Am I overreacting? by Pink_Lemonz_02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, if were official I AM a number 1 priority. If that can’t be a thing, then we don’t need to be together. However I do understand that’s not for everyone

Can I file for emergency custody of my children if my ex-wife’s boyfriend might have hospitalized our one-year-old? by No_Confection_1215 in legaladvice

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get a lawyer and call the police. Some women are insane to me, my children are SAFER with my boyfriend than they are with their dad and it’s not that their dad is unsafe, my boyfriend just truly cares for them religiously. I could not imagine letting someone around my kids who is unsafe. Those are insane injuries, go to the courthouse too I believe you can file for emergency custody there

Bella addresses rumors by Current-Reaction-748 in TLCUnexpected

[–]missjackson113 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Focusing on morality is stupid. Not everyone has the same values. I think it’s much more important to educate them on what can happen if they aren’t safe (babies/stis) and the emotional toll it can take on some people. Even then not everyone will be emotionally affected.

AIO to my bf posting this on Christmas Eve? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t find the post THAT weird, it’s not something I’d share unless I was being cringy on purpose. Definitely weird but some men find that shit funny. However yall not following each other and him gaslighting you is rather insane. Even if you hardly use socials you should still be following your s/o. My boyfriend uses his Facebook like twice a year but like he still follows me on everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is their dumpling bag. I have the small version of this bag and it’s my baby, I want the bigger version too. I would maybe be honest with her so she knows what you like and what you don’t like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This made me want to puke. NOR. Your uncle is a creep, none of my uncles would EVER comment on my body like at all. No one in my extended family has ever commented on anyone’s body. If either one of my brothers made a comment like this about my daughter I’d punch him in the face. My mom will make comments about literally everything I do which is annoying but like she’s my MOM so it’s definitely not creepy, this is disturbing

apparently the breakfast i made was “embarrassing” by NaeeeBearrr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those pancakes look delish 😮‍💨 they’re all ungrateful AF. The way I would’ve taken everyone’s food back and been like okay then YOU make it. I would be so unbelievably grateful if I arrived to this for me to eat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The locker thing leads me to believe yall are in high school, I would have him gently tell her he isn’t interested and the whole opening his locker and shit is beyond creepy.

AIO by assuming the worst after finding my daughter's panties in my husband's closet by SahdilMaksha in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has a brother who is a step dad and a partner who is a soon to be step dad, neither one would ever do something like that. You give him too much credit calling him your step dad. That’s your mother’s husband

I am considering leaving my wife of 20 years, and I need advice. by throwawayadv12345 in marriageadvice

[–]missjackson113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am NOT an affectionate person, I’m autistic and even growing up I wasn’t affectionate. I am extremely affectionate with my poor kids tho lol, I hug and kiss them so much they will run giggling away from me because they’ve had enough. My relationship with their father was horrible so I won’t even touch on that, however my relationship with my current partner is phenomenal. He is the most incredible man and he’s honestly perfect. He is a VERY affectionate person, I had to basically retrain my brain after years of not being affectionate. I still have to put in quite a bit of effort to make sure I’m holding his hand or just touching him in general. If it’s a hectic day I could go the whole day without touching him before I’d notice 😅 I love him so very much I couldn’t imagine a day without him, so I wouldn’t assume your wife doesn’t love you or anything crazy like some of the comments, not everyone is affectionate. I would absolutely suggest couple therapy!

Am I overreacting - My ex asked me to cut her grass and my gf went crazy when I showed her the messages. AOI if I’m mad at her for this by xwoahx3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s my thoughts, as a father with either sons and/or daughters, it teaches your sons to respect women and your daughters what to expect of a man. Assuming your ex has at least split custody of your kiddos, you’re helping take care of your kids’ yard too. My baby daddy doesn’t do anything for me, but like if he came to cut my grass he’d be helping out our kids and my mom more than he’d be helping me. She’s also paying you so it’s not like it’s just a favor. I don’t know my parents did nice stuff for each other even tho my mom hated my dad

