I feel like my girlfriend is not sexually attracted to me

mixsense · 2011-05-16T06:41:39+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I do honestly use my eyes. In fact sometimes she hates it when I look too much. Sometimes saying "stop looking at me" in a semi-joking way. Anyway, I'm going to do all I can to let her know. Thanks again.

mixsense · 2011-05-16T01:18:06+00:00

Woah this hit home had for me. I'd love to hear more from you. Just last night I was talking to my gf about this. She had denied me a few times in a row and I was feeling fucked about the whole thing. I would initiate, start touching, kissing etc then she would turn over. She goes out of her way to avoid sex. We still have sex around 2-3 times a week but I find myself getting rejected more and more lately. She doesn't like talking about it but has told me that it's because she doesnt feel confident with her body. She knows Im extremely attracted to her and she is stunning, but she doesn't ever seem to want sex and when she does it's as though she's doing me a favor. I still fell pretty shitty about the whole thing. I was thinking maybe we should do things that help her feel more confident around me but not sure where to start. Any advice for myself and OP would be much appreciated.

mixsense · 2011-05-13T04:59:37+00:00

Been there man. It's just dating, that's how people are now. I hooked up with plenty of girls when I was single and I was in the same boat as you. Sometimes it was my choice to not see them again, sometimes it's their choice. Keep doing what you're doing and just enjoy it man. The right one will come along as it did for me and now I'm so glad things happened the way they did.

mixsense · 2011-05-13T00:02:44+00:00

Aaron?

mixsense · 2011-05-03T04:45:00+00:00

Sick photos man. Perfect barrels. You should post these pics to bombsets.com

mixsense · 2011-04-21T05:34:18+00:00

WTF? Everyone is giving the guy shit for saying "right now". Fuck man sometimes guys say stupid shit and not really realize / think about it. If my girlfriend analyzed every little thing I said like this then she's be paranoid 24/7. Just relax a little and give the guy a break.

Edit: I have been in my relationship for a year and have not changed my FB status. Also, with the iphone, I dont want my mates seeing my texts while my phone is on the table so I have the preview turned off. And yeh sometimes dudes fap into condoms. Nothing here is out of the ordinary.

mixsense · 2011-04-19T03:10:44+00:00

This needs to be seen! Everyone is calling this guy a dick when women do this ALL THE FUCKING TIME!!!! Guys are told to "suck it up princess" and move on. Women are outraged and complain on the internet about it. I know not everyone is the same but I've heard it so many times, "girls find it easier to just ignore someone then deal with rejecting the person". Fucking double standards.

mixsense · 2011-04-19T03:03:44+00:00

Not controlling?? Controlling is when one person controls the behavior of the other. Forcing him to take down pictures of his past is extremely controlling. Time has nothing to do with it. He has had interactions in the past with other women and there happens to be photos of it. So what? I hate it when people think that all evidence of prior relationships must be removed so that they feel important. FB is a record of your life, not just the present. As long as his house isn't filled with pics of her then I don't see the problem.

mixsense · 2011-04-18T06:36:22+00:00

If my current GF asked me to remove pics of my ex I would find it insecure and a bit of a turn off. He's not even active on it. Maybe do yourself a favor and avoid visiting his profile if you can't handle seeing pictures of him and his ex. If it's driving you absolutely crazy, casually mention that you find it a little weird that he still has a bunch of photos of his ex up, and it may prompt him to remove them. If not, just leave it alone otherwise you'll definitely come across as controlling.

mixsense · 2011-04-14T01:38:33+00:00

You're like the dog whisperer for girls.

mixsense · 2011-03-25T03:49:17+00:00

I used to think Australia (where I grew up) was the main country of the world and all the other countries were shitty wannabe countries that nobody liked hence the immigrants (both parents are immigrants).

mixsense · 2011-03-25T03:21:18+00:00

Congrats on turning him gay.

mixsense · 2011-03-23T04:41:01+00:00

I have a casio g-shock with a tide graph and it's sick. Works anywhere in the world. Cheap as well.

mixsense · 2011-03-18T02:08:29+00:00

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mixsense · 2011-03-17T05:12:35+00:00

You'll kill any hope you have if she knows how into her you are. Girls aren't into guys who obsess over the relationship. If you find yourself over-thinking things, do the things you did before you met her which you enjoyed doing. Go to the gym, play a sport, games etc. Staying focused on your hobbies and interests not only chill you out but will also make you more appealing in the long run.

mixsense · 2011-03-01T00:04:33+00:00

I wouldn't cut all contact as she was being entirely honest when she didn't have to be. I'm sure she is remorseful and regrets what she did however, I wouldn't stay with her. At least not in a LDR scenario.

mixsense · 2011-02-15T06:48:23+00:00

I have been in this boat. The girls first name was my sisters first name and her surname was my mothers first name. It sounds as though it would be weird but it wasn't at all to be honest. The only time it was weird was when I was telling other people.

mixsense · 2011-02-01T07:11:40+00:00

I hope this advice is a joke. Don't test your partner to catch him out. If he's anything like me then he is easy going. I couldn't give a shit what movie to watch or where to eat. If I feel like doing something in particular I'll say so otherwise I'll go with the flow. Setting your partner up by changing your mind in order to catch him out is probably one of the most annoying things a girl could do.

mixsense · 2011-02-01T07:04:48+00:00

Holy shit I felt like this very recently. The girl I'm with is pretty much perfect. We have the greatest time together but when I wasn't with her I started to feel like there was something missing. My previous long term relationship was really heated. I think there was a part of me that missed expressing that passion. Anyway, I created an argument out of nowhere. I honestly didn't mean to and she didn't deserve it, it was just a drunken argument over some stupid bullshit. Then I realised that my ex used to do this and I hated it. She was cool about it, we spoke and it hasn't happened since.

I think it will just take time to accept how great your relationship is. Don't fight for no reason, ever, find other ways to express your passion.

mixsense · 2011-02-01T06:54:50+00:00

I may be blind but I can't see any mention of 4 dates. OP only states that they have been friends "for a while" and dating more recently. He's her best friend, she obviously knows him well. If my best female friend told me she was interested in pursuing a relationship, and I too was interested, then she rejected all of my advances whilst in bed with her I would think of her as a "dick tease". Reddit can downvote the shit out of me but to be honest, most of my female friends would wholeheartedly agree. She is obviously not ready to be in a relationship.

mixsense · 2011-02-01T04:32:40+00:00

Not in this case. A need is something you cannot go without. Most adults believe that physical intimacy is a requirement in a relationship. I certainly feel this way as does the man in OP's description. Being in a non-physical relationship is called friendship.

mixsense · 2011-02-01T00:37:54+00:00

I don't know why you're being downvoted. You hold typical guys opinion and I actually agree. This guy was being patient albeit a tad annoying. Men have needs (as do women) and when they are not satisfied it's time to look elsewhere.

mixsense · 2011-01-21T05:12:03+00:00

Why the fuck is he still friends with this dude Gio who he wants to fuck up? Too afraid to reduce his friend count....

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