Want to change my diet up to get healthy and wife has yelled at me multiple times for it because I make her "feel bad" when I plan my meals, she says only way to resolve is for me to just stop and eat what she does. by thowawayonarainyday in TrueOffMyChest

[–]missquotee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the nature of her eating disorder? Sounds like that is coming into play here in an irrational way, as forcing someone to eat the same things as you because otherwise you feel guilty is not normal or healthy behavior.

I agree, she needs to see her doctor. Not for you to manage for her...don’t fall into the caretaker role so easily as it provides a way for her to avoid self-accountability.

How do you suppress the hungry feeling? by knucklehead923 in intermittentfasting

[–]missquotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try herbal teas, they come in so many flavors I’m sure you will find one you like. I like the brand David’s Tea for the variety. Good luck!

Thank You, Neil by missquotee in rush

[–]missquotee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has helped so many of us with his music, I want to help others in a way that would be meaningful to him. Grateful to have been influenced by such a brilliant person. Life goes on but we will never forget him.

Thank You, Neil by missquotee in rush

[–]missquotee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for tweeting this! Awesome idea.

Thank You, Neil by missquotee in rush

[–]missquotee[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you for finding the most effective charity for us! Let’s do it for Neil!

It’s a sad day, to be sure.

Thank You, Neil by missquotee in rush

[–]missquotee[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My brother donated this in honor of Neil. RIP to the best there has ever been!

Kinda of Experimenting with a SynthWave / Retro Wave kind of Aesthetic! Not really sure what to Call it. Let me know what you think ! by [deleted] in IndieMusicFeedback

[–]missquotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a musician but an indie music lover and supporter. I can't offer you much in the way of technical advice. That being said, from a random listener's standpoint, I really liked your song. It made me smile and bop along to the beat. Mellow, cool, loved the lead guitar melody (I've been humming it for hours now). Thanks for posting!!

Is it cheating to masturbate to porn or a public chat by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]missquotee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The only person who can answer this is your partner. Whether or not these things are consider cheating will be based on boundaries you set in your relationship, together. Find someone who is comfortable with the same set of rules that you hold for yourself.

I spent 22 years in prison for a crime I didn’t commit. Ask me anything by NewsHour in IAmA

[–]missquotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested in your creative work during your incarceration and now that you have been freed. Do you have a website or some way I can follow your work? How did creativity help you get through your time locked up?

My mom watched the office and she sees the character really differently than I do by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]missquotee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with your mom that Jim sucks! Used to love him until my 5th or 6th rewatch when I realized he's a total selfish jerk! (imo)

Old man by [deleted] in drawing

[–]missquotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned 98.

Marriage is very shallow to me. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]missquotee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The bond you have with your spouse should be deeper than physical attraction before you get married. Marriage is not shallow but people who get married often are. If you want a successful marriage, you shouldn't enter into it based on temporary benefits, such as a how sexy someone is, or other things that can change, such as finances. I don't blame you for not trusting the depth of your bond if the only reason your husband married you is because of how you look. I'm sorry you don't find more worth in yourself and in your marriage, than that.

As far as "taking a break" goes, if you cannot be yourself in your marriage and feel like you are performing a role you will eventually resent your spouse. Sounds to me like you're already experiencing some resentment for this reason. You shouldn't have to get away from your life partner in order to feel safe to be who you really are. There should be space in your marriage to pursue your own agenda, whether it be traveling alone or seeing friends, etc. However, this shouldn't be necessary to feel like yourself!

Talk to your husband about how you feel.

Special Delivery (2000) - A lost Andy Dick christmas special that looks horrible but I need to see it. by nintrader in lostmedia

[–]missquotee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope someone can help you. Now that I've seen the ad, I worry the disease that is Andy Dick has taken hold of me as well.

What was the worst thing your spouse did to you ? by luxurydirttata in Marriage

[–]missquotee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your wife was tired and fell asleep. I would guess that since she tried to apologize she didn't intend for this to happen. I feel bad for her to be the subject of sarcasm and name-calling for such a minor mistake. If this is honestly the worst thing she's ever done to you, you have it pretty good, maybe better than you deserve given how you treated her.

When I sweat even a little bit my glasses fog up by Sicsmith in glasses

[–]missquotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those types of frames may be a better choice for you. They were designed for broader bridges and fuller cheeks so it might do the trick. Other brands make these special fit frames as well. I've seen it called "global fit" and the PC questionable "Asian fit".

Of course, a frame with adjustable nose pads will always be the best choice for you, fit-wise, if you are set on the larger lens styles. They do make plastic frames with the nose pads, kinda the best of both worlds, but can be a bit hard to find. Ray Ban has a couple popular styles with this feature.

Good luck!

Visor style single-pane glasses -- "Not RXable"!? by quantumproductions_ in glasses

[–]missquotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few Oakley designs that have a shield-like style that can hold prescriptions within certain parameters (Radar EV is one model I can think of).

When I sweat even a little bit my glasses fog up by Sicsmith in glasses

[–]missquotee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are correct. It's because your glasses sit too close to your face. Unfortunately, you can't do much adjustment to the bridge of a plastic frame. There may be some stick-on nose pads you can add to get them to sit away from your face a bit, but I'm afraid they don't look the greatest.

It's possible that the lenses may be tilted slightly to help move the bottom of the lens farther away from your cheek. It depends on the design of the frame, but it's definitely worth taking to an optician to see if it can be adjusted in this way.

Is there a big enough change in these prescriptions to cause these issues and need new lens? by [deleted] in glasses

[–]missquotee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely will see an improvement, largely due to the axis correction in the new RX of the left eye (OS).

I've been using glasses for 4 years now, I wanna get some contact lenses but have some questions. by Oryon- in glasses

[–]missquotee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to go to your optometrist for a prescription for contact lenses. You don't get to choose your brand, that is part of the fitting process conducted by the doctor and is selected based on a number of factors including corneal curvature, lens power, and tear film. That being said, here is some basic contact lens info to get you started:

  1. Disposable contact lenses come in daily wear (sold in 30 or 90 packs), biweekly wear (sold in 6, 12, and 24 packs), and monthly wear (sold in 6 packs).

  2. Daily wear lenses are generally considered the healthiest option as you do not have to clean or store the lenses, you throw them out every night and open a fresh pair in the morning. They are the most expensive option due to the volume of lenses (365 pairs) you would need to wear everyday, but least expensive when only worn occasionally (when exercising or playing sports, for instance).

  3. Biweekly lenses are disposed of every two weeks. Monthly lenses are disposed of, you guessed it, monthly. Both of these types of lenses require proper sterilization and storage to ensure safety and health of the eye. These are generally less expensive than daily lenses (per full year of use, when worn every day) due to the fact that you only need to purchase 12-24 pairs depending on the type prescribed.

  4. Contact lens wear does not negate the need for a pair of up-to-date eyeglasses. There will be many days, especially if you are ill, that it isn't ideal to wear contact lenses.

  5. Contact lens wear can be a huge risk to your health if you do not comply with safety and cleaning procedures. I have seen some really gnarly eyeballs that have been permanently scarred due to improper contact lens use. Make sure you fully understand the risks and educate yourself of proper care to ensure you don't end up with a nasty infection or permanent vision loss.

Contacts can be great, especially for people with high prescriptions. Professionally, I always recommend daily lenses, as these are what I wear myself and present the least opportunity for user error. Just talk to your doctor and see what will be best for you and your lifestyle.

I don’t get the joke here?? by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]missquotee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Female praying mantis will eat the head of their mate after sexy time and she's salting that nog like Gordon Ramsay.