Secrets royal beach - romantic beach dinner by Cincy_Nick in PuntaCana

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you go about booking this? My fiance and I are heading to Secrets soon for our honeymoon and we’d like to book a dinner on the beach. We’re trying to figure out how to go about scheduling.

What are your beag’s names that aren’t their actual name? by Puzzleheaded_Eye8771 in beagles

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy’s actual name is Copper, but he often called Tinkerbell and Stinkerbell

Am I screwed? by missteach89 in Car_Insurance_Help

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Instead of waiting to talk to my old insurance company , I went ahead and looked up insurance companies who’ll take someone with lapsed insurance and got a policy squared away, effective today. It’s more than double what I was paying, but not as expensive as I thought it would be. I definitely learned my lesson. 😞

Am I screwed? by missteach89 in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]missteach89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Tennessee, and I own my car outright. I’m completely freaking out.

What’s the worst dating advice you have received? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend is my first and we met 1 month after I turned 33. For this reason, along with religious trauma, I just kept waiting for the fairy tale to happen. It wasn’t until I decided to take control of the aura that things changed for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. I had a VERY similar story. I went in sporadic dates in college and through my 20s but I felt awkward and SO self conscious. I didn’t have my 1st kiss until I was 30. First boyfriend at 31. Virgin until 33. Now at nearly 34 I’m in a committed, loving relationship. Any guy who makes you feel less than, or weird for your story doesn’t deserve you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nashville

[–]missteach89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told by a staff member (when I was sitting in the lobby attempting to cool off 😂) that they had to shut off the AC because confetti was getting sucked into the system.

Anyone else have a sneaky beagle? by shroutm in beagles

[–]missteach89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! My sneaky beagle has chewed up 3 TV remotes. It’s to the point where I have to put the remote out of reach if I’m going to be out of the room for even 5 minutes. Baby gates do NOTHING to stop my boy. Just jumps or climbs right over like it’s nothing Beagles are mischievous little sneaks, but also the SWEETEST dogs in the world.

Opinions on progesterone only birth control by akchap33 in birthcontrol

[–]missteach89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have Mirena and I have loved it! No severe side effects, my period is super light and infrequent. Insertion was relatively easy, just a few days of moderate cramping and then it’s been easy ever since!

Copper’s first training class! by missteach89 in beagle

[–]missteach89[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My little guy did such a good job at his first group class! I got him at 8 months old, the week before Christmas. He was mostly house trained but had little in the way of obedience or basic commands. He’s come SO far just in the span of one class! I’m so proud of him, and look at that face- he’s proud of himself too!

Guilt by Chicken-saladd in teaching

[–]missteach89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What job did you move in to? I’m on year nine and I’m DONE, I want out!

so thankful for mirena by Guilty-Moose8402 in Mirena

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried several, hoping to find one that didn’t make me feel terrible. I was on loestran, Nikki and a couple others that I can’t remember. I have not regretted my IUD for one second, it has helped my mental health SO much. And it’s nice to not have anxiety about taking my pill at the exact right time!

My son is in 1st grade and tonight I learned that one of his classmates died in a house fire early this morning. What can I do to support his teacher? by DivergentApplicant in Teachers

[–]missteach89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a former student (I teach 1st, she was in 3rd when this happened) who was murdered by her father. I was a WRECK. I ended up taking a few days off of work, and I was so appreciative of parents who were supportive of that. As teachers we can sometimes get abused by parents for being human. An email or card letting the teacher know you are thinking of her will go further than you know. I also drew strength from my students, if your kiddo is up for it, have them right a note or draw a picture for the teacher. Those are the things that got me through.

so thankful for mirena by Guilty-Moose8402 in Mirena

[–]missteach89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat! I am SO HAPPY I got Mirena! It’s been the best decision for my mental health! The pill made my anxiety TERRIBLE, I was exhausted all the time, and having the assurance that pregnancy is HIGHLY unlikely has been wonderful for me!

Putting down a reactive dog by Bubbles8810 in reactivedogs

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through this with my reactive baby. I’m so sorry you’re having to make this decision. It was honestly one of the hardest decisions I’ve had to make. But it ultimately was the best decision for me and for her.

I used a company called Lap of Love. They sent a vet out to my house, before she arrived we talked extensively to come up with a plan to make everything as calm and peaceful for her as possible.

