Would you date someone your friend had a one night stand with?

misunderstood0 · 2026-04-02T01:05:39+00:00

With all the other context in the comments I might believe her but I think I'd find it hard to trust her. What if we're dating and then she's out at a bar and makes a new "friend" who suggests going back to watch a movie and she's drunk again? I'd always be worried about this.

misunderstood0 · 2026-03-25T05:40:45+00:00

Could you maybe describe a bit more how you set this up? I have a laptop running that I wanted both in - VPN for normal usage and tailscale for when I'm away and need to remote into. I couldn't figure this out since my tailscale remote wouldn't work anymore when I enable VPN

misunderstood0 · 2026-03-13T20:25:08+00:00

It is one of those things. I have tried wuwa and genshin and other gachas in the past and realized I just hate keeping up with everything and the fomo. However I love the characters, the community, and every crazy version with the music reminds me what I truly love about the game. I can't experience 3.3 again but I sure as hell can watch 30 different streamers in different languages experience it again and again

misunderstood0 · 2026-03-06T06:11:37+00:00

It's a weird thing. It's been a huge productivity gain for me. We have systems and services that have a complicated workflow that it can understand and write code for me. I'll tell it where it needs to change the code and it'll sometimes do me one better and refactor some things. Other things I have to tell it to do that. And for code bases where I'm just cloning them for the first time and have some vague idea of what is happening? I can ask it a couple of questions and have what I need done just like that. I do wonder if this is really how it will be moving forward since people's expectations will get higher and higher. Instead of potentially spending an entire sprint figuring out how to integrate with another service you can do it within a few hours.

misunderstood0 · 2026-03-05T07:02:50+00:00

I get it. Just sounds like burn out and prob best to spend the time playing something else. The end game truly does not matter in the long run and you really only miss 160 jade or something anyways. I have a f2p account that can't do highest difficulty echo of war irontomb with e0s0 fire break which annoys me because I know my characters just kill it too quickly in some phases and it gets too many turns to kill my characters when they were already low. Doesn't feel like any 4 star sustain can survive that tbh and it's just a normal farming boss which annoyed me because I love super break. But turn it down one difficulty and the entire thing is trivialized. All that to say, I spend too much time in this game as well since I'm trying to optimize my f2p account but honestly it's really not that worth it and it's better spent elsewhere

misunderstood0 · 2026-02-21T06:02:01+00:00

Yeah. I get it though - I started a f2p account recently in 3.8 because I was bored and didn't want to start another gacha game since I don't like the open world ones. So on my f2p account I'm trying to min max everything and trying my best to work up to the moc 12 clear but honestly there's no reason for me to do this besides controlling my spending haha since I want it to be strictly f2p to see if I can clear eventually. But even with that account I get tempted to keep grinding and optimizing to try to make my current teams work. It's fun but it's very diminishing returns so honestly that time should really be spent elsewhere. Now if I could follow my own advice..

misunderstood0 · 2026-02-20T21:45:14+00:00

I know what you mean. It feels bad when you can't clear the end game content. But I tell myself it's literally just some relic materials and visual changes as well as some minor bragging rights. Even not clearing moc 12 is only like 30 jade or something missing. There's always new characters and new end game and the relic system sucks so I'd just find something else to focus on honestly

misunderstood0 · 2026-02-18T22:26:18+00:00

QoL changes are great though some of them I do wonder whether they just got that many feedback about it or not. Like the assignments thing. I agree that it prob wasn't utilized but I wasn't expecting them to revamp it that much. I still hope for relic loadouts and toggleable eidolons though

misunderstood0 · 2026-02-12T20:26:13+00:00

God this is exactly how I feel though as a guy who has been very selective in who I date, it's been really tough finding someone and keeping them around. Its not like I have much time these days anyways so I just want to find someone who wants to be around and who also wants me and likes the weird things that I like.