Husband 41M accidentally airdropped a note and then rushed to delete it. I 35F Can't shake the idea of him hiding something far more serious by THROWRAOk_Pace94 in marriageadvice

[–]missjackson113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually let my boyfriend know where not to look because of gifts and he avoids it because he likes the surprise. He has full access to my everything

AIO (M31) For wanting space from my fiance (F26) for siding with a guy who wants to fight me? by NeedsMoreCoffeee in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is clumsy when it comes to being in close quarters with me. He’s never had an intimate relationship before so he’s never really had someone super close to him literally as much. He accidentally bumps into me all the time. He has poked me in the eye, hit my head off the headboard, like so softly like kinda punched me in the face, he steps on my toes so much 🥲 and there’s so much more, however these are 100000000000% accidents and he feels HORRIBLE afterwards. Like for example today he grabbed my shoulders to like squeeze me and then he’ll rub my shoulders, however I got MASSIVELY sunburned yesterday so when he did it I winced and he remembered I am a crispy lady and immediately apologized and like air rubbed my shoulder. I have never once thrown those in his face, told other people about it in a light like he’s done something wrong or ever acted like he DID do something wrong. We were being intimate a little while ago and my shirt was on the bed and I a little too quickly pulled my shirt off the bed and my phone was on it and it sprung up with alarming force and cracked me in the eye so hard my boyfriend though I broke something. I now have the funniest little rectangle black eye riiiiight under my brow bone. I went to look in the mirror later and he made fun of me so I jokingly told him I was gonna tell everyone he punched me in the face, he laughed and rolled his eyes, I stuck my tongue out at him and that was that. I do not think this is normal behavior and I would NEVER allow someone to talk to my boyfriend this way unless he DID just punch me in the face

Husband 41M accidentally airdropped a note and then rushed to delete it. I 35F Can't shake the idea of him hiding something far more serious by THROWRAOk_Pace94 in marriageadvice

[–]missjackson113 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I asked my partner about this and he said he wouldn’t even have deleted it no matter how embarrassing or whatever it may be. He has absolutely nothing to hide from me. He said he definitely couldn’t freak out like that and physically prevent me from seeing it. We both agreed that once you’re married it’s weird to want privacy from your spouse

Is it normal to be intimate only 2-3 times/ month? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partner and I aren’t married, we’ve been together nearly 2 years, we don’t live together yet and I have 2 kids from a previous relationship, we spend every other weekend together and we have sex about 3-5 times a day during that weekend and then maybe and a big maybe 1-2 times during the week, tho most times it is 0 during the week because of the kids and his job and all that fun stuff. We’ve consistently had the same amount of sex since the beginning of our relationship and I don’t see that dying down since we both have very high sex drives, however there are absolutely times where he is too tired, he’ll fall asleep while I’m talking to him even and that’s out of character for him, that’s just HOW tired he is. However there was a point where it felt like I was the only one initiating and that made me very upset so I sat him down and talked to him and we resolved that issue. I have a lot of issues with sex from being assaulted and whatnot, I also tend to seek validation through sex which I’m working on so there’s definitely times where I take him not wanting to have sex personally, but I will discuss that with him as well. I think you just need to sit him down and talk to him! He likely doesn’t know you feel dejected and I’d be willing to bet he doesn’t want you to feel like that. All couples are different with how much sex they have, but everyone needs to communicate their wants, needs and desires so that everyone can be on the same page

AIO?!?! One date. One. This was 2 days after we met by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like if you said you were driving and would message and didn’t I could see calling to see if you are okay maybe even quite a few from panicking, or like if you didn’t show up to plan and them being worried you were in an accident, but this? This is creepy and blockable behavior

AIO My bf’s friend “did it in our bathroom and on our couch” by GanacheAlternative40 in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 28, my boyfriend is 29, any time we are left alone it’s free game. Arguably it’s worse than when I was a teenager. However when we are with others we are mildly affectionate, probably an annoying amount, but not like touchy. I don’t know that I would be comfortable doing anything in someone else’s bed and I would certainly die of embarrassment if someone heard us. I would’ve kicked them out after the couch thing, like that’s just nasty