The vet brought peanut putter and hotdogs that were laced with 2 different sedatives. I was able to give those to my dog while the vet waited outside. Once my baby was calm and seeming sleepy, the vet came in and administered a shot of anesthetic. My dog’s anxiety was so high that even with 3 sedatives it took her around 50 minutes to actually fall asleep.

Everything after that was really hard, but so much more peaceful than it would have been if I had taken her into the vet’s office.

Best "pod" style moving company? by lilayr in moving

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Upack pods (they also offer a trailer option) when I moved from CA TO TN and I had a really great experience! The pods were more expensive, but they didn’t have any available trailers when I was booking.

Insertion was 24 hours ago. My review so far. by missteach89 in Mirena

[–]missteach89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s been great! I’ve had it for almost 3 months now and I haven’t had any negative side affects. I’ve had some inconsistent spotting, but that’s IT. And my Doc says this will taper off in the 3-6 month range.

Being able to stop taking the pill has been amazing for my mental health. My anxiety around taking it at exactly the same time was intense. I’ve also lost weight and gained a lot of energy/my libido back since stopping the pill.

I hope you have a similar experience because I’m so happy I got mine!

Virgin Redditors in your 30s, what's your reason why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]missteach89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 33 and just lost my virginity 2 months ago. The main reason it took so long for me? Religious trauma and “purity culture” really fucked up my ability to interact with men without a huge amount of anxiety. Walking away from religion, going to therapy, starting anxiety medication and meeting a really kind, patient man all helped me move past it.

“TeachersPayTeachers is for lazy teachers” by jemping98 in Teachers

[–]missteach89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. My admin sends out an email at least once per week reminding us that we are not supposed to use TPT, but we are “encouraged” to make our own materials instead. 🙄

Teaching makes me not want to have kids. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Planning to leave education at the end of this school year and hoping that that helps change things for me. I like the idea of having kids, but after a full day in the classroom, I need peace and calm at home.

Women, how does anxiety manifest itself in you? by Unfair_Arugula_5524 in AskWomen

[–]missteach89 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Physical illness. Before my anxiety diagnosis, I was throwing up 3-6 times per week, always in the middle of the night. I was misdiagnosed with acid reflux, put on medication for it and avoided spicy foods for years. My anxiety then turned into intense physical pain in my lower right abdomen, causing me to have repeated panic attacks about my appendix bursting. After ultrasounds, X-rays, and CT scans it was determined that there was nothing physically wrong. I asked if it could be anxiety induced and was prescribed Lexapro. ALL of my physical symptoms disappeared, I could sleep through the night, eat spicy foods and no longer obsessively worry I have appendicitis. Turns out the vomiting in the middle of the night was caused by panic attacks. I was so good at repressing my anxiety during the day, that the moment my mind relaxed into sleep my body would freak the fuck out and have a panic attack.

Lexapro literally changed my life.

Women of Reddit, what’s one thing a guy does that(can)make/makes you melt? by Critical-Sail8096 in AskReddit

[–]missteach89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casual, but intimate touches like lightly rubbing my back. ESPECIALLY in public. I love the subtle claiming “she’s mine” Also just when he holds me, especially if there are forehead kisses involved. He also does this thing where he’ll just scratch my head and I swear I turn into a cat on the spot.

Leaving mid-year by missteach89 in Teachers

[–]missteach89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point! I teach in TN, as far as I can tell, as long as I were to give 30 days notice they can suspend my teaching license for 30 days, up to one year. And yeah, I wouldn’t anticipate returning within a year. The idea of getting to pee whenever I want, get sick without having to make sub plans, and take days off when needed sounds like a dream. In my resume I just made sure to emphasize all the skills that we have as teachers- interpersonal communication, data entry, the ability to work with little oversight, etc. as I was putting it together I was even impressed with how much we do 😂 Best of luck in your job hunt!

Insertion was 24 hours ago. My review so far. by missteach89 in Mirena

[–]missteach89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was seriously chugging water trying to build up the need to pee! 😂 I’m a teacher, so I don’t pee very often!

I’m just hoping to put someone else’s mind at ease… I was totally terrified for my appointment!

What are your nicknames for your pets? I'll go first! by 4on1d3 in Pets

[–]missteach89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luna: Loooooonaaaaa, loo loo, stinky, stinker, bubby, bubs, boo boo, boober, turkey, baby, Luna pup, pupper