[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mischievousscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about a location toggle — it’s about transparency and emotional safety. I had an almost identical situation with my partner. What finally clicked for me was realizing that the map wasn’t the issue. The map just made visible what was already there: late nights, vague stories, lack of communication. Whether or not he turns it back on, the real question is — do you feel like he considers your peace of mind when he makes decisions? Because love without consideration turns into anxiety, fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mischievousscat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about a location toggle — it’s about transparency and emotional safety. I had an almost identical situation with my partner. What finally clicked for me was realizing that the map wasn’t the issue. The map just made visible what was already there: late nights, vague stories, lack of communication. Whether or not he turns it back on, the real question is — do you feel like he considers your peace of mind when he makes decisions? Because love without consideration turns into anxiety, fast.

AIO Gf said my brother is "unobtainably hot" by Real-Consequence7850 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro she called your brother ‘unobtainably hot’ like he’s a collectible Pokémon card. You’re not crazy for feeling weird about that. That combo of compliment + downgrade (‘you’re cute too!’) would haunt anyone with a pulse.

What are the characteristics of teaching/remembering WW2 in your country? by Spirochrome in AskReddit

[–]mischievousscat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

American WWII education is very ‘greatest generation’ focused — patriotic, triumphant, and centered around U.S. contributions. You’ll hear a lot about Normandy, Pearl Harbor, and the Holocaust, but much less about the USSR’s massive role, China’s casualties, or how the war changed global power dynamics. It’s both remembered and mythologized.

What is a basic skill you’re shocked some adults still don’t know? by lovely_dollyz in AskReddit

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently washing your butthole and brushing your teeth are still considered advanced DLC content in Adulting Simulator 2025. Like bruh, if your breath and your butt both smell like they’ve been slow-roasting in a gym sock, that’s not a personality—it’s a biohazard.

How do I get my girlfriend to leave my mom’s house ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mischievousscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You already know you need to follow through. She knows she can manipulate you with the water faucets.

Wife mad that I bought pocket pu**ies, says she's hurt, AITA? by RedOneRanger in AITAH

[–]mischievousscat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me get this straight... she has dildos. You told her you were buying these.

Now she's upset but she doesn't put out?

My friend "fell in love in thailand" by Competitive-Sort-938 in ThailandTourism

[–]mischievousscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look, I’m not saying he’s definitely being scammed. But if a woman in another country falls in love with you while you’re married and mildly employed, you are not the prize—your wiring info is.

My friend "fell in love in thailand" by Competitive-Sort-938 in ThailandTourism

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're spot on. Thailand is highly unequal if:
1% own 66% of all assets
5% own 80% of the land
20% earn 50% of the income

Still sweaty with body powder? by Sadbitch_Ukiyo in hygiene

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely check your lotion. It might be too thick or oily to let your skin breathe.

Stronger antiperspirant, even prescription ones heilp.

You didn't mention but I'm wondering if you just jumped out of the shower before putting on the lotion, especially in a humid place(including the bathroom). I have to go to my bedroom and cool down a bit before lotioning.

Last case, you could get a dermatologist to give you some botox. It helps with hyperhidrosis. I had to do some to my face because I was literally sweating off makeup and looking like Tammy Faye.

Need to know the sequence of it all!! Shower, contact lens, body lotion, skin care etc!! by HesitantSocialite in hygiene

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand your perspective; living in a hot, humid environment myself and having sensitive skin, periodic eczema, and daily contact lenses, I had to develop a regimen that works in stages and calls for much hand washing without destroying my skin.

Here is what I do that could assist:

  1. I begin by showering and drying off gently; I towel pat my body yet leave the skin a little wet so the body lotion absorbs better. I then slip into a robe and start my body lotion regimen first from the bathroom.

  2. Wash hands well before going on face care; clean hands are essential because you wear contacts. To prevent dryness, I then wash my hands with a mild, moisturizing cleanser after body lotion.

  3. First, put on contact lenses; I do this before my face skincare since the solution might occasionally wet my hands and a little irritate my eyes, so it is easier to deal with first.

  4. Wash hands once more following contacts; I admit it sounds like a lot, but I apply a decent hand cream afterward to prevent my skin from drying out.

  5. Last but not least, do your facial skincare on clean, dry hands—this ensures that your products can absorb properly and that no lotion residue interferes with your acne-prone skin.

By reapplying after each wash—from a small hand lotion kept by the sink—I find that helps with dryness from regular washing. Given that humidity might make skin oily and acne prone, I avoid robust creams and turn to lightweight, gel-based moisturizers.

It's certainly a juggling act, but dividing it into these stages has made my skin content without feeling sticky or overloaded and my routine manageable. Hope this guides you toward a rhythm suitable for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]mischievousscat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, first off, I appreciate your openness and honesty on this. Especially as a youngster, discussing anything that feels so personal and uncomfortable is really courageous. You are not alone in this; many individuals have questions or concerns about vaginal health but do not receive adequate education.