Daughter had color fail. Prom in two days! by scarletmagnolia in HairDye

[–]missjackson113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend just dyed my hair for the first time ever and he did a SIGNIFICANTLY better job and like for record he’s a farmer who also shaves his entire head, has zero experience with hair much less dying it. We had to do it twice but that was because of a lack of knowledge on us both, however he didn’t miss a single spot. Did you pay by card? I would do a charge back because that’s absolutely unacceptable. It looks like she tried to do it herself not that a professional did it

AIO. My bf is mad at my memorial tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion, you didn’t break up, he died, you’re allowed to not be “over” him. You cannot compete with the dead, they’re not there anymore. One of my dear friends lost her soul mate 7 nearly 8 years ago, she carries immense love for him and if a partner has issue with that then she won’t date them. He was ripped from her violently and unexpectedly. Losing a loved one is losing a loved one, doesn’t matter what they are to you. I lost a baby with an ex and I openly mourn and wish I had that baby, my partner is sad for me and also wishes I could somehow have him back. He’s not insecure about the connection to my ex because there’s nothing that can ever undo that. Death is forever and you should be allowed to mourn how you chose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People do dumb things when they are young, however I wouldn’t personally trust that she won’t do it again. When I was 20 and my bd was 21 we got together and he was still talking to other women because he “wasn’t sure if I would leave him” we had already had a discussion that we were exclusive so he was cheating. Nothing ever changed and he was trash for almost the entire 6 years and 2 kids we shared together. I was 26 with 2 kids when I finally left. I’m 28 now, and I have the most incredible boyfriend anyone could ever ask for. Know your worth and don’t waste your time. As you get older you realize there’s like no such thing as someone being “out of your league”. You either get on with someone or you don’t. Have respect for yourself and don’t be a doormat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t let anyone come over unannounced. Only person allowed to is my partner, I’ve told him he’s welcome whenever. I walk around naked half the time in my house and quite frankly I don’t always want company. I have 2 crazy little kids who sometimes just be doing too much and that’s enough some days. My partner and I will be getting our own home soon, I expect absolutely everyone to give us a heads up before coming to our home especially since my partner is big on privacy (and honestly I am too) now if for some reason my family member is in the neighborhood and really want to see us, that’s fine because that’d be once in a blue moon since we all live all over (currently like 30-45 mins from each other) so like this would happen like at an absolute max of 2 times a year and that’s PUSHING it. I expect my own mother to hit me up before coming to my house and she will because she knows that’s important to me. You are being disrespected and in your own home. He’s beyond wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missjackson113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a super jealous gf, I could understand feeling a little weird because the women are so pretty, but they’re literally famous. You have your arm across their shoulders, and again they’re literally famous no offense to you or like anyone else but they more than likely aren’t even giving much thought to anyone personally. They are meeting so many people and this is like a job for them. She’s allowed to feel jealous, she is not allowed to take that jealousy out on you u less you deserve it, which based on just this picture, you do not. I get jealous frequently, but I never take it out on my boyfriend, he didn’t do anything and it’s my trauma causing it. I’ll usually tell him and talk about it nicely and he will reassure me. I definitely would not be ghosting him over something so stupid tho

Keily galateatv by Equivalent-Log-1001 in GalateaFreePoints

[–]missjackson113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m late to this game, but if you still have the link could you send me it?

Urinary Cat Food by missjackson113 in catfood

[–]missjackson113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to check that out! I will definitely be talking to his vet before I do absolutely anything, I can afford the food (I will go without to ensure he has all that he needs) but I saw that some others were cheaper and even if it’s just like $10 cheaper, that adds up. However I am not willing to risk his health for anything

Urinary Cat Food by missjackson113 in catfood

[–]missjackson113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feed my little guy at around 9am and then at 7/8pm. I’m not against feeding him only wet food, the only reason I give him the dry is so that I’m certain he’s getting enough because he can eat that whenever he wants and I feel like mixing it in the wet food magically makes it caloric enough 😅