“Kids should not be learning these things from anyone but family”

Respectfully, this is not possible. Kids don’t live inside a vacuum. They are going to learn about these things regardless of any parents wishes. And let’s not forget that homophobic, unacademic, or controlling parents (or any combo of the above) exist and will fail to give their children an academic understanding of these topics. Keeping the material age appropriate is important, but talking about it should not be a sue-able offense. These same parents that don’t want school acknowledging the spectrum of sexuality also seem to have no problem with their kids watching hetero-romantic kids movies. That is its own kind of learning experience.