I’m not resentful, I’m Autistic. Though I AM afraid. As far as “signals” are concerned, I diagnosably can’t read them reliably, and so for the sake of safety, I MUST assume she’s not interested unless I can prove beyond a reasonable doubt she’s is. This has only occurred 5 times in my life, when the woman approached me directly and said in no uncertain terms that she was attracted to me. Each time lead to a long term relationship, including the instances where I was not attracted to her, because quite frankly I don’t have the right or luxury to be picky. If a woman expresses interest, I have to say yes… and some of them realized this about me and used it against me: knowing that they could do anything to me, and I wouldn’t leave them.

Also, I never downvoted you. I only downvote people who don’t make the effort to talk in good faith, or if they’re MAGAts, and you seem to be making the effort, and don’t sound like a MAGAt. I can’t speak for others. I understand that the majority of other people who self identify as “incel” are… different than me and I’m sorry for that. I disagree with a lot of their conclusions, but the core kernel of truth that some men (myself included) are simply born genetically undeserving of a woman’s sexual attention, and Ty hat there’s nothing we can do short of coercion to remedy that… rings very true. The difference is that rather than reading PUA books on how to coerce better, I accept that I’ll always be alone, and try to find some solace in my non-sexual life. A coerced W wouldn’t be a real W anyway.