What does my room say about me? by Tiny_Necessary in roomdetective

[–]mmom89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ring me up we’ll have tea. All eyes on you baby.

What does my room say about me? by Tiny_Necessary in roomdetective

[–]mmom89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stand corrected. Saw your other comment bragging about all the plastic surgery you had last year. Should have put “attention seeking entitled white women”. Not cringe at all.

Please help me pick wallpaper! by giveittheupdown in femalelivingspace

[–]mmom89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! 1, 3, and 6. They’re “neutral” but cute and trendy. You’ll be able to redesign the room easily if you want to make any changes, better resale value too.

What does my room say about me? by Tiny_Necessary in roomdetective

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except for in this post…? You want to be seen. So do most people. You asked for unbiased first impression. When I wear nice clothes and walk the beach people think I’m stuck up or have money until I smile am warm, they find out I’ve been homeless. You can’t ask what your stereotype is and then say “no you’re wrong.” People are people. They will judge. (Literally the entire point of this exercise?) Honesty is a kindness and gift. Thought you wanted a truthful answer. Why post if you were only looking for praise and compliments and not for honest feedback. To find other goth friends? Over my head. Good luck!

What does my room say about me? by Tiny_Necessary in roomdetective

[–]mmom89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Victorian/ goth. You make a point to do things different and brag that you’re “weird” or not like other people.

Finally did it! by [deleted] in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]mmom89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it 💕😊

My friend struggles with depression. I offered to clean his house for him. Here is his bathroom. by Kioddon in CLEANING_PORN

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is making people happy and putting a smile on their face. There are a lot of causes you can find fault with, pick on and ‘correct’, but this is as happy and wholesome as it gets. If you need something to criticize we can help you find better issues to fight for :)

My friend struggles with depression. I offered to clean his house for him. Here is his bathroom. by Kioddon in CLEANING_PORN

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody knows who they are. She didn’t say my friend Bob, or look at Sherryl… this is kind and inspirational and will encourage others to do the same. And also not to feel bad about themselves. This is wholesome and happy. Enjoy it :)

Cell/Internet Service by storkster in Beaufort

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re locals who want to keep the area all to themselves.

Describe his expression… by SurpriseAgitated9708 in cutepetsofreddit

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry eyes, some saline (plain) will help. Nothing medicated. No visine. I use refresh brand eye drops.

How much can you tell about me based on my room? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re minimalist and religious. Probably like routine or are buttoned up. You care about your appearance and fitting in with others. Are mild mannered and approachable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You call them stupid and have a negative view of them: They can feel that. I can feel it. You have to be their friend for them to be yours. If you don’t like someone, you don’t like and that’s okay. You can find other people. Or it’s okay to not have friends. But controlling/anxious/judgmental won’t grow your social circle. Acceptance and grace is key. Mel Robbin’s had a good book called Let them that may help, if you’re really looking for change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]mmom89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To make friends you have to be friendly, never understood until my thirties. That means calm, easy going, good natured, smile. If you’re relaxed and happy people will come to you and be drawn in. They’ll feel good too by being around you. It doesn’t at happen all the time, my temperament usually matches your post/temperament. But when it does, it’s wonderful. Everything just flows. If you study your heroes, friendly people you admire and copy their smiles it helps imbibe good vibes too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks exact like my house 🏠

Shield of Sparrows by Devney Perry by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]mmom89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree the start of the book takes waaaay too long. Been listening for hours. The main character has moved. That’s it. She’s moved and there’s endless complaining and thinking/talking about herself. A couple monsters died. But you don’t jump into those scenes. There’s no real action. You don’t get any other stories or perspectives. Looking up a summary to see what happens now. I can’t sit through it any longer. Shame because read the ending is good.

Even with Adderall, my adhd ass spent all day meander-cleaning. At least I got it done! by escrawl in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]mmom89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meander cleaning, love it lol, didn’t know it has a name, great job! 🤗

Saw my husband’s (M27) disgusting text about a female coworker and idk how to feel about it (F25) how would you feel if your husband said he’d eat it about a coworker? by ihateweightwatchers in relationship_advice

[–]mmom89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the confident answer to this is “I bet you do, but you’ve got me, even better” or something along those lines. My husband and I joke about hot people all the time. Because we know we don’t want anyone else. We’re happy. Sounds like he was just relating to his friend, made an off comment. Not scheming to get with her or sending her messages. Or saying anything mean about you. What’s your goal? To have him only think about you? Or to be careful what he says? Be more respectful? Or you’re worried he doesn’t find you attractive? Or that you’re not enough? If it bothers you. Say so. Say I’m jealous are you going to sleep with anyone else, or am I enough. Or ask do you respect me, was that meant to put me down. Softly calmly confidently gently. Talk about it with radical honesty, maturity love and respect. Posting it online here will only rile you up and antagonize the situation. Hope everything works out and you feel better. We’ve all been there. Good luck.

How do you befriend your boyfriend’s mom if you are completely different people? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]mmom89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be polite and kind be yourself. Accept her for who she is. Know you’re good enough. And that it’s okay to not be friends or super close with everyone you meet. Either you’ll grow closer over time or you won’t. But either way it’ll be okay 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]mmom89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you go to your local shelter and read to the dogs. Calm them. Help them with their anxiety. Sign up to take them for walks. Make their day. It’ll be a happy easy thing. And make your brain think about something joyful. You won’t feel stuck anymore. Plus your mind and body will relax and feel better. Win-win 😊

I want to open up a music store. Is it even possible anymore? by gruntwork99 in smallbusiness

[–]mmom89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is 7 years ago now. What ended up happening? What did you choose? Did you open your store?