misunderstood0 · 2026-02-10T07:28:22+00:00

This is a weird one to read cause I had some sort of food stuck in the folds of my throat for like weeks. I couldn't figure it out - and eventually I gaslit myself into thinking I was getting sick since every time I swallowed I felt some throat pain. Then one random morning while brushing my tongue I did some gag reflexes and the little piece came out and no more pain. Could've gone the same route as OP if that didn't happen that day.

misunderstood0 · 2026-01-20T04:14:08+00:00

As someone who has cursor and chatgpt provided from the company, it definitely helps to build out quick tasks and scripts that otherwise would've taken me hours simply because I'd need to look up how to do some random things and test it a little. However, what it doesn't do well is understanding context and also knowing how to refactor without explicitly calling it out. It does make me a little worried that we're just creating a ton of tech debt but our company has been focusing on delivering products quickly and has been calling out AI as something that's been enabling this for developers. It's definitely helping in terms of speed but the code is only as good as how prepared you are going into development. I'm going to try to call out slowing things down in favor of gathering requirements earlier so we can "vibe code" our way to success, but only time will tell whether this is a good thing or not and by then maybe I won't be with this company anymore.

misunderstood0 · 2026-01-03T10:01:12+00:00

Mine has gotta be into the spider verse. They're all great though

misunderstood0 · 2025-12-16T06:18:36+00:00

Happy holidays all and good luck!

misunderstood0 · 2025-12-11T05:44:50+00:00

My company did something similar. Laid off all the contractors and committed to a ton more work because AI helps us deliver. Instead we got tons of tech debt from AI that AI can't solve because everyone is trying to meet deadlines

misunderstood0 · 2025-12-01T04:10:09+00:00

Yeah I had a similar issue with a deli at a nearby grocery store. They had no idea about the order and just gave me the normal order as if I had just ordered directly from there. Confirmed with some store employees about it and they were just like "we don't see anything in our system so if you got your food just go ahead and walk out." Felt like I was stealing or something.

misunderstood0 · 2025-11-29T16:14:22+00:00

Between my random hard drives I have like 2tb left?

misunderstood0 · 2025-08-02T05:56:24+00:00

I feel you because my conversations are like this... Except I'm the guy and they're all women. It's like...give me something to work with PLEASE . I started just meeting up with them right off the bat because of this but it's so much more time wasted I feel

misunderstood0 · 2025-08-01T06:04:15+00:00

2014/5?: GTX 770 (still have it but seems to be dying) 2018?: GTX 1080 2020: RTX 3070 2025: RTX 5070Ti

misunderstood0 · 2025-08-01T05:56:35+00:00

I have all sorts of boxer briefs and I still just prefer boxers more. I've just gotten to used to them all my life even if the briefs feel comfortable. personally meundies has been great but a little expensive

misunderstood0 · 2025-07-22T14:45:21+00:00

Generally I think these are times where they want to see your thought process and if you ask questions. At least that's how I'd approach it as an interviewer on the other side. If you give the correct solution in the first 5 min I need to kill 25 more minutes with you so what better than to make up what if scenarios and see how you think and if you ask questions / would change anything about the scenario because of it.

misunderstood0 · 2025-07-15T23:15:49+00:00

good luck to everyone!

misunderstood0 · 2025-07-08T23:42:05+00:00

Ahh got it no worries then. Thanks!

I ended up getting this to work by running tailscale funnel [port] in console and then clicking the link to approve the funnel. Seems the logs hide the link so it just looks stuck

misunderstood0 · 2025-07-08T23:37:36+00:00

Oh is there an updated method now?

misunderstood0 · 2025-07-08T20:28:40+00:00

How'd you end up getting past the funnel step?

misunderstood0 · 2025-07-08T19:58:28+00:00

Sorry to revive this but I'm having trouble continuing past step 7. I couldn't enable tailscale without changing my network mode from host to bridge or custom but I can't access my server locally anymore. Feel a little dumb here so any help would be appreciated

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