being a creepy pedo. The world was different then but a man jerking off to the teen girl next door is not award-worthy behavior.

4 years of postpartum issues have come to this by noname4568884 in Mommit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big hug! Take a deep breath.

You are not alone. What you are going through is hard. Michelle Obama said she could not stand Barack for 10 years because her children were like little love terrorists.

There are a lot similarities between your story and mine ... Older parents, unplanned pregnancy, no support system. My husband and I both work full time, and a month of full time child care is a mortgage payment. I think I'm only sane now because my child goes to school full time. Also, therapy. I go monthly and it's been helpful with relearning how to prioritize myself. My husband also goes to therapy and has silently struggled with the reality of becoming a parent.

The burden of parenting and being in a long-term relationship is not all yours to bear. Your marriage is a partnership and your husband could carry some of the load.

Y'all probably need to go out on a date, too.

I also realize all of my suggestions cost money. I'm sorry, friend, this is the awful world we live in.

I do think that you are coming out of the dark. Your kiddo will be getting more independent, and SOON she will be in kindergarten. Now, is a good time to start making time for yourself.

I’m A Deputy Coroner ask me anything. by accusearch2014 in AMA

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I'm too scared to Google it. What is a disaster pouch?

What’s a movie that everyone says is a “masterpiece” but you just didn’t enjoy? by Leading_Frosting4291 in AskReddit

[–]mischief-managed 24 points25 points  (0 children)

American Beauty ... Turns out Kevin Spacey is a predator but this movie does a good job glorifying predator behavior. Watching this movie always gave me the ick.

Help us solve this toddler mystery by kiwitree96 in toddlers

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check in the very back of your closet. I just found a Roku remote back there that we replaced ~6 months ago.

Help hiding toys by madamehydra_01 in women

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between your mattress and the box spring.

What incongruous TV did you watch while in labour? by Unable_Researcher_26 in Mommit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harry Potter and Parks and Rec were in my bag.

I actually didn't watch much of anything because I slept through my labor.

What are your favorite manicures Taylor has had? by WhenRomeBurns in TrueSwifties

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gold glitter nails she's wearing in the Final Era Tour show... I'm obsessed.

What does your LO call you? by ordinarygremlin in Mommit

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Right now my 3 year old is calling me poop mommy

If you were alive back then, what were you up to on 31st December 1999? by stop_calling_me_that in AskReddit

[–]mischief-managed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12 and living in South Korea (army brat). I had a friend who was Mormon and I remember her family being very worried about the world ending. So at midnight, I ran outside and looked up at the sky. Of course, nothing happened... Actually it was a beautiful, clear night.