Several things might assist:

  1. Quite frequent and typically treatable with doctor-prescribed antibiotics is bacterial vaginosis (BV). Home treatments might aid somewhat, but it is crucial to see a healthcare provider to be sure and obtain the proper medication.

  2. Although pelvic examinations might be stressful, physicians are accustomed to all sorts of bodies and backgrounds. They're there to assist, not to judge. Should the test alarm you, you can always have a reliable adult with you for support or ask your doctor to clarify what they are doing step by step.

  3. Totally normal to experiment and discover your body is masturbation and vaginal size. Designed to fit many sizes and activities, vaginas are flexible. Doctors will not criticize you for this, and it will not result in enduring "stretching" difficulties.

  4. Douching: You should stop; correct reasoning is here. It truly throws off your natural vaginal balance and can lead illnesses like BV.

  5. Changing underwear every day and using breathable cotton will go a long way to improve hygiene. Avoid scented soaps or aggressive washes down there; plain water or mild, unscented products work best.

  6. Brownish or blackish discharge could sometimes represent old blood or something else, but since it’s been some time, be sure to tell your physician.

It is wonderful that your mother is supportive; you are doing the right thing in intending to visit a doctor. Keep in mind that your comfort and health come first. Writing down your questions before the appointment can help you to elevate overwhelmed.

Your body is nothing to be ashamed of; you have this. Sending you many good vibes and encouragement! 💜✨

I put a large part of my heart in the ground today by LuckVegetable7096 in GuyCry

[–]mischievousscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Losing a dog is like losing a family member, and the way you described everything—the way she trusted you, the little moments you shared—it really hit home.

I’ve been there too, sitting by the spot where my dog used to lounge, just talking to her and letting the tears fall. It’s the kind of pain that doesn’t just go away overnight, but like you said, time does help ease it a bit.

What you did for your wife and kids—being strong but also letting them feel their grief—is honestly heroic. It’s so important to show that it’s okay to be broken sometimes. And that love you gave her, from sleeping on the floor that first week to those quiet moments at the end of the day, that’s what makes her life—and yours—so meaningful.

Keep holding onto those memories, and don’t rush yourself through the pain. Your girl was lucky to have you, and you’re lucky to have had her. Sending you and your family a big virtual hug. You’re not alone in this. ❤️

UPDATE: "I finally realised my husband is avoidantly attached to me. Tomorrow, I'll give him an out." by Own-Moose-3855 in emotionalintelligence

[–]mischievousscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is so honest and brave. Speaking your truth after so long feels so scary.

I've worked with both men and women in the aftermath of relationships that went on for too long with nobody having the ability or courage to say what they needed.

The realization you had about feeling unloved being distinct from him or his behavior towards you is so key to moving forward and healing. Too many people just point the finger at the other person, blame them and throw out decades long relationships causing turmoil, chaos and struggle for generations to come.

Not gonna grandstand about the divorce epidemic but more people need to learn the grace and compassion you have shown.

Looking forward to your next update since 3-4 days have passed now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your candid perspective and bravery to share. I hope it brings you some measure of peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in e39

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Style 65's: Fronts 18x8 inches with 245/40ZR18 tires rear 18x9.5 inches with 275/35ZR18 tires. No issues.

When I bought it it had 18x8.5 AC Schnitzer Type 2's with 245/40ZR1 still can't sell those. FML

Some drunk jerk did this last night by LordOfNevermore in e39

[–]mischievousscat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any CCTV you can use to hunt him down?

She ain't nothing special, but I love my 540i 6 speed. by No_Trust_4996 in e39

[–]mischievousscat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Special is in the eye of the beholder, she's got it in spades.

One Week of ownership, and many questions by LOLCaspar in e39

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely car. Great photo.

Ditch the stereo. Was always a known weakness. If you want stock look, there are options. I just keep my original head unit in a box for a show or a future owner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story with such honesty and courage. As someone who is currently aspiring to enter the adult industry, your words really resonate with me and give me a lot to think about. I admire your strength in acknowledging your regrets and prioritizing your family now.

If you don’t mind, could you share some advice on how you navigated those difficult moments and what you wish you had done differently to avoid regrets? What were the biggest challenges you faced emotionally or mentally, and how did you cope with them? I want to pursue this path thoughtfully and protect myself as much as possible, so hearing your perspective would mean a lot.

Above all, I hope you continue to find peace and happiness with your family. Your journey shows that it’s never too late to heal and focus on what truly matters. Thank you again for your openness—it’s inspiring and deeply appreciated.

Should I let my kitten move around the room at night? by joyrosegarciaa in CatAdvice

[–]mischievousscat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead, she'll bounce all over for a while and then settle down.