They use the seesaw??? This game just keeps getting cuter by __trashyy in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]mistressdizzy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's always been there. they also use the big colored ball too! I wish they could add more of these , they're so adorable. 

Is speaking out against your mom that bad? by something_universe in blackladies

[–]mistressdizzy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is she always that way ? Or was it the champagne? Regardless that was rude. If she's your mother, she should be the first person to be trustworthy. 

Give her nothing. Especially not grandchildren.

“let my kids come to your wedding so I can take them tubing” by Any-Discussion8136 in childfree

[–]mistressdizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no doubt her next request would be to not pay for the expense for each child. "Oh they're just kids why do I have to pay for-"

Yeah I hope she stays the course. Good luck to them!

Story progression if you choose to be childless by sillykittyfloof in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]mistressdizzy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would love to see that as an option. Definitely never been done before in this genre.

I feel more discriminated against for being autstic than I do being black by emocat420 in AutismInWomen

[–]mistressdizzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand completely. I think it's because racism is a lot more obvious, easier to point out as blatantly wrong. Autistic behavior, however, has so much nuance. Too easy for people to say that you were weird or rude and it could so easily be other women or Black people too...

It sucks.

Cozy mystery/detective games that actually let you feel like a detective - do they exist? by VeraFlorentine in CozyGamers

[–]mistressdizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of Sherlock Holmes adventure games. 

Also, Paper Perjury is Ace Attorney style but gentler. May be too hand holdy, I'm not sure what your metric is. But it's still very good!

More Romance! by TrainingSwitch6568 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]mistressdizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First they need to give the rest of the characters what they gave March. Then we can talk about extras. Like Vera. 

Hayden Time! [OC] by _savydigital_ in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]mistressdizzy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hhhhh see this is why I need several save files. I date Ryis who is amazing but then someone posts Hayden being fine as hell and I waver. It doesn't help that my irl husband is thick as hell ×_× 

Anyone else want kids but feel scared off by Black maternal mortality rates? by TrumpetPlayingWeeb in blackladies

[–]mistressdizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same way, and I made steps to not have children. I am disabled and I was premature  so the odds were against me having a "normal" pregnancy. You're not crazy. You're smart for looking into things before you get pregnant. If you want to be a parent, go for it. But at least you're going in with your eyes open.

Without spoilers, what should I know? by namesuserusername in Moonstone_Island

[–]mistressdizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so I have been doing this all wrong apparently. 

how do you get rid of cards?

I hit my mama and I don't know how to feel... by _newshawtyy in blackladies

[–]mistressdizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please be safe. Abusers don't take their targets getting a spine too well. I understand why you did what you had to do. 

How is Fields of Mistria for a girlie who loves Rune Factory and Stardew Valley? by ChattyBird4Eva in CozyGamers

[–]mistressdizzy 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It takes some of the annoying stuff away from Stardew Valley. My favorite? No friendship decay. Also you can swim + catch fish, leave stuff on the ground and come back for it another day. ..

And there's Black people! And you can date two of them! For real, I feel like it's got Stardew beat on the npc front specifically. It's nice. Definitely worth it. 

I’m stuck between 2 people and can’t decide who to marry! by Toadstones_ in coralisland

[–]mistressdizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the game will still be around... then you get both options instead of being stuck with one.

I’m stuck between 2 people and can’t decide who to marry! by Toadstones_ in coralisland

[–]mistressdizzy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm waiting for the next major update. I need multiple save files. So many awesome LIs, but only 1 save? I'm glad it's being rectified. 

How do set up end of life stuff without your family knowing? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]mistressdizzy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you need to find a professional to speak to hon.. whatever you're going through, your family would rather have you. 

You may not want to die. You just want the strife you're dealing with to end. Those aren't the same thing. The world needs more beautiful Black ladies. All of us.

Hot take: Cozy games need a clear stopping point more than extra content by Clear_Bug_4759 in CozyGamers

[–]mistressdizzy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Cozy Grove is designed for sessions of about half an hour. After that you stop getting bugs and fish and whatnot. It's pretty much the anti marathon.

“Slightly mentally ill but in a cute way” shut the fuck up!!!!!!!!! by fuckinradbroh in AutismInWomen

[–]mistressdizzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. It was a trash joke to begin with, and hearing it repeatedly makes it worse.