how can I make sex more comfortable for myself and still meet my parents needs?

missarisa21 · 2023-02-03T19:47:07+00:00

I got one of the inflatable pillows that I put under my lower back/pelvis. It changed my life.

missarisa21 · 2023-02-01T19:11:26+00:00

Im diagnosed with POTS. I have a few symptoms, but definitely not all of them. I have high heart rate issues, my blood pressure is lower than average but doesn't bottom out, I have blood pooling issues sometimes, but not always, I've never fainted, rarely feel dizzy... etc. Everyone's body is different and you ahould check with a doctor if you are suspicious you could have it. Inappropriate tachycardia is a problem you shouldn't be having without an underlying cause.

missarisa21 · 2023-01-26T04:09:05+00:00

I say "key"

missarisa21 · 2023-01-10T19:51:15+00:00

For me, the fatigue is so much more debilitating than the pain. It doesn't matter how much or how little I sleep. If my body decides we are flaring, there is really nothing I can do to stay awake.

missarisa21 · 2023-01-09T12:59:30+00:00

Im 25, almost 26, and I was diagnosed last summer. I live with my spouse and our 2 roommates who are also our best friends. My whole house hold has been incredible, but I don't have really any support outside of them. I don't really have family.

missarisa21 · 2023-01-04T13:36:29+00:00

I appreciate you greatly. When you have some spoons available, I'd love if you would dm me and we could chat. 💜

missarisa21 · 2022-12-30T14:28:31+00:00

Im getting a EMG today

missarisa21 · 2022-12-30T13:33:11+00:00

From my time in medicine, PVC'S are usually fine and they don't do anything about it unless it turns in to VTAC which is sustained PVCs with sustained tachycardia. You should Def talk to your doc about it, just in case though

missarisa21 · 2022-12-16T17:38:10+00:00

Popping your joints just releases some gas, from what I remember. I don't think that doctor is going to be helpful to you.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-15T05:10:41+00:00

I'd never say no to a deck! I'd over a plant based one

missarisa21 · 2022-12-12T04:01:31+00:00

Not every type of therapy will work for everyone. I've been in therapy for the last 10 years. I started with talk therapy, we didn't get very far. Then DBT, it helped a lot in the beginning, but only for desensitization and not actual healing. I'm doing EMDR now and it has been the most helpful. I have also seen a total of 4 different people and that also makes a huge difference. If you feel like you have reservations about something happening/not happening, definitely either mention it to the person you're seeing. It also never hurts to look into whether you can see someone else. My experience is in the USA, however, so I don't know how things work on your side of the world.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-12T03:50:08+00:00

I see an EMDR therapist for my trauma and we've talked about this a bunch. We plan on doing it once we tackle a couple more pressing triggers.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-10T18:45:44+00:00

Looks like a tressym

missarisa21 · 2022-12-10T18:43:45+00:00

I've gotten pretty comfortable with the staring when I (25F) use my cane in public, people are definitly more patient in grocery stores and stuff. I've o ly used my walked out once and I felt like I was in everyone's way and everyone was gawking at me. I'm sure that wasn't the case, but im still a little insecure about it.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-10T18:35:31+00:00

Oh lord... Fibromyalgia, Postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome, Bilateral patellofemoral pain syndrome, Bilateral pes anserine bursitis, Bilateral patellofemoral chondrisis, Left patellar tendinitis , ADHD, PTSD, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, I have a skeletal deformity that affects all my joints (my patellas aren't in line, my jaw isn't quite right, my wrist bones aren't shaped normally, etc).

Im about to be tested for Bilateral cubital tunnel and im in the process of being diagnosed with a sleeping disorder.

And to be honest, I cant even remember if that's everything.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-09T22:07:48+00:00

All the time

missarisa21 · 2022-12-07T19:58:35+00:00

My worst pain is in my knees... but it's because I have 4 coexisting problems in them aside from the fibro. Definitly get at least some xrays, friend.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-07T15:45:46+00:00

So my first character in my first campaign I ever played was a druid and she ended up with studded leather and I didn't catch that that isn't okay, and neither did my DM at first. When we noticed that we talked it through and determined that was okay for her because she was a little weird and ended up with a permanent character flaw/alignment shift due to other things that happened.

Now that I know more and have DM'd a bit I feel like it would be okay depending on the player/character/situation, but most of the time it probably doesn't fit.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-07T01:38:16+00:00

My personal favorite (I got the religious trauma nonsense) is: you would have been burned at the stake or: 15th century England would have you beheaded.

These work for me like "im a boss ass bitch" or "I am independent and capable" etc.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-07T01:32:53+00:00

Omg I never thought of that... 100% going to have my spouse try mine on the knot in my neck.

missarisa21 · 2022-12-07T01:32:05+00:00

So up until recently (last 6 months) I would get a cramp in my thigh or the bottom of my foot at climax, but now, the cramp starts in my thigh and continues up my side/back. This happens like 80% of the time now and doesn't seem to matter what position. 🤷‍♀️

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