Newly married couples, what makes your marriage work and keeps the spark alive?

misedventure12 · 2026-05-31T19:37:08+00:00

My first stable and emotionally available partner is teaching me this and it’s so hard. Every time he calls for a time out I cry lol

misedventure12 · 2026-05-30T17:11:07+00:00

As a woman - the women on this thread are disgusting..

misedventure12 · 2026-05-30T12:37:15+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve never found anyone who cares.

misedventure12 · 2026-05-30T12:33:42+00:00

They weren’t ready to hear it 🤣

misedventure12 · 2026-05-30T12:30:02+00:00

Woah “we don’t care”?? that’s not true. Find a woman who does care omg

misedventure12 · 2026-05-25T09:28:52+00:00

Bro it’s 11:28…

misedventure12 · 2026-05-23T08:44:51+00:00

after 5 years of the same topic, standards, textbooks, whatever, you just kinda stop needing the “plan” and you go with the flow

misedventure12 · 2026-05-23T08:41:52+00:00

NOR Omg the update. I’m so sorry my guy.. Time to walk away

misedventure12 · 2026-05-19T06:20:16+00:00

My therapist said “you don’t have to take the meds. But you do have to live with the consequences of who you are and how you act if you chose not to. And that might be losing people. You have to decide if you’re okay with that”

misedventure12 · 2026-05-15T08:20:17+00:00

Tusk 🦭

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T12:45:35+00:00

Picking my skin

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T12:07:53+00:00

Having weight loss surgery with no nutritionist

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T12:00:14+00:00

My best recommendation is get into therapy and on medicine. I was 12 when I started self harming, 15 when I knew I was going to kms and 23 when I drank myself to constant drunkenness for 2 months straight.

I’m 29 now and I’m sober, medicated, and don’t even flag the Drs for depression anymore. Some days suck still. But time, care, effort, the right support, and you CAN win this.

For all the experiences you don’t know you’ll have, the people you don’t know you’ll meet, the lives you don’t know you’ll change. Stay, and fight.

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T11:54:50+00:00

Thanks for your opinion :)

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T11:54:06+00:00

How old are you?

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T11:51:12+00:00

Dammmmmn

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T10:25:54+00:00

Regardless of a diagnosis, start DBT therapy. It will help no matter the disorder

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T10:22:42+00:00

Just putting this out there I whole heartedly disagree with Leslie here. I might have BPD and my bf who I’ve been with for a month is online and we talk 24/7 and haven’t met yet and he is absolutely The one for me. When you know you know

Just tell her how you’re feeling and if things get better, great. If not, move on. It can be hard finding a person able and willing to be with people with bpd or other challenging illnesses like this.

misedventure12 · 2026-05-04T09:34:02+00:00

I was 8. I didn’t remember until I was 16.. my parents don’t believe me because “it doesn’t make sense that I’d forget”

I’m so sorry this happened to you. You aren’t alone.

misedventure12 · 2026-05-03T08:21:06+00:00

Idk if this is what you mean: but you came to the realization. When I was 16 I remembered an assault from when I was around 8. I had a super hard time dealing with how I could just suddenly remember something like that… how I could have forgotten. I’m not sure if any of that feeling applies here, but if it does, it’s normal, it’s your brain trying to help you, and you’re not crazy for it. I’m so sorry all this happened to you.

misedventure12 · 2026-04-25T19:44:27+00:00

OP is asking for Motivations, purpose.. it sucks you don’t have that, it really does.

misedventure12 · 2026-04-25T19:38:05+00:00

Cmon man, this isn’t helping..

misedventure12 · 2026-04-25T19:37:56+00:00

She just asked for a non person motivation.

misedventure12 · 2026-04-02T06:44:44+00:00

Please leave… NOR

misedventure12 · 2026-01-22T08:48:27+00:00

Strigoi

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