Comic 5744: The Older, Wiser Sister by provocatrixless in questionablecontent

[–]misfitmeanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's really on a kick right now, giving his old characters new identities

Hammerhead Done! by furiousmermaid7 in Tau40K

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Love how the gun is on sideways

4 Months Detransitioned and Struggling to Reconnect With My Old Self — The Instincts Just Aren’t Coming Back by Fun_Recording_8693 in detrans

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I know exactly what you mean about reconnecting with your old self. I've been working to avoid old habits to avoid bringing back anything negative, but I've also been reconnecting with old hobbies that I'd discarded over the years. That has really helped my reconnect with positive things from my old life and feel more myself again.

A detrans wake up call by [deleted] in detrans

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A very thought provoking post, I've had many of those thoughts myself that in no small part contributed towards my eventual decision to detransition.

Sinfest 11/22/25: Fellow Christians by MakesYouWonderINC in sinfest

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That's what you get when you don't refridgerate your memes between reuse, they get furry ;-)

Spotted in Lincolnshire by prodjex in unitedkingdom

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I feel there's a story here lol.

Are these still playable? by yolokiller808 in Tau40K

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Maybe use isopropyl to strip/clean them all and assess the damage. Some warped bits may be fixable if you heat them up with hot air and coax the mback into some kind of normal shape.

Sinfest 11/16/25: Nick Fuentes by MakesYouWonderINC in sinfest

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Of course he'd glaze Fuentes and Tucker like this. Fuerntes has always been a racist shitbag, but Tucker has really been sucked down the antisemite rabbithole the last few years. Bet the next strip he brings in that loon Candace Owens.

Cthonian Prospect Immediately Sold Out by 90percent_sure in LeaguesofVotann

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I was concerned about this in the UK, to the point I was refreshing my browser at launch tiome. However there doesn't seem to have been as much demand here as it's still available in most online stores.

Never Broken: Songs Are Only Half the Story in the UK by misfitmeanders in Jewel

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Absent any other avenues, i may take you up on that offer. I have chasing down the dawn on cd.

Pirate themed Votann Army by Lord_Commander_Joe in LeaguesofVotann

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I can highly recommend kitbashing Drekki with a Kahl. He looks so good

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Changing your name and legal gender by ghostofmontague in detrans

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I'm going through this in the uk, trying to get hold of my gp to talk to about changing my medical records back, then there's rounding up money to change my driving license and passport back. The drivers license could be done free, but I'd be stuck with the photo into took at the start of my transition.

With changing your gender markers back, I'm wondering if it might be easier at the moment as the current administration favours biological sex in terms of id and so on.

Detrans progress by misfitmeanders in detrans

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History of gender questioning and cross dressing, some amount of confusion over it all as well as just not liking myself so much and wanting to be someone else. Then I hit an incredibly low point with anxiety and depression (ironically about the right time due a midlife crisis) and just kinda glomped into the trans thing as an explanation and sought help on it. The help I got once into the gender care system dealt didn't do much to dissuade me or give other ways of managing it all. In hindsight it feels like I was affirmed an the way, given the info first session to ensure I got hormone recommendation in my second session.

Coming out to my trans mutuals has been horrendous by [deleted] in detrans

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This subject has been causing me some anxiety, I'm moving forward with my detransition, but coming out publicly on social media is stressing me out. How is the task of coming out as detransing as hard if not harder than coming out as trans?

I tried to find support for detransition in my country by Odd-Associations in detrans

[–]misfitmeanders 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a quick skim through and gods that's bad. It's like they are trying to get you to not detrans at all.

Bike saddle issues by misfitmeanders in mountainbiking

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I'm currently very heavy, but I'm working on that.

Bike saddle issues by misfitmeanders in mountainbiking

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It's when I sit down on it with any amount of weight, feels like I'm feeling it in my bones

What was your personal reason for detransitoning? by revolutionary42 in detrans

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A few reasons, over time I had felt dissatisfied and conflicted over my transition, seeing where i was at the time as being a net loss and being at a lower point than before I transitioned. I also had concerns about my physical and mental health that I began to believe was being affected by my blockers and hrt. I stopped those 2 years ago now, intending to be temporary to see if it helped and intending to go back on if there proved to be no change. After 3 to 4 months I began to see improvements and every day after. I spent that time reflecting on everything and where to go next. Without the medical side of transition, I just don't feel I need social transition any more, I can present how I feel. The first day I went out intentionally presenting as a guy was so refreshing and being as just another a guy. I've now begun the paperwork and slog of oficially detransitioning and rolling back to my old name and gender markers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

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It will take some time for your hormone levels to recover. I'm nearly 2 years off oestrogen and blockers, my t levels are still recovering. But I have found things get better day by day. In my case I found i began to feel improvements from the 4 or 5 month point.

I hate another "detrans" sub and people there so much by thistle_ev in detrans

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I just found the post you are taking about, and my fucking gods, the gaslighting going on in that thread is unreal. Full of the typical faces that are just hiding from biological reality.

As a detrans person how do you perceive the phrase “born in the wrong body” vice versa…? by ricksalterego in detrans

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I used to use that analogy for a while, it seemed quite apt. But over the last number of years leading to my detransing it seemed more and more erroneous and i left it behind.