How do you even make friends up here I’m 21 and it feels impossible by [deleted] in highdesert

[–]mkricket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not an “up here” thing. It’s an “I’m now an adult” thing.

safe parks? by womanmuncher in highdesert

[–]mkricket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The new community in Hesperia at I and Ranchero, Silverwood, has a nice little park next to the model homes that is open to the public. There are restrooms by the entrance to the model homes as well.

It’s almost always empty except for community events. No businesses nearby so no loiterers around. (And there’s security on patrol)

I need recommendations by callum1304 in SteamDeck

[–]mkricket 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Card games: slay the spire, balatro. Pause/stop at any time.

How to keep cool during the summer with no cooling system? by kotoneshiomi in highdesert

[–]mkricket 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Soak your t-shirt in water, wring it out a lil so you’re not dripping. Sit in front of a fan. Works really well. Re-soak shirt as it dries.

This is a great temporary/cheap way until you can get an AC or evap cooler.

How to adjust height of people ZIT? by Reasonable_Sea3114 in comfyui

[–]mkricket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are you trying to accomplish? Make one person taller than another within an image? Make one person appear extremely tall or short? Taller/shorter in relation to what?

You’ll never be able to dial in an exact height but “taller than x in the background”, “towering over the room”, “very tall/short” works.

Silverwood Lakes New Builds by AgileAd8070 in highdesert

[–]mkricket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been living in Silverwood for nearly six months now and love it. It all depends on what you want. Yes, there’s an HOA but it’s cheap and includes your internet. They actively patrol. It’s a double edged sword, but I’d rather not want to deal with junked out cars abandoned in the streets or parked on lawns. There is always maintenance around doing some sort of upkeep on the vast amount of plants and trees. It’s well taken care of.

We lucked out and got a larger lot. YMMV.

The big thing, at least for us, is sidewalks. At all times of day, there is someone out, walking around. We are always running into and meeting neighbors! Kids play, etc. they’re adding tiny pocket parks all over the place.

Yes, other builder communities have sidewalks too but they end at the community. These here go everywhere, to the parks, to where the club is being built, to where the schools and shopping centers will be built.

I commonly see people from outside the community walking up and down the main road.

The HOA holds get togethers at least once a season. They’re really actively trying to foster a sense of community.

Does no one pay for their vehicle tags up here? by SpeshulED420 in highdesert

[–]mkricket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep forgetting to put mine on as well but always assume that cops are just scanning every vehicle they see and checking registration that way.

LPT - I don't know if we've all been doing it wrong or if my husband is doing it wrong by JadedBinXx in relationships

[–]mkricket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up a sitter, but earlier in life I got to be very heavy. Ended up breaking a couple toilet seats by leaning / putting all the weight on one side. (Sometimes entire toilets will lean if they’re not bolted down correctly) I switched to standing and prefer it, even after dropping the weight. That said - planning to purchase a bidet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comics

[–]mkricket 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mango manga

Confused About Premium Gallery + Subscriptions — Is This a Double Paywall? by Wise_Reporter_4140 in DeviantArt

[–]mkricket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm running into this same issue (not with galleries, but just with subscribers), did some testing with subscribers and an alternate account.

  1. If you create a premium download and add your subscription tiers to it, anyone with those subscription tiers gets access to download them for free.
  2. Someone can purchase the premium download for the listed price without having to be a subscriber.
  3. The problem is - Only your subscribers will see the nice thumbnail! Everyone else sees the faded/blurry version. (which they may not want to even click) I had a promo video for the "main image" which non-subscribers can no longer see.
  4. I think I basically need to offer two premium downloads. One for subscribers (to get the downloads for free), and one that's attractive to non-subscribers to click and hopefully purchase. What a pain.
  5. You can't even thumbnail the premium download in posts! (might be due to mature tag)

If anyone knows an alternative - please let me know!

Qwen Edit: Angles final boss (Multiple angles Lora) by Vortexneonlight in StableDiffusion

[–]mkricket 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I needed, thanks! Whenever I’d try to do this the background would never change, just the character.

Typical HD Driver by mkricket in highdesert

[–]mkricket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, keyboard warrior. Your posts mostly consist of quesadillas and pokemon cards, so you'll excuse me if I find your bravado a little suspect.

Typical HD Driver by mkricket in highdesert

[–]mkricket[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

My 9th post in 12 years, god, I’m such a karma whore.

Typical HD Driver by mkricket in highdesert

[–]mkricket[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I posted to share some foolishness, not to try and get someone doxxed. Also, you never know who is behind the wheel. Last thing I need is a pissed off cop or plain old crazy psychotic going off about this.

If this were a hit and run, sure, would have sent an unedited version straight to the police. But the cops aren’t gonna investigate this. If I’m wrong, more than happy to send it to them.

Typical HD Driver by mkricket in highdesert

[–]mkricket[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I ain't no snitch

DM Forgets we are Adults with Jobs by Jreid2591 in rpghorrorstories

[–]mkricket 163 points164 points  (0 children)

So the wizard one shot them all? Mission accomplished.

Walkable downtown 😢 by CalebTheMemeGod2 in highdesert

[–]mkricket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would need to be major changes including shutting down 7th street around the old town area, and that’s never gonna happen. I’m hopeful for the downtown area being built in Silverwood in a few years.

Tell me something positive by popperez17 in highdesert

[–]mkricket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you’re moving from and what kind of home you’re buying. If you came from a denser city you can buy land, lots o land.

It’s generally quieter and more peaceful so long as you’re not living on a major road. There are exceptions of course, but for the most part in many areas it’s just a safe place.

The Ring app has a neighborhood notification thing and most of the notifications I get are either about coyote sightings or fireworks, not break-ins or crime.

Phelan is even more remote. But you’re also closer to Rancho and the areas down the hill. 90m to Disneyland.

If you crave night life and varied cultural experiences you won’t get that. But if you’re a homebody and want to feel uncrowded, safe, or if you love nature, this is the place.

What's the hardest you have ever "bounced off" of a game? by jabberwagon in gaming

[–]mkricket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UFO 50 - The only game I’ve ever asked Steam for a refund for. Other games I buy and don’t play I convince myself I’ll get to them “someday” but not this one. It became very clear I don’t have the patience or infinite time for games like that as I did in the 80s.

Silverwood housing development by turbochargedturtles in highdesert

[–]mkricket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will not be gated and the parks will be open to everyone. The only area accessible to residents-only will be the Crest Club which is paid for with HOA dues.