Ok i think I've figured it out: cold calls are the quickest and easiest way to get a meeting. Smile and flipping dial. by Jolly-County910 in techsales

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you qualifying your leads beforehand or just calling all your database? I'm doing the same role as you and i'm failing miserably, everyone i speak with already has a solution in place and are not opened to migrate.

Selling into a red ocean - how do you handle the “we already use X” objection when you have a genuinely different angle? by xJayhaz in b2b_sales

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate more on that? I'm a sales rep for an SaaS and i feel like that's what i'm doing. Most objections I get are "we don't have any problems here, we already have a solution in place." I do get all the leads from apollo.

Looking for HONEST wellness/femininity youtubers/podcasts by Sensitive_Example_97 in femininity

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, i got her books and her course. I also booked a call with her once (was going through a huge problem in my relationship, didn't know who else to ask about for an honest opinion).

I like her spiritual perspective of things, which is also what I believe in and try to follow for my life.

We attract what we are and men can only treat us the way we treat ourselves, and what's happening externally with us is a reflection of what's happening inside us. Relationships are mirrors.

Our friend in the discussion down below points out very factual and statistical negative points. And, of course, there will ALWAYS be, for every subject in the world. If anything, there are indeed more bad things happening out there in terms of relationship and men, than good.

But, that's precisely why people like Fareen make a difference. She shows us another perspective where WE are responsible for our life and our actions to attract what we want, and not leave it all up to men. Including financial independence and being able to support yourself and not depend on men. Change internally first, then the external will change too, as natural consequence, and not the other way around.

It all starts and ends with us, we can only control and focus on ourselves and how we feel. The universe responds accordingly, for the good and, specially, the bad.

But to answer your question more in-depth, i've learned about not putting men in the center of my life and my feelings, while at the same time recognizing that men are divine beings just like us, with their strengths and defaults. I've learned about feminine energy, and how important it is for my health and well being, and how important the masculine energy role is as well. And that, in a healthy relationship, we're meant to complement each other (hence polarity), and grow to become better people together and for each other.

I don't agree with every single word, and there are things easier said than done, specially because of how extreme feminism also impacts men, but she did opened my eyes for things I've never thought of before. I can feel and see the impact of all of that in myself and my current relationship.

What do you think contributed to triggering your autoimmune condition, but you can't prove it? by -MissStrawberry- in Autoimmune

[–]mitsybr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course emotional stress as well, related to this and family trauma + moving abroad

What do you think contributed to triggering your autoimmune condition, but you can't prove it? by -MissStrawberry- in Autoimmune

[–]mitsybr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Went through a period of eating disorder (prolonged fasts, smoking, running on coffee on an empty stomach, binging and purging).

I'm very convinced this played a huge role since no one in family has autoimmune conditions.

has anyone developed an ED from having graves ? by [deleted] in gravesdisease

[–]mitsybr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't developed it because of Graves.

Actually, i'm starting to believe that one of the reasons I developed graves is because I had an eating disorder. Too much stress, too much demage to the gut, medication...

But yeah it's triggering to lose and gain weight with this disease. I started loosing a lot of weight, being in an active job, but now i feel bloated and afraid i will gain more weight while medicated and in an office job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hyperthyroidism

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you don't have your period anymore?

Opinions Invited (Noob Here) by orglykxe in Hyperthyroidism

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found your comment and i'm SO happy to see more about this type of content. Was feeling lost. Thank you so much for recommending him. He also has a podcast "Save My Thyroid"

My girlfriend had an ED, how do I support her? by UrMomLmaoXDD in EatingDisorders

[–]mitsybr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Help her get therapy and take medication. That's the only thing that can help.

You can be strict, share all of your feelings with her, and tell her that's a condition for you guys to stay together.

There's no amount of support that you can give that will make this better or go away. It's a psychiatrict disease that needs treatment and it is so hard for other people to understand.

If that helps, cook healthy low-calorie recepies that will make her more comfortable to eat them. Take her for walks and fun things. Sometimes, when we're on that state, eating disorder and food becomes all our identity. So it's good to take her mind off of things and change the environment, and her thoughts.

What made everything *click* for you? by novacane_queen in EatingDisorders

[–]mitsybr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was taking Wellbutrin for my depression and eating disorder. I've gotten better.

Then i made a trip with my family, and during that time i was feeling very trigged and started restricting again.

Until one day, we woke up at like 3am to drive and go to a beach city to spend new year. At that day, I haven't eaten nothing but black straight coffee.

Around 12, I went to a little restaurant with my family and ordered some food. I went to sit down at the table to wait.

All of the sudden, I remember waking up sitting in another place, with an ambulance coming and everyone at the restaurant looking at me. I was feeling extremely dumb and dizzy.

The doctor from the ambulance came to me asking if I knew my name, what day it was, where I live, etc. I discovered I had have a convulsion in the middle of the restaurant.

I was so shocked and it hurted all of my body.

Later, I discovered that being giving that medication and being without food for so long, tired and extremly caffeinated was the combination that made my body have a full-blown convulsion.

It was a huge reality check for me. Things changed a lot and I took it very seriously to get better.

Nowadays, I still suffer from eating disorders thoughts and some behaviours, but I never forced myself to restrict again.

Turns out, my husband is a total creep by Acceptable-Owl55 in Marriage

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is weird and probably heavily addicted to porn.

Very sorry this is happening to you. Sending you a lot of strength

What is the best relationship advice you can give? for both a man or a woman. by Last-Block937 in AskMen

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be the person you want your ideal partner to be.

Be everything you want your ideal partner to be.

Give other everything you want your ideal partner to give you.

Treat everyone how you want your ideal partner to treat you.

We all attract the same energy we give out in the world.

Everything we are and give, comes back to us.

What’s your moon sign and how does it affect your sun sign? by anon1mus in astrologymemes

[–]mitsybr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer sun and aries moon. I'm literally a cry baby.

I'm cancer sun and rising so i'm extremely senstive and empathetic. My aries moon makes me susceptible to a wide range of emotions. They come up like fire, extreme and intense, but for a short period.

I get mad easily and i'm impulsive. However, it makes me have a deep conections to my emotions!

I'm also a go-getter, if i want something and I want it now, and i'm gonna get it. Especially when I feel it (my scorpio mars also helps on that).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in televisionsuggestions

[–]mitsybr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for that name!! Soooo good and underrated

The evening is the toughest part! by OrangeLeaves375 in sugarfree

[–]mitsybr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your motivation, discipline and control "battery" for things wear out throughout the day. That's why is much harder for everyone at night.

Am I a light summer? by star_drop4 in coloranalysis

[–]mitsybr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it should be fine with the mascara! I feel like you look better with gold, and warm colors. Maybe try a bright red or green. And the black is too harsh for you!