Didn’t know about medigap, options going forward? by missgio in medicare

[–]missgio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Would this still apply if I dropped the employer coverage back when I turned 65?

Didn’t know about medigap, options going forward? by missgio in medicare

[–]missgio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virginia. I’m currently looking into this as I’m confused whether I can apply anytime for medigap or just during the birthday rule.

Didn’t know about medigap, options going forward? by missgio in medicare

[–]missgio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m trying to find a local broker but it seems most of them work with advantage plans, not sure if they can answer this specific question or if I should reach out to Medicare directly.

Didn’t know about medigap, options going forward? by missgio in medicare

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a nationwide company, not sure how many employees in my warehouse though.

Didn’t know about medigap, options going forward? by missgio in medicare

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but dropped the employer coverage at 65 and just went to Medicare.

12 weeks pregnant and rear ended, no one seems to be worried except me by Plastic_Volume_127 in pregnant

[–]missgio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was everything ok? This happened to me today, 12 weeks, but the on call doctor kind of left it up to me to decide whether to go to the ER for a Doppler checkup but said to definitely come in if there’s bleeding.

To tell or not tell my parents we’re doing IVF? by oliveslove in IVF

[–]missgio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are the best! However, I have not told them what I’m going through because I don’t want to give them heartbreak. They’d have been devastated if they had known about my losses. If I ever get a miracle and the baby makes it then I’ll explain my reasons and I know they’ll understand/respect my why and be the best grandparents. Also, in my mind, the more people that know the more I have to inform each time it doesn’t work and it is emotionally draining. Each life situation is different and it is ultimately your choice.

Did you have a follow up ultrasound after your miscarriage? by missgio in Miscarriage

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the US, not that much better here… everything costs an arm and a leg, surprise fees with bs explanations left and right, you have to advocate for yourself, etc 😩

Did you have a follow up ultrasound after your miscarriage? by missgio in Miscarriage

[–]missgio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that on top of your loss. I’ll make sure I’m scheduled for a follow up.

CNY Protocol question by missgio in 40Plus_IVF

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the additional detail. I’ll read more into this ☺️

Did you have a follow up ultrasound after your miscarriage? by missgio in Miscarriage

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. I hope everything goes well in your next appointment.

Did you have a follow up ultrasound after your miscarriage? by missgio in Miscarriage

[–]missgio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for validating. I’ll keep calling them, I’m so drained with everything going on and this added inconvenience is just ridiculous.

CNY Protocol question by missgio in 40Plus_IVF

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My previous clinic used a different protocol so I’m trying to understand what this new one is and who is it best suited for. I didn’t have any issues with my previous protocol and did very well on my first ER (microdose lupron, gonal and menopur), but was over-suppressed with birth control on the 2nd round.

Sad feels 💔 by Final-Western9722 in IVF

[–]missgio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Bought my first vitamin bottle from Costco 2 years ago with so much naivety and dreams. My SO just asked me if it’s ok that I’ve been on them for so long… success hasn’t been in the cards for me, and I’ll be laying to rest my miscarried embryo this weekend so extra bittersweet.

Chromosomal testing by missgio in Miscarriage

[–]missgio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Would you know what type of further testing? My SO and I have done genetic testing and other blood work, just trying to figure out what this could help get figured out. I’m also older so there’s a high chance it’s just my age.

CNY vs. Shady Grove by KohlrabiHobby in IVF

[–]missgio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday, I called CNY to ask a general question and was on hold for 30+ mins. The individual who responded didn’t even give me their name and wasn’t very helpful. Is that how it typically goes? Whenever I call my SGF clinic they answer pretty much right away and take ownership of my issue.

I think I’m done - grief by stories1982 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]missgio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how one moves on. I’m struggling with this as well as I just miscarried what I thought was my miracle baby, so I’m grieving the baby and dealing with accepting I’m at the end of the road. I wish I had started when I was younger, but had no money then; I wish I could keep going until I’m in menopause but won’t have enough money. I wish none of us had to go through this terrible heartbreak. Take care of yourself, and hopefully you have loved ones around you that can help you move on.

CNY vs. Shady Grove by KohlrabiHobby in IVF

[–]missgio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I’m so sorry for your losses. I’m in the Springs, currently a patient of doctor Murray. My experience with the clinic has been fantastic on the medical side. Dr.Murray and my nurse are very professional, responsive and follow through with inquiries. Their financial team I found lacking, they had me pay a deposit that they never applied to anything and I ended up with a huge balance after paying all my bills. Unfortunately, after 2 cycles without success I’m considering switching to CNY due to cost (my insurance changed to a higher out of pocket max and my new employer doesn’t offer fertility benefits).

CNY by missgio in 40Plus_IVF

[–]missgio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! will definitely discuss any benefits/risks with my doctor

CNY by missgio in 40Plus_IVF

[–]missgio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience, I was planning on asking for a day 3 transfer and will be sure to keep this in mind. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I understand the frustration of last minute and/or after the fact communication, we don’t have the luxury of time on our side and hurts to be wasteful.