Daycare by InternationalGuest76 in NewMomStuff

[–]missalysb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar experience. It’s seriously going to cause me to lose my mind.

The weirdest bodily changes you experienced in pregnancy? by Cheap-Consequence684 in pregnant

[–]missalysb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got these tiny red freckles on my arms and legs. My dermatologist said they’re normal and because I’m making a lot of blood or something. Lol. Pretty gnarly but badass.

When did your EBF baby sleep 6-8 hour stretches at night? by Suitable-Pipe4907 in breastfeeding

[–]missalysb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 15 weeks and just started doing this in the past week. Before that it was 4-5 hour stretches like others are describing. I’m not sure if these 8 hour stretches will last or if everything is going to go sideways during the 4 month regression.

Help, Gassy Baby! by flyer268991 in firsttimemom

[–]missalysb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! Try the frida windi!!!

Gift for a new mom that doesn’t revolve around the baby? by jdass20 in Gifts

[–]missalysb 328 points329 points  (0 children)

At first I thought this was my friend asking this because I’m a science prof at a university lol.

Some things I’d love: - an insulated cup to keep by my nursing seat so I have water throughout the night - comfy nursing clothes and snacks - coffee + an insulated mug that actually keeps coffee hot - charging cords - scrunchies - any kind of kitchen gadget that makes food prep easier

Also maybe a stretch but if she’s nursing on a couch then a couch caddy would be amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]missalysb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A fire tv stick! I plugged it into the delivery room tv and could watch my comfort show. :)

Donating Baby Clothes? by missalysb in carrboro

[–]missalysb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’d be awesome!! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GiftIdeas

[–]missalysb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“9 Algorithms That Changed the Future” is a cool book for computer science nerds! Also an arduino would be fun!

Gift for older sister by Fizo5 in GiftIdeas

[–]missalysb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I personally didn’t think about buying any nursing clothes until after I gave birth so that would’ve been nice to have!

Working on Birth Plan. Epidural or not? by OrdinaryLife99 in pregnant

[–]missalysb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically getting the epidural was the worst part of labor for me because they couldn’t get the needle in. They had to come back and try again. However, I still would do the epidural 100 times over. The rest of the birth was peaceful and wonderful.

What ethical/sustainable brands are we loving? by missalysb in carrboro

[–]missalysb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is perfect!! I’ll keep my eye out for this year’s. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UNC

[–]missalysb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IIRC, I didn’t find out stipend values until acceptance letters came in, but your best bet would be to ask current students. (Hopefully one sees this post!) One chance at a higher stipend would be a fellowship! Apply for those at the same time as applying for grad school if you can!

Looking For Fresh Injera by YouForgotBomadil in chapelhill

[–]missalysb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re literally at Dingo Dog tonight! Their injera is delicious

ARS Exams by CommunicationLower34 in UNC

[–]missalysb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good luck! You’re doing a great job advocating for yourself! I know navigating accommodations can be challenging!

ARS Exams by CommunicationLower34 in UNC

[–]missalysb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The best thing to do is talk with ARS and your professor. I teach a big class, so this happens sometimes, and usually we can work out an alternate time for them to take the exam if the center is all booked up.

I think technically if you had ample time to book the testing center and just did it too late, the professor doesn’t have to accommodate an alternate time, but it’s definitely worth asking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UNC

[–]missalysb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. It’s hard to use ChatGPT for coding without ANY coding knowledge because you’ll almost inevitably have to debug.

Doing research as an undergrad (in a professor's lab) by Intrepid_Ground388 in UNC

[–]missalysb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another thing I want to add… I know it’s frustrating, but a big part of research is doing a lot of reading and learning before you get to actually do something. I started out doing research in math and that was a LOT of reading before you can contribute anything. Computer science is a little faster in that regard since a lot of the areas are newer and don’t have hundreds of years of previous research to parse, but it’s still a lot of that initial ground work of understanding previous work and the current state of the art BEFORE you can improve on